Does relationship/marriage seem hella boring to you?

**Shelby** · 10-05-2016, 04:54 PM

Hi

I swear if i see couples they always look so boring, all the fun is gone and now life is all about compromising till the break a dawn.

Do yall wanna get married n stuff like that? I really dunno. Id wanna be a single mum tho, no man around sounds great.

**zhaoyun** · 10-05-2016, 04:58 PM

Most marriages are boring, because most people settle or they just end up with someone that isn't the optimum level of compatibility but they just figure they had to settle down. So most marriages are pretty boring. There are some that aren't though and it's because the couple is a lot more compatible.

**Shelby** · 10-05-2016, 05:01 PM

Originally Posted by zhaoyun

Most marriages are boring, because most people settle or they just end up with someone that isn't the optimum level of compatibility but they just figure they had to settle down. So most marriages are pretty boring. There are some that aren't though and it's because the couple is a lot more compatible.

Idk like my parents never fight but they just seem boring like 2 family members they get along like bro and sis and they get along good but it doesnt seem like fun or exiting or anything like idk

**~~Böri~~** · 10-05-2016, 05:01 PM

The choice depends on the cultural background and people are always influenced by the environment they live in. In my country, there is a lot of propaganda for marriage. People are brainwashed into believing it's important starting from really early ages and it becomes a challenge for girls esp. and if it delays it becomes even frustration reason. So even the uninterested people end by wedding in the end.

**~~Herr Abubu~~** · 10-05-2016, 05:03 PM

It'll only be as boring as the people in it.

**Shelby** · 10-05-2016, 05:03 PM

Originally Posted by Witness

The choice depends on the cultural background and people are always influenced by the environment they live in. In my country, there is a lot of propaganda for marriage. People are brainwashed into believing it's important starting from really early ages and it becomes a challenge for girls esp. and if it delays it becomes even frustration reason. So even the uninterested people end by wedding in the end.

Yea like age 25 they are basically old and done with

**Shelby** · 10-05-2016, 05:05 PM

Originally Posted by Midnight Phantom

It'll only be as boring as the people in it.

What are the odds i will find someone as fun as i am

**Colonel Frank Grimes** · 10-05-2016, 05:18 PM

Originally Posted by Shelby

Idk like my parents never fight but they just seem boring like 2 family members they get along like bro and sis and they get along good but it doesnt seem like fun or exiting or anything like idk

What do you want them to do? Go sky diving together? Decide on the spur of the moment to take a road trip to the Ukraine? They have obligations and they're tired from working all day. They just want some peace and quiet.

**Shelby** · 10-05-2016, 05:22 PM

Originally Posted by Colonel Frank Grimes

What do you want them to do? Go sky diving together? Decide on the spur of the moment to take a road trip to the Ukraine? They have obligations and they're tired from working all day. They just want some peace and quiet.

Yh whats fun bout that tho... idk they go on like 5 vacations in a year they do stuff, but idk if that interests me it still seems boring... i guess i just think i wont meet a guy that i like enough to do those things with

**~~Era~~** · 10-05-2016, 05:34 PM

Originally Posted by Shelby

Yh whats fun bout that tho... idk they go on like 5 vacations in a year they do stuff, but idk if that interests me it still seems boring... i guess i just think i wont meet a guy that i like enough to do those things with

Those extras only help a bit, it's really the compatibility that counts