Plastic surgery: are you pro or contra?

[crazyladybutterfly]

Everyone has problems. Stop being so dramatic, trying to be a martyr. There's nothing wrong with you physically. You've had compliments from what I recall.

Your face tells a story who you are, where you come from, it is part of your identity. Respect it, respect yourself and appreciate it.
I also recall a post you chopped your hair off. It's all about how you feel about yourself, you will dress and groom yourself. Much like someone who is depressed for whatever reason, there are changes in perception made to physical reality.

People who see themselves in such a bad light sabotage themselves out of self loathing because they figure why bother, don't see themselves worthy. Perhaps this is coupled with bad parenting. There are neglectful parents that figure their children play in the dirt and hardly clean them up, aren't embarrassed of their children walking around with stains on their clothes, were you one of them?
Naturally people avert to filth much like refusing to use the public stall that wasn't flushed.

Some times draw bad treatment upon themselves by refusing responsibility, it's never them but everyone else.
Much like I know the chances of you insulting me, I'm not going to cry to a moderator. I chose to respond.

Things like charisma are not physical. This is an attitude, personality trait that comes from within when someone thinks highly of himself.

You don't need a face change to behave or feel you are someone. Once you feel worthy you will dress and behave as such and the look changes. You may still have the same features you once disliked but you treat yourself well then others will too as they wont see a weak nobody to stomp on. Others know when you think yourself as dirt.

1- my face doesn't even reflect my ethnicity (well i would be atypical anywhere) . I look like I am inbred anyway (carlus xII of sweden weirdly looks similar to me and he was clearly inbred though it didnt affect his intelligence and personality) , not that i think i am , i must have some mutations considering my parents age.
2- i have been ridiculed , even at the adult age, on the streets just for the way i look like.. i just pick the best pictures
3- yes i was neglected as a child but ugly children are more prone to be neglected than "normal"kids .. look it up
4- there are facial traits that one subconsciously links to physical strenght. not mine

[Marzipan]

1- my face doesn't even reflect my ethnicity (well i would be atypical anywhere) . I look like I am inbred anyway (carlus xII of sweden weirdly looks similar to me and he was clearly inbred though it didnt affect his intelligence and personality) , not that i think i am , i must have some mutations considering my parents age.
2- i have been ridiculed , even at the adult age, on the streets just for the way i look like.. i just pick the best pictures
3- yes i was neglected as a child but ugly children are more prone to be neglected than "normal"kids .. look it up
4- there are facial traits that one subconsciously links to physical strenght. not mine

I don't know how well you know your ancestry or if such parents are biological but seriously, despite the flaws you feel you possess are not as ugly as your feelings toward yourself.
Unless you've had genetic test stating you have features caused by a genetic defect (yes, defect because mutations are not bad) then there's nothing to worry about and not detrimental to your health.

You don't look like him. He appears to have what a fair of royals had as inbred, some kind of over or under bite. Although many have this and usually very acute cases that are not noticeable. Only extreme cases need treatment.

I think you resemble more an American actress. I forgot her name, I will search.

Ridicule comes from different minds. As you say you may look exotic. But this doesn't mean you're hideous or there's something wrong with your face. Also you are very natural, no make up. Is it common where you live for women not to wear makeup in public, if so this can also be a factor. Your style and behaviour can be the real reason but physique is easy target especially when is not ordinary in the area. People can make fun of one thing but it may not be the reason for the attack. And over time people know what works and that it works so they keep doing it. Everyone pick the best pictures.

Yes, ugly children are prone to neglect but this means usually unlike themselves. However, only bad parents neglect their child no matter how the child looks. So, not being satisfied with a child's look isn't an excuse for neglect.

You are female, why would you want your features to correlate to physical strength. Such women deal with ridicule of their own. But these women usually own their physique, don't waste much time feeling sorry for themselves or get plastic surgery. They may have their moments of weakness but then find their place in the world and have successful lives.

I can't say I've never met a person that hasn't been ridiculed or embarrassed at some point in their lives. Some more often than others. These happen with close family and friends to strangers in the street.

[crazyladybutterfly]

I don't know how well you know your ancestry or if such parents are biological but seriously, despite the flaws you feel you possess are not as ugly as your feelings toward yourself.
Unless you've had genetic test stating you have features caused by a genetic defect (yes, defect because mutations are not bad) then there's nothing to worry about and not detrimental to your health.

You don't look like him. He appears to have what a fair of royals had as inbred, some kind of over or under bite. Although many have this and usually very acute cases that are not noticeable. Only extreme cases need treatment.

I think you resemble more an American actress. I forgot her name, I will search.

Ridicule comes from different minds. As you say you may look exotic. But this doesn't mean you're hideous or there's something wrong with your face. Also you are very natural, no make up. Is it common where you live for women not to wear makeup in public, if so this can also be a factor. Your style and behaviour can be the real reason but physique is easy target especially when is not ordinary in the area. People can make fun of one thing but it may not be the reason for the attack. And over time people know what works and that it works so they keep doing it. Everyone pick the best pictures.

Yes, ugly children are prone to neglect but this means usually unlike themselves. However, only bad parents neglect their child no matter how the child looks. So, not being satisfied with a child's look isn't an excuse for neglect.

You are female, why would you want your features to correlate to physical strength. Such women deal with ridicule of their own. But these women usually own their physique, don't waste much time feeling sorry for themselves or get plastic surgery. They may have their moments of weakness but then find their place in the world and have successful lives.

I can't say I've never met a person that hasn't been ridiculed or embarrassed at some point in their lives. Some more often than others. These happen with close family and friends to strangers in the street.

well my nose looks broken , my forehead isn't simmetrical , my eyes are droopy etc. Normal looking people aren't ridiculed for the way they look like and neither do the mixed people and the foreigners that I know

anyway I cannot be adopted as my mother was poor , at best I must have been exchanged at birth with another child. Can't really imagine my mother with a foreigner lol

[frankhammer]

well my nose looks broken , my forehead isn't simmetrical , my eyes are droopy etc. Normal looking people aren't ridiculed for the way they look like and neither do the mixed people and the foreigners that I know

anyway I cannot be adopted as my mother was poor , at best I must have been exchanged at birth with another child. Can't really imagine my mother with a foreigner lol

Bollocks. Half the males at TA want you and you know it. You play this game so well.

[crazyladybutterfly]

Bollocks. Half the males at TA want you and you know it. You play this game so well.

I HIGHLY DOUBT IT'S HALF... anyway I just pick my best photos..

[Dandelion]

2- i have been ridiculed , even at the adult age, on the streets just for the way i look like.. i just pick the best pictures

But Italians stereotypically shout at random strangers. You notice the few incidences of negativity from some drunkard idiots at Friday evening.

[crazyladybutterfly]

But Italians stereotypically shout at random strangers. You notice the few incidences of negativity from some drunkard idiots in Friday evening.

not drunktards though. just plain lookism.

[Dandelion]

I HIGHLY DOUBT IT'S HALF... anyway I just pick my best photos..

At least half of male TA is single, so obvious. However, it's no lie that a woman with your looks is attractive with the right confidence. I hope you'll find it.

[Queen B]

well my nose looks broken , my forehead isn't simmetrical , my eyes are droopy etc. Normal looking people aren't ridiculed for the way they look like and neither do the mixed people and the foreigners that I know

anyway I cannot be adopted as my mother was poor , at best I must have been exchanged at birth with another child. Can't really imagine my mother with a foreigner lol

You are overreacting. You are far from ugly. And believe me , you aren't the only one here with a broken-looking nose or droopy eyes or assymetrical face structure.
I'm pretty sure I have read more negative things about my looks here, rather than yours. The difference is that I don't give a shit, and I'm very confident.

You should work on your selfesteem and confidence, and stop overreacting. Have you visited a specialist?

[Seth MacFarlane]

Against it , 99 percent of the time the people look worse with plastic surgery . even though its personal choice , its mainly used by people with very low self esteem and even mental illness such as body dismorphic disorder. Some criminals even use it do disguise themselves