How picky are you in relationships?

[Vulpix]

Just how selective are you when it comes to picking a partner for relationships? Anything from one-night-stands to serious relationships :coffee:.
If you have more than one set of criteria for more or less serious relationships, pick the less restrictive criteria.

Does your choice also reflect your past behavior?

[coldielox]

i was young, and stupid as a child in HS... i picked out side my race cause i feared white males due to abuse in my house hold... but luckily i got over that and married a very handsome white man, and now have the most beautiful white children... luckily, i never once had sexual relations with any of my past mistakes :D

[SwordoftheVistula]

Generally, those of 'nordic appearance'. Blonde hair, blue (or maybe green) eyes, pale skin.

[Fortis in Arduis]

The women in my life have been white, but I never chose them on that basis.

I am not really the relationship sort of guy. I am mildly autistic and quite into my self, therefore. Not much of a chaser.

However, my partners were attractive to me in the non-physical sense for rare qualities that only white people have and physically they were were good matches and into the same foods too. We had body chemistry too, you see.

It is do with a certain way of thinking and being and we met through education.

I would not bother looking outside my meta-ethnicity these days. I can see the way the world is going, and it would be highly irreponsible, but racial and cultural foreigners do not really have what it takes anyway. :)

I might be more interested in meeting a fellow Aspergers' 'sufferer'... Who knows? :)

[HawkR]

I could have a relatioship with any germanic, but I prefer Norwgians, even though they are tough ones:p

EDIT: It ain't the nationality that are most important, it's the way she(he for you women of course:p) acts around others. I don't like my gf being friend with her exes, but as long as she doesn't hang out with them, it's okay, still, it bothers me. And when it comes to kissing someone else, no mather who or why, HELL NO! I had my share with that and no fucking more! If my gf would kiss or make out with another girl(since this seem accepted(WTF?), she might get a second chance, but if it happened again, hell no! That is total relationship killer.

[Absinthe]

Well the meta-ethnicity for me is equivalent to ethnicity :p so I picked 'White' because AF asked for the less restrictive criteria.

I've neer been into a relationship with a non-greek, but I wouldn't totally rule that possibility out although it seems unlikely as I'm already 30 and in a steady relationship that seems to be heading somewhere. ;)

[SuuT]

Eeesh. Although I'd 'like' to be able to fit into the moulds offered-up in the poll, I just don't seem to reflect these criteria.

In other words, it depends on the nature of the "relationship".



I consider myself 'poly-sexual'; however, I have never strayed too far away from the phenotype of that which is represented in Arctic Fox's Avatara.

Indeed, if that is you A.F., we've a discussion to have ;):D.

[Loki]

Indeed, if that is you A.F., we've a discussion to have ;):D.

That avatar doesn't do her justice. :coffee:

[Dresden]

I only dated white women with political views compatible with mine (not necessarily European preservationists, but who at least like and appreciate Western civilization and those who created it). I wasn't picky about specific ethnic backgrounds as long as the women were white.

My past behavior reflected these standards, as does the woman I married.

[SuuT]

That avatar doesn't do her justice. :coffee:


It is she, then? :D:);)

[Skandi]

Of Northern European decent, but they have to be British also, as I find that too many cultural differences come up otherwise, I could probably be with someone from Norway or Sweden but that is because my upbringing included their cultures.

The above is what has happened in the past :)

[Loki]

Must be "Nordish" phenotypically, regardless of ethnicity. I prefer blue eyes in a lady, and blonde hair. And added attributes: tall, beautiful and intelligent too. :thumb001:

Not too much to ask eh? :coffee:

[Susi]

Only Russians. :D

Well, it just worked out that way at this point in my life, with the majority of my friends being Russian or Ukrainian.

I prefer English men who end sentences with "innit" or "intit".

[Ulf]

As long as they're exactly like my wife I am not picky.

[Loyalist]

Non-Europeans are right out, of course, and as a matter of principle I have little to no social contact with Slavs, Mediterraneans, or anything not part of the Celtogermanic realm, ruling out any relationships. That said, I used to be of the mindset that there are sufficient similarities between the various Germanic and Celtic peoples that it would not be inappropriate to look beyond specific ethnic lines and enter into a relationship with an individual originating from either group. Lately, however, I've come to the realisation that, in both an ethnic and cultural sense, my identity overwhelmingly stems from the British Isles, and the continental Germanic component is, by comparison, almost insignificant. Ideally, I'd prefer someone of British Isles stock, whether by birth or ancestry doesn't really matter to me. I also won't rule out a continental Germanic, Dutch and Germans in particular, as I'm in frequent contact with them through school and the like. In the case of the latter, however, they must be Canadian-born, as I find there's much more compatibility.

I'm not holding out much hope though; all I seem to attract as of late are Poles and Lithuanians. :(

[Tolleson]

As long as they're exactly like my wife I am not picky.


As long as she is my wife, we're good to go.:D

[Atlas]

Just white, that's all I ask to a girl.

[Absinthe]

Just white, that's all I ask to a girl.
http://www.vat19.com/blog/fat-women-bbw-singles.jpg

:D

[Brynhild]

My white Pagan Knight is still out there, somewhere...

[safinator]

"White"

[Riki]

Same ancestry
Same Meta-ethnicity
"White"

The above.Same Region and same Nationality are no longer credible.
But my Dad always said"If you get to picky you will end up with what you don't want."
Im glad for once he was wrong:thumb001:

[mymy]

Hm... I care more about common interests, same view of life, understanding and similar system of values. Look is less important, average of any Euro phenotype is enough if other aspects are good... Would be nice if he would be European of any nation. I wouldn't look for non Europeans, but if it happen that i find love with some of them somehow, i would accept it. :)

[dandelion]

Same nationality, unless he is Jamie Dornan.

[Luke]

WHITE


meaning light eyes, light hair, progressive genes clear by simply viewing her..

no obesity issues, no skin issues due to lack of care

[Supreme American]

Meta-ethnicity is obviously going to be more important in Europe. Here in North America, it's just not an issue.

[Corraidh]

Only if the Hael from the Gael (... or Brit, lol). ;)

[zack]

It depends on your definition of white.

I would get with a girl if she had minor non-white admixture as long as she did not identify with it. I for example would not care if i got with a girl who was 1/8th mongoloid or something.

10-12% of the DNA is not a big thing for me unless its negro.

[European Loyalist]

Just speaking in terms of ethnicity I would prefer someone who's ancestry is largely from the British Isles, but that's flexible. Just generally anybody who's an ethnic-European and from the maritimes - except she can't be French, my grandfather would kill me :(:p:D (my region has hardly any Acadians so it won't ever come up)

[heathen_son]

I am incrediably picky.

- Same region
- Blue eyes
- English heritage*, preferably Anglian (it sounds absurd, but I believe I can recognise regional faces)

*though I am not too bothered by an amount of other British or Germanic influence.

[mymy]

I am curious to know how serious are people who has all those preferences about look, or certain origin and ethnicity and don't mention anything other.
I mean, why i need reincarnation of Adonis if i can't speak even two words with him and if we doesn't match good in important things...

[derLowe]

i was young, and stupid as a child in HS... i picked out side my race cause i feared white males due to abuse in my house hold... but luckily i got over that and married a very handsome white man, and now have the most beautiful white children... luckily, i never once had sexual relations with any of my past mistakes :D

When I was younger i dated every one and any one. When i got to about 25 I started picking my mates with more care.

[Pellonpekko]

"White".

[European Loyalist]

I am curious to know how serious are people who has all those preferences about look, or certain origin and ethnicity and don't mention anything other.
I mean, why i need reincarnation of Adonis if i can't speak even two words with him and if we doesn't match good in important things...

The poll is just asking about ethnicity/race. You have been daydreaming again :p

[Hess]

I am extremely picky about character, personality, and morals, but I don't care about her ancestry as long as she's a European.

[Midori]

''White'', but I can make an exception for an East Asian.

[Alberta1]

Circassian, and this is the girl I am going to get married with, since culturally this is what I am, and this what my father wants. I have known the girl for 5 years, and so probably the wedding will take place soon, we already got the rings and the ceremony will be traditionally Circassian. For me personality, cultural elements are the most important.

[Sinbad]

The women in my life have been white, but I never chose them on that basis.

I am not really the relationship sort of guy. I am mildly autistic and quite into my self, therefore. Not much of a chaser.

However, my partners were attractive to me in the non-physical sense for rare qualities that only white people have and physically they were were good matches and into the same foods too. We had body chemistry too, you see.

It is do with a certain way of thinking and being and we met through education.

I would not bother looking outside my meta-ethnicity these days. I can see the way the world is going, and it would be highly irreponsible, but racial and cultural foreigners do not really have what it takes anyway. :)

I might be more interested in meeting a fellow Aspergers' 'sufferer'... Who knows? :)

I really hope you find what your looking for, as you don't sound very happy at the moment, who knows the right woman could be just around the corner.
And someone with the same illness maybe what you need.
I know I wouldn't want to be with some one who is self centred all the time, so do the right thing and get an annulment.

[Gaztelu]

Well, since I live in the USA, I might as well pick "White".

[rhiannon]

Regardless of what ever the hell I may have been looking for....and my stance pretty much mirrors mymy's (shock...I know;) ), none of it matters now, for this is who I wound up with:
http://www.theapricity.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=14546&d=1315130517
He is a perfect husband and quite a cutiepie, if I may say so myself:thumb001:

His ancestry is pretty similar to mine (except the Italian part)...and as Americans, these kinds of matches are the norm. I am quite happy, overall.

[Bakura]

Being White and speak Serbo-Croatian is most important in my book.

[Strawberry]

East Mediterranean's And English Men are my Ideal:)

[dandelion]

I am curious to know how serious are people who has all those preferences about look, or certain origin and ethnicity and don't mention anything other.
I mean, why i need reincarnation of Adonis if i can't speak even two words with him and if we doesn't match good in important things...

Ehm, obviously, I won't pick a random Greek and date him, just because he is Greek. We ll talk, I ll find if we have similar thoughts and thinking and then date.

[Loki]

I used to be into Germanic girls only, but now I'm much more open to Balkanites, for example. :)

[Thraex]

I used to be into Germanic girls only, but now I'm much more open to Balkanites, for example. :)

A certain redhead converted you, eh? :D

Ontopic - I used to be pretty flexible about dating whoever. But after having several bad experiences in a few relationships. I now am much more picky and only choose those with a good personality, is reasonable, and isn't just after money. I especially now avoid women who love to go on shopping sprees. A crazy bad habit by shallow bitches. :D

If we're just looking at types of people we could date then... I think I am fairly flexible in that field. I probably won't mind dating German ladies, or other Euros. If it's gotten to a point where a relationship could be furthered to marriage then I am probably more picky there. I would preferably marry someone close to my background such as someone from the ex-Yu or the Balkans (though I don't really like Balkan ladies who put on a ton makeup and try to look like Pamela Anderson).

As an additional note, if I stayed in London a lot longer... then I would have probably started dating with a Stuttgart native and man she was an awesome person. :cry2:

[Sinbad]

The women in my life have been white, but I never chose them on that basis.

I am not really the relationship sort of guy. I am mildly autistic and quite into my self, therefore. Not much of a chaser.

However, my partners were attractive to me in the non-physical sense for rare qualities that only white people have and physically they were were good matches and into the same foods too. We had body chemistry too, you see.

It is do with a certain way of thinking and being and we met through education.

I would not bother looking outside my meta-ethnicity these days. I can see the way the world is going, and it would be highly irreponsible, but racial and cultural foreigners do not really have what it takes anyway. :)

I might be more interested in meeting a gay Aspergers' 'sufferer'... Who knows? :)


I really hope you find what your looking for, as you don't sound very happy at the moment, who knows the right woman could be just around the corner.
And someone with the same illness maybe what you need.
I know I wouldn't want to be with some one who is self centred all the time, so do the right thing and get an annulment.

I think it only fare to your Cival partner that you tell him before you go off with some fanny flaps flaps dipping your 7.5" into the dark hole of flangitas ect...

[dralos]

i met my dreamgirl in shkodra,blonde curly hair with ice blue yes,and long legs just a goddes but she disappeared all of a sudden,now i'm lost and searching for her,but i usually have to stop on some parkings and then move on again

[Leliana]

Either of German and Austrian nationality, and preferably of Catholic faith. :) People should begin to stick to their own again.

[PetiteParisienne]

Same ancestry/white. All I care about is that the person is of European lineage and not fanatically religious.

[Bonita]

A minimum requirement is that he has to be white.

[Rastko]

Extremely.
I think dating anyone is underestimating yourself and personal insult.

[Leadchucker]

Way past looking for love or a lover being with the same woman for 45 years. But...if I was to have to go on the hunt again, at my age breathing and can walk would be important traits.

[Lena]

Extremely.
I think dating anyone is underestimating yourself and personal insult.

Agreed. I'm extremely picky too.

[PetiteParisienne]

Way past looking for love or a lover being with the same woman for 45 years. But...if I was to have to go on the hunt again, at my age breathing and can walk would be important traits.

Congratulations to you and your lady for such a long relationship. That's wonderful. I hope my mister and I will be as successful.

[dralos]

i would have married PP,if i wasn't married to misses and if PP wasn't married either

[PetiteParisienne]

i would have married PP,if i wasn't married to misses and if PP wasn't married either

And if I weren't married, I would have said yes. You might have had to fight Nglund in a duel first, though.

[dralos]

And if I weren't married, I would have said yes. You might have had to fight Nglund in a duel first, though.
that wouldn't have been a problem atall:D

[PetiteParisienne]

that wouldn't have been a problem atall:D

Pistols at dawn!

[dralos]

Pistols at dawn!
i'm a knight i fight with my fists and sword:D

[Anthropologique]

I'm Celtic and married a woman of Celtic descent.

[Nglund]

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[PetiteParisienne]

i'm a knight i fight with my fists and sword:D

All right. Blades, then.

[Nglund]

FECK THA'!http://www.dodgecoronet.com/forum/images/smilies/Machine_20Gun_20Smiley.gif

[Incal]

I am curious to know how serious are people who has all those preferences about look, or certain origin and ethnicity and don't mention anything other.
I mean, why i need reincarnation of Adonis if i can't speak even two words with him and if we doesn't match good in important things...

Bingo! I swear you are one of the most intelligent persons I've had the chance to 'meet' mymy.

[Sinbad]

All right. Blades, then.

I fight with my mind, whitch? ???

[Sinbad]

Bingo! I swear you are one of the most intelligent persons I've had the chance to 'meet' mymy.

Mymy is fantastic!"!

[Gigolo]

im very picky but not when it comes to ethnicity,race. i choose willing to race mix.

[Peyrol]

Pistols at dawn!

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[Richard]

I'm italian so she has to be female and breathing.

[Peyrol]

I am curious to know how serious are people who has all those preferences about look, or certain origin and ethnicity and don't mention anything other.
I mean, why i need reincarnation of Adonis if i can't speak even two words with him and if we doesn't match good in important things...

I had many friends in the past who were looking for "a 100% italian girl, born and grown in the peninsula, preferabily with brown or black hairs, very slim body and big b**bs"...and at the end many of them have dated (or married) japanese or northern euro girls :D

[Sigur Rós]

Not so picky :b , as long as she's good hearted

[Aiur]

Not so picky :b , as long as she's good hearted

that means 'big tits' :))ofc
WHITE FTW

[Sinbad]

Some like them in lace,
Some like them in leather
I like them better
When they sit on my face.

[Sigur Rós]

that means 'big tits' :))ofc
WHITE FTW

The physical is important but it's not all in a relationship.. :)

[Didriksson]

Really, really, extremely picky... I just don't have time to deal with people with no goals and vitality. Ethnicity is secondary, though ofc I hope to build a family with someone from ''my tribe''. :)

[Barreldriver]

I used to be extremely picky in that I would not consider a non-Southron as a partner, however in recent days I view my past logic as unsound and I can find merits in females from other cultures. Figure as long as I manage to pass on something of my heritage to another generation that is enough no matter what the mother is.

[Ariets]

I dont choose who I fall in love, Im not a robot.

[Indiohammer]

Bingo! I swear you are one of the most intelligent persons I've had the chance to 'meet' mymy.

Then what's the whole point of this forum? I tought it was about being a ' Preservationist ' no?

[Incal]

Then what's the whole point of this forum? I tought it was about being a ' Preservationist ' no?

To me, it's about preserving culture. I don't know about the others.

[Sinbad]

Then what's the whole point of this forum? I tought it was about being a ' Preservationist ' no?

Leave mymy alone she is loverly wont have a bad word said.

[Corvus]

I would consider all European women North/West/South or East
Don`t mind haircolour.

[Robert]

Don't like floozies or loose women but women are pretty frivolous by nature and make a lot of really terrible choices so it's really impossible to look for some virtuous relationship. You need to make some compromises if you want something long term.

[Sinbad]

Gotta pulse???

[gandalf]

I am very pricky ...

[Anarch]

I've only ever dated girls of British descent (I use that term broadly, meaning descendents of the natives of the British Isles). My ex-wife's family is Scottish, previous girlfriends have been either English or Irish by background.

[Supreme American]

I dont choose who I fall in love, Im not a robot.

People choose the types they're willing to date and consider relationships with, though.

[Supreme American]

To me, it's about preserving culture. I don't know about the others.

Race and culture are very closely related.

[ironman]

When i was young and single i was like Rod Stewart, i only went out with blondes!

[rhiannon]

When i was young and single i was like Rod Stewart, i only went out with blondes!

Hubs only likes blondes:)

[Benacer]

Anything goes. :)

[Black Sun Dimension]

Ive never dated niggers and never will even if my life depended on it. Other than that my arms are open to any lady.

[Supreme American]

Ive never dated niggers and never will even if my life depended on it. Other than that my arms are open to any lady.

Help yourself.

http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3559/3393300276_a958bf5278_z.jpg?zz=1

http://ripleysnyc.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/padaung_tribe_women.jpg

[Gigolo]

Was thinking hard about it again, and still came to no reall conclusion. One new thing i might add is that if i perceive her as very foreign then i might be scared at first, but for me its not about the race, its about my personal perception and a feeling.

edit: if i visit her parents home and they dance naked in the kitchen or smth

[Black Sun Dimension]

Help yourself.

http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3559/3393300276_a958bf5278_z.jpg?zz=1

http://ripleysnyc.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/padaung_tribe_women.jpg

Hawt.

[Rastko]

edit: if i visit her parents home and they dance naked in the kitchen or smth

:eek::D:D

[Gigolo]

:eek::D:D

Lagergeld pictures of the naked black women reminded of it:D

[rhiannon]

http://ripleysnyc.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/padaung_tribe_women.jpg

I feel a choking sensation just from seeing this pic:eek:

[Loki]

Help yourself.

http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3559/3393300276_a958bf5278_z.jpg?zz=1

http://ripleysnyc.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/padaung_tribe_women.jpg

If ever there was an instance of cherry-picking, this would be it ;)