I joined a casual sex sex site in order to deal with my virginity But i left as it weighed on me.

[MissMischief]

Joining a hookup site was not a bad idea per se, but from what you wrote, it seems like this means a fair bit to you. My advice to you would be to wait; remaining a virgin and having a good first sexual encounter (with someone you fancy and feel comfortable with) would be much better than losing it for the sake of losing it and then being filled with remorse. I know that you feel like you're missing out - it feels awful when it seems like everyone is doing it except you.

However, you will probably have a better time if you wait. It might be worth your while to stop 'waiting' for someone to come along though, just go out and find them - taking an active role in this will yield better returns, as hard as it might be.

[James David Caulton]

Joining a hookup site was not a bad idea per se, but from what you wrote, it seems like this means a fair bit to you. My advice to you would be to wait; remaining a virgin and having a good first sexual encounter (with someone you fancy and feel comfortable with) would be much better than losing it for the sake of losing it and then being filled with remorse. I know that you feel like you're missing out - it feels awful when it seems like everyone is doing it except you.

However, you will probably have a better time if you wait. It might be worth your while to stop 'waiting' for someone to come along though, just go out and find them - taking an active role in this will yield better returns, as hard as it might be.

Thank you

[Annie999]

Why are you sharing this?

[James David Caulton]

Why are you sharing this?

because I didn't get response on a previous forum which I use

[War Chef]

Those websites don't work because almost all women hate casual sex.... You'll have a bunch of dudes (100's) competing for 1 girl who may or may not be a sub-standard slut infected with STD's (that is, if she isn't a bot employed by website).....

Semen is your precious life-force if you;re gonna waste it on someone at least make it be someone who actually makes your heart beat fast.

[Hadouken]

Those websites don't work because almost all women hate casual sex.... You'll have a bunch of dudes (100's) competing for 1 girl who may or may not be a sub-standard slut infected with STD's (that is, if she isn't a bot employed by website).....

Semen is your precious life-force if you;re gonna waste it on someone at least make it be someone who actually makes your heart beat fast.

not only that but nowdays a lot of women on dating sites are there for their ego mostly . every guy writes them ...they get like 394 mails per day and they enjoy the attention . some years ago when the online dating stuff was more new it was more exciting and many women also were keen to actually meet someone. it was more active with more members and a lot of mail traffic .nowdays some dont even bother to click on guys profiles anymore to look who wrote them unless you write her an uber creative mail to get her attention since a lot of guys say "hi how are you" kind of stuff which "bores" the princesses even if they are dumb and/or weigh 10 tons and/or look like a scarecrow they demand a prince charming who will talk over the computer like a pick up artist and entertain her . there are still some ways to succeed ...mostly thorugh video chatting but tbh. it is not worth anymore ...online dating was good for shy people (like myself years ago I was too shy to cold approach women . it helped me meet many women and was very helpful in my dating life because I could improve through dates) but now real life game has become easier than online wtf . focus on real life OP

[Al-Meksiki]

You are weak

Those websites don't work because almost all women hate casual sex.... You'll have a bunch of dudes (100's) competing for 1 girl who may or may not be a sub-standard slut infected with STD's (that is, if she isn't a bot employed by website).....

Semen is your precious life-force if you;re gonna waste it on someone at least make it be someone who actually makes your heart beat fast.

Clearly you're not doing it right

[Oneeye]

not only that but nowdays a lot of women on dating sites are there for their ego mostly . every guy writes them ...they get like 394 mails per day and they enjoy the attention . some years ago when the online dating stuff was more new it was more exciting and many women also were keen to actually meet someone. it was more active with more members and a lot of mail traffic .nowdays some dont even bother to click on guys profiles anymore to look who wrote them unless you write her an uber creative mail to get her attention since a lot of guys say "hi how are you" kind of stuff which "bores" the princesses even if they are dumb and/or weigh 10 tons and/or look like a scarecrow they demand a prince charming who will talk over the computer like a pick up artist and entertain her . there are still some ways to succeed ...mostly thorugh video chatting but tbh. it is not worth anymore ...online dating was good for shy people (like myself years ago I was too shy to cold approach women . it helped me meet many women and was very helpful in my dating life because I could improve through dates) but now real life game has become easier than online wtf . focus on real life OP

Saying, "Hi, how are you" is absurdly underacheiving.

I've gone on Tinder, for the lolz, and I've been told that I stand out for my ability to have a conversation. Too many guys lack in that department.



OP: Just get yourslef out there and mingle with the women. Don't tell them you're a virgin, women hate having to "break in" a guy. Lie if you have to.. You can tell afterwards when you prematurely ejaculate. (And you will)


How old are you?

[Hadouken]

Saying, "Hi, how are you" is absurdly underacheiving.

I've gone on Tinder, for the lolz, and I've been told that I stand out for my ability to have a conversation. Too many guys lack in that department.



OP: Just get yourslef out there and mingle with the women. Don't tell them you're a virgin, women hate having to "break in" a guy. Lie if you have to.. You can tell afterwards when you prematurely ejaculate. (And you will)


How old are you?

I know but I prefer to use my conversation abilities for real life pick ups again and not for some random chick on the net who gets 10000 messages per day . I think it is also because I am fed up with the sites I have been on for years . never tried tinder for example . but I dont think I will . and arent you married you faggot ? wtf are you doing

[Oneeye]

I know but I prefer to use my conversation abilities for real life pick ups again and not for some random chick on the net who gets 10000 messages per day . I think it is also because I am fed up with the sites I have been on for years . never tried tinder for example . but I dont think I will . and arent you married you faggot ? wtf are you doing

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