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EagleAtHeart
01-25-2013, 06:07 PM
So, I come home early from class. I open the door and my gf is on the bed. She seems startled, sits upright, changes the browser window, then runs some cleaner program to delete her browsing history.

I ask her what was she doing and she gets mad, starts crying, and then ignores me.

Can any woman here tell me what she was doing? Chatting with another guy?

I wouldn't doubt it, I never trusted this girl -- I always thought Eastern Euro women were either gold-diggers or sociopaths -- and it's pretty much just a relationship of convenience for me at this point, i.e. until I can find another attractive European girl (which is surprisingly hard in my city)

Jackson
01-25-2013, 06:09 PM
I guess if you are treating it as a relationship of convenience until you find a better girl, then it's not surprising if she is doing the same.

Corvus
01-25-2013, 06:11 PM
I can`t give you proper advice because I have no experience with relationships, I just think you should not overrate it. Maybe she just chated a bit with another guy and was kind of embarassed when you appeared. Or maybe she watched porn

Albion
01-25-2013, 06:14 PM
She was obviously touching herself on webcam. Come on man, she's hardly going to be surfing naked, cry about it and delete the history if she was browsing Wikipedia. :picard1:

Slycooper
01-25-2013, 06:16 PM
Probably watching porn lol.

larali
01-25-2013, 06:18 PM
Porn of course.

Slycooper
01-25-2013, 06:19 PM
But then again? Who cries for watching porn?

EagleAtHeart
01-25-2013, 06:23 PM
I guess if you are treating it as a relationship of convenience until you find a better girl, then it's not surprising if she is doing the same.


That belies the point that when I met her approx. a year ago she was destitute, working as a nanny here for minimum wage. I got her a work and study permit, got her accepted into a top ranked law school (she didn't even qualify, but the letter I wrote for her was so good she got accepted, and I trained and then paid for LSAT courses), got her reduced domestic fees, got her a bursary to fund it (i personally applied to hundreds for her), then wrote her resume and got her a teaching job making $40 / hour, 4 times more than she used to make. I've also let her stay with me rent free, and dished out thousands on clothes, and school/fees. In one year her life has progressed leaps and bounds. If she hadn't met me, she'd be working some minimum wage job with no future, or stripping.

But, despite that, I never even wanted this relationship. I did all that because I'm just a good guy. It's just sort of dragged on for a year because, at my school, in my city, just seeing an attractive white woman is a highlight of my day (not meeting, or talking to one - just seeing). I'm around Asians and Pakistani's/Indians all day. She was just one of the very few beautiful women I'v met in the last two years

EagleAtHeart
01-25-2013, 06:25 PM
But then again? Who cries for watching porn?

Well, she cries over everything I confront her with. It's crocodile tears to get out of talking/confrontation.

Slycooper
01-25-2013, 06:27 PM
Well, she cries over everything I confront her with. It's crocodile tears to get out of talking/confrontation.

oh I see. I am pretty sure there is a way where you can still see history even after it being erased. If your very serious about the situation.

Aredhel
01-25-2013, 06:29 PM
So, I come home early from class. I open the door and my gf is on the bed. She seems startled, sits upright, changes the browser window, then runs some cleaner program to delete her browsing history.

I ask her what was she doing and she gets mad, starts crying, and then ignores me.

Can any woman here tell me what she was doing? Chatting with another guy?

I wouldn't doubt it, I never trusted this girl -- I always thought Eastern Euro women were either gold-diggers or sociopaths -- and it's pretty much just a relationship of convenience for me at this point, i.e. until I can find another attractive European girl (which is surprisingly hard in my city)

I think she was watching porn :p

larali
01-25-2013, 06:30 PM
I think she was either watching porn or talking to a guy, but she might just be PMSing too.

Slycooper
01-25-2013, 06:31 PM
The mind of a woman. World's biggest mystery.

EagleAtHeart
01-25-2013, 06:34 PM
oh I see. I am pretty sure there is a way where you can still see history even after it being erased. If your very serious about the situation.

She used ccleaner to wipe her history when she saw me.

I'm not going to install key loggers or any of those things.

If she was talking to a guy, I don't care. I'll just open the gate to greener pastures.

At least I can leave in good conscious knowing I had a positive effect on her life. My last gf said I was like a parasite to her lol so I balance out my karma this way.

Corvus
01-25-2013, 06:35 PM
The mind of a woman. World's biggest mystery.

Well yeah an enigma to solve :)

Slycooper
01-25-2013, 06:36 PM
She used ccleaner to wipe her history when she saw me.

I'm not going to install key loggers or any of those things.

If she was talking to a guy, I don't care. I'll just open the gate to greener pastures.

At least I can leave in good conscious knowing I had a positive effect on her life. My last gf said I was like a parasite to her lol so I balance out my karma this way.

Make sure you get it in a few more times lol.