Men:Will u marry lady 10 yrs older

[crazyladybutterfly]

Even on this forum there are many such examples.

yeah that O__O guy
a shame that he is also italian
and the mods haven't banned him yet...

[Dandelion]

yeah that O__O guy
a shame that he is also italian
and the mods haven't banned him yet...

He's probably Belgian pretending to be Italian. Or a Italian-Belgian from Charleroi who has been Belgified.

[crazyladybutterfly]

Saying "Naaah not all man like thaaat" won't help you, I know. That's why I said you need a professional help. And it seems it's more than just a trust issue. It's up to you to take my advice or ignore it of course.

I have just started doing psychotherapy. i failed miserable in these 2 years
(3 years ago i was still in school, seems like 1,5 years lol)

i have still achieved what most can't (getting accepted in a regional closed door uni course the 1st year , getting in a national closed door course and being accepted in all courses for which i made the test -3- , i had to choose one ) but again I still feel like this isn't my road

[crazyladybutterfly]

He's probably Belgian pretending to be Italian. Or a Italian-Belgian from Charleroi who has been Belgified.

he posted even something close to child pornography lol
luckily his threads get soon deleted but he should be banned as soon as he posts another picture of an underaged person..

but we even find isis propaganda and al awlaki's videos (you can guess who) on this EUROPEAN CULTURAL forum ... it doesn't seem like the mods are concerned with legality or wellness of the people/mankind.

[Dandelion]

but we even find isis propaganda and al awlaki's videos (you can guess who) on this EUROPEAN CULTURAL forum ... it doesn't seem like the mods are concerned with legality or wellness of the people/mankind.

Well, the moderation even repairs broken links of Al-Awlaki's videos when they get removed from YT. They do support free speech here more than I would.

All that isn't that shocking to me. People not knowing about Al-Awlaki and his ideology is more shocking to me.

[Magnolia]

I will be presumptuous for a while. But I am not against relationships with the age difference between the partners; it doesn't work in many cases - a generational age difference is an obstacle although men do not want to hear this.
But for example Danielion and crazyladybutterfly could be a promising couple. I've noticed it a long time ago.

[crazyladybutterfly]

Well, the moderation even repairs broken links of Al-Awlaki's videos when they get removed from YT. They do support free speech here more than I would.

All that isn't that shocking to me. People not knowing about Al-Awlaki and his ideology is more shocking to me.

they re scared of al-bosni?

I am usually for free speech but not when it promotes terrorism or aggressive homophobia/racism

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

That's exactly how it was determined.

Herr Abubu is not a fan of the Scientific Method.

[Herr Abubu]

It depends who are girls according to you. Yes there are many cases when a 44 yo divorced man starts to date a 36 yo divorced woman... It is unusual the other way around. But a 44 yo divorced man and a 20 yo single woman - NO.

And yes, maybe in your culture is common that a divorced man is a scoop for young girls, but this is not a global standard at all.

The most important thing to do before arguing against a person's position is to understand his position. I'm not saying 20 year old women are being swept off their feet by 40 year old men. I am saying that the likelihood of that happening is enormous compared with the opposite, which is almost unimaginable. I said that to illustrate a point, which is that men want, and go for, women younger than them, while it's generally the opposite for women. As much as it generally bothers women, fact is that men desire fertility in a woman, which is ephemeral with women.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

I have just started doing psychotherapy. i failed miserable in these 2 years
(3 years ago i was still in school, seems like 1,5 years lol)

There is no evidence that psychotherapy works and it has been looked at for decades for results. It's unfortunate that so many people have wasted their time and money on it.

i have still achieved what most can't (getting accepted in a regional closed door uni course the 1st year , getting in a national closed door course and being accepted in all courses for which i made the test -3- , i had to choose one ) but again I still feel like this isn't my road

That's impressive. You have all these good things going for you and yet you allow a distorted perception of yourself dictate your life. I refer to this as being 'totally ghey.' Whenever I'm being totally ghey I think how fortunate I am than others and that slaps me out of my totally ghey mood. The problem we have in modern society is that so many people are totally ghey. They think about what they aren't or don't have instead of who they are and what they do have and understanding how blessed they are.