Ladies, explain this shit to me.

[Óttar]

OK, so I have an account on a halfway decent dating site. It sucks, but it's still the best dating site out there. Despite the fact that I am incredibly good looking, not to mention a genius, the vast majority of the time chicks don't respond to my messages despite them being courteous and having impeccable spelling and grammar.

I have heard women bitch and moan about getting messages from stupid guys, saying dumb shit, sending them dick pics etc. Now, I can see why this would be annoying, but I have met a few women who also have accounts on this site, and they receive 60 messages every 2 weeks. Oftentimes, their message boxes are filled to the brim. Despite getting 60 messages in such a short period of time, they are not content and they don't think anything of it.

Now, honest to God, I cannot understand this as, if I got 60 messages every two weeks from cute girls I would be so thrilled I would never complain or be upset about anything ever.

I imagine if I were a woman, I would be so happy, I could be like, "Gee, I've never had a redhead before. Let's see what that's like." and then I could be like, "I'll have that hot dark-haired guy for breakfast, the cute blond for lunch, and the chic artist in girl-pants for dinner. On top of that, I'll get the guy in the motorcycle jacket, and the jock to alternate fanning me and feeding me grapes."

And women complain about MALE privilege!? Seriously, can a woman PLEASE explain this shit to me.

[MissProvocateur]

Not everything revolves around getting laid, and chances are 59 out of those 60 guys are either jerks, idiots, pervs, or unattractive. Often the four.

[Kazimiera]

The difference is that women are choosy. As you can see, there is no shortage of male suitors to choose from. Women select the best of the best for themselves. Whereas males.... if it's got a pulse and a pussy, he's in there.

[Prisoner Of Ice]

You mean you are upset women don't want to have sex with you and be discarded? They can get that from any guy more or less, or if not particular guy then guy of same quality. Women want to find more than that, if that's all you have to offer you are going to have to pay for it.

As for looks, you can't judge them yourself.

You are only so good looking as the hottest woman who would sleep with you with no prompting, who approaches you on her own (and if this has never happened, you are not good looking at all).

Women are only as good as the hottest guy who would propose to them. The rest is just delusional fantasy, most people today seem to think if they are not morbidly obese they are 8/10 at least.

[McCauley]

Maybe you aren't as good looking as you think.

[Neanderthal]

Chances are women in those sites look for much more shit than just getting laid. They dream about a romantic knight who makes them fall in love, writte them poems and corny stuff like that.

I would never cheat on my girlfriend, not just because of my principles; too much sugar is too much.

[armenianbodyhair]

post a picture of yourself...

[blklady2013]

OK, so I have an account on a halfway decent dating site. It sucks, but it's still the best dating site out there. Despite the fact that I am incredibly good looking, not to mention a genius, the vast majority of the time chicks don't respond to my messages despite them being courteous and having impeccable spelling and grammar.

I have heard women bitch and moan about getting messages from stupid guys, saying dumb shit, sending them dick pics etc. Now, I can see why this would be annoying, but I have met a few women who also have accounts on this site, and they receive 60 messages every 2 weeks. Oftentimes, their message boxes are filled to the brim. Despite getting 60 messages in such a short period of time, they are not content and they don't think anything of it.

Now, honest to God, I cannot understand this as, if I got 60 messages every two weeks from cute girls I would be so thrilled I would never complain or be upset about anything ever.

I imagine if I were a woman, I would be so happy, I could be like, "Gee, I've never had a redhead before. Let's see what that's like." and then I could be like, "I'll have that hot dark-haired guy for breakfast, the cute blond for lunch, and the chic artist in girl-pants for dinner. On top of that, I'll get the guy in the motorcycle jacket, and the jock to alternate fanning me and feeding me grapes."

And women complain about MALE privilege!? Seriously, can a woman PLEASE explain this shit to me.

Stop lying...I'm actually pretty sure you have an inbox filled to the brim with women you aren't interested in either. Lol!
As for women not responding to you, what does your message say? Are you trying to politely solicit them for sex with no strings attached...(if you are, you're probably not gonna get much of a response because maybe the women on the site want more than an Ottar booty call)

[Aerin]

What kind of messages are you sending? Maybe you're coming off as a little arrogant...

[Óttar]

post a picture of yourself...

You are only so good looking as the hottest woman who would sleep with you with no prompting, who approaches you on her own (and if this has never happened, you are not good looking at all).

I have had girls walk up to me in bars, sit next to me, and I didn't know what to say and/or was depressed. Once I finished my $11 cocktail, got up dispirited, and walked out.