Sudden Repulsion Syndrome: When One Tiny Thing Your Partner Does Spells Doom for the Relationship

[Dandelion]

Hope you didn't get a criminal record at least

Nope. Still a blanco criminal record, thank God. Policemen were threateningly telling me that they'd write a proces-verbal if I kept at it. But the thing is, the trigger for her going to the police to try to charge me for 'stalking' was my not sending those e-mails anymore. I hadn't sent a mail for two weeks (with the prospect of never ever writing another one) by then when I got a phone call from the police office. Their threatening language didn't impress me and was pointless.

[Bosnjakinja]

Nope. Policemen were threateningly telling me that they'd write a proces-verbal if I kept at it. But the thing is, the trigger for her going to the police to try to charge me for 'stalking' was my not sending those e-mails anymore. I hadn't sent a mail for two weeks (with the prospect of never ever writing another one) by then when I got a phone call from the police office. Their threatening language didn't impress me and was pointless.

Maybe the silence after all those messages to her meant that you were "Planning" something?

How long ago is that btw, i.e. how old are you now?

[Dandelion]

Maybe the silence after all those messages to her meant that you were "Planning" something?

How long ago is that btw, i.e. how old are you now?

It happened in 2005. I am 30 now.

[Pennywise]

Reading fragments of stories of Danielion's personal life time to time here makes me depressed and sad. It's like I'm in a French drama movie.

Go on bro, we listen

[crazyladybutterfly]

I wandered off topic though. I did feel repulsed by her while I was laying next to her. I was 17 and she 15, but I never met a girl I got along with so well. Immature as I was I got confused that I wasn't physically as attracted to her as I emotionally liked her and that scared me. I decided to break off the relationship before I got caught in the endless maelstrom of a lengthy make-pretend relationship. The image of a man who lost his attraction to her giving his woman a blue bean all the time came to mind and repulsed myself from the past (like you see in some comedy sketches of some married couples). I was too young to commit to such a relationship that was losing its spark so soon all the while her sex drive remained undiminished.
However, the lack of attraction vanished when I was 19 and that happened overnight. And this attraction never went away.

I remember when I was 18, my best friend came over and logged in his MSN on my computer. She logged on and I shuddered. Why? Because I wanted to avoid her because she was still into me and I wasn't into her. As a teenage boy you are very picky because a whole world still lies ahead of you and you're bursting of energy. But I did literally feel repulsed by her. I dunno why I wasn't at a later stage. My maturing? Very likely.

so you had sex with her and then changed your mind or you did nothing? if it s the first her behavious was understandable

[Dandelion]

so you had sex with her and then changed your mind or you did nothing? if it s the first her behavious was understandable

Whatever I say is too much info.

[Amor Vincit Omnia]

Whatever I say is too much info.

No No , now we pretend to know all details !!
how many time u made love with her ,how long was any sexual intercourse and if you smoke a sigarette after it and also the brand of that sigarette . how many kisses u give her and how many she gave to you . Name , surname , email address and cell phone of that girl so we can check if you are telling the true !!

[Grenzland]

If she calls herself quirky artsy and asexual it's over.

[N1019]

If she farts in front of me, it's over.

Girls fart. Get over it.

Where women do it loud and proud, with confidence, like a man, it seems to be indicative of other social problems. It's pretty hard to look past it. The first principle is that women should not really be loud and proud about anything, especially their arseholes.

If she calls herself quirky artsy and asexual it's over.

Every woman I've met who applied the label of "quirky" to herself was a spinster in the making. Typically aged about 30, intelligent and physically attractive, but ambitious, pretentious, with high expectations from men, and a general handful. Not worth the effort.

[Rudel]

Eh, happens to me every time. The worst might have been a girl ten years ago, whose nose I just couldn't stand the sight of from the side. So I just tried to position myself in her front all the time

If she calls herself quirky artsy and asexual it's over.

Especially the asexual part.