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Yea, I did that for him for many years... I'd have to undo his boot laces and take off his heavy boots (I often struggled to untie and remove his heavy boots when I was an infant, but it got easier to lift his heavy boots off over the years,) and then he'd always make me take off his socks and massage his feet as a punishment if I did something wrong, sometimes for hours until I fell asleep by his feet.Originally Posted by Hithaeglir
Your father asked you to make him a sandwich and massage his feet?
Other times I had to file his nails down for him, or fetch ashtrays and cups of tea for him and his male friends. He also liked us preparing his coffee and toast and bringing it to him on a tray to his bed on Sunday mornings. It was nothing sexual, but sometimes I felt like his waitress and foot-masseuse.
He kicked me really hard once for wearing a perfume that my grandmother's friend gave to me once, as he had warned me previously not to wear it as he didn't like the floral scent as he said it was 'sickly'. (Maybe that's why I don't like floral perfumes as an adult, and only wear white musk and vanilla scents.)
If me or my sisters were travel-sick and vomited in his car, he'd put his fists to our faces. He didn't hit us, but he threatened to as he didn't like us being sick on the seats in his nice cars. We had to learn to use vomit-bags if we felt travel-sick. He didn't like us ever wearing jeans and insisted that girls are meant to wear skirts. My grandmother and mother also said that females should wear skirts and dresses and sit elegantly. By talking quietly and behaving properly, it prevented him from shouting and getting angry. Sometimes he'd put us across his knee, pull our skirts and knickers down, and spank us with a slipper as a punishment. He'd usually use his hand though and he wasn't afraid to do that in front of my aunts and uncles and my grandparents.
I was a very timid, quiet and shy child at my school and my parents disciplined me from a young age to be polite to people and to respect elders in society. My dad would get annoyed if we didn't sit up straight during mealtimes, or hold our cups and spoons a certain way, or if we didn't sip our tea quietly as children.
We had to close the doors on his car very quietly so not to make him angry, and we had to eat our crisps in a bowl and not from a packet which crackles and makes noise, as he'd get angry and volatile. I'm grateful that my father disciplined me and my sisters as children to sit and eat graciously though and have good table-manners and posture habits, etc, as some children grow-up without being disciplined and then they get greedy, loud, rude, spoiled, and out-of-control as adults.
I think females who were raised with domineering fathers are attracted to domineering men as I learned very early in life as a child that it's normal and natural for men to be authorative, like my father was with my mother who would stay at home and cook and clean and raised me and my sisters while my dad was busy working. My boyfriend is very macho and domineering and he likes me massaging him a lot too.
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