Adoption - for or against?

[Herr Abubu]

Can she not fix it with medical procedure? Well you can always adopt either way.

Don't give bad advice to people, adoptions only cause misery. Foster parents invariably treat their adopted children like shit. You'll only bond with your biological children—the bonding process is extremely important in familial relationship.

[Herr Abubu]

Why were my posts deleted?

it's better than not having no parents at all

No, it isn't. Adoptive parents can rarely do a good and proper job, only if they are related—uncles, aunts, grandparents, etc. The worst thing of all is if your adoptive parents are gay, then it is better to kill the children lest they be corrupted. Send these children to monasteries. I don't think you would need to adopt, though. You're just very insecure.

[Herr Abubu]

i dont want to grow up a child , i lack maternal insticts
but if i change my mind then the only available option is adoption , i dont want to give part of my genoma to an innocent child. there isnt anything good to give

There are only a few reasons you make a child.

1. To participate in the divine creative act, to pass on the Imago Dei.
2. To pass on your own image, likeness, heritage, ancestry.
3. It is to receive the gift of union, two flesh becoming one.
4. To fulfill the role of father or mother, as a result of former 3 points.

Even worse than giving a child your genoma would be to give a child your very deep insecurities. Go talk with an Orthodox priest.

[Profileid]

How could anyone be against adoption?

[Hoxhaism]

[Enflamme]

Hetero adoption : yes, but it depends on people. Homo (woman or man) degenerated bullshit : absolutely not, 100000x not.

[Yggdrasil]

I'm obviously for adoption. Children deserve someone to take care of them. Someone they can talk to, come home to, play with etc. I think it's generalizing saying that adoption only causes misery and you can only bond with your biological parents. Of course there are bad foster parents but i doubt they represent a majority. The alternative for these children would be growing up without anyone, alone and abandoned.

[Oneeye]

Foster parents are completely different from adoptive parents.


Look, my grandmother, an aunt, and a couple cousins of mine are all adopted. Rest assured, that they have all been treated not only very well, but as part of the family, beacuse they are part of the family.

To suggest that adoptions shouldnt take place implies that they should be raised by government employees in some sort of orphanage.... Fuck that horrific idea.

[Poise n Pen]

Against international adoption, the rest is fine.

[Hithaeglir]

If the family is right,then for,especially for people that can't have their own children.The parents fullfill their need to care for someone and at the same time an abandoned child's life can change for the better.

One of my cousins is adopted and the love between his parents and him is amazing.