What would be the opposite of the slutty schoolgirl?

[crazyladybutterfly]

You wish. Average White, Mexican or Afram girl has been slayed by 10-15 males by the time she's 21. Indian and Chinese women (although that's changing for Chinese) are far more prudish and conservative. MENAs are in between although Persian and Arab girls are far sluttier than South Asian or Oriental females.

By the way, each of those ethnicities are also more likely to become porn stars as well (White, Afram, or Latina).

Lastly, European girls here in California (Italians, Poles,Germans, Brits Russians etc) are known to be easy counts for horny Black, Latino and Murican males.

again : stop watching too much porn

[echoS290]

again : stop watching too much porn

umm not porn but real life.

European women are known to give it up quite easy here in America, especially to horny Blacks and Latino dudes.

[echoS290]

White women (both European and Murican). The queens of promiscuity. Although Latinas and Blacks are good competitors as well.

[Amor Vincit Omnia]

umm not porn but real life.

European women are known to give it up quite easy here in America, especially to horny Blacks and Latino dudes.

provocation:
they are very nice ...i mean a woman who give her vagina to another human being ..she is given plasure to another human being ...why should we think it's immoral and bad ? don't u think there are women who are enough strong who think some social rules are stupid and they can have sex as much they like without fell dirty ? probably in most part they do that because they are just sluts , that's ok ....but maybe another part of them do that because they are intelligent enough to think there is no real link between sexual activity and moral values.

[Herr Abubu]

And then you also have many self-hating, inconfident women.

Modesty is a good balance between narcissism and self-hatred.

Self-hatred is just another side of narcissism. The image is central to sin. When an image isn't real, it leads to wrongfulness of some sort. The narcissist lives by a false image of himself, of something he desires to be. He projects this desire on the outside, creating a false image for others to see. Inside, he knows, although he has to suppress this, that he isn't the person he makes himself out to be. The lies we tell ourselves are too beautiful—another aspect of sinfulness because lies aren't beautiful except to an ugly mind—and to expose our own lies is to deprive ourselves of the beauty of our world. The narcissist lives in a dialectic of imagination against reality; there is a tug of war inside of him, a schism, and he is tugging on the rope for imagination, unreality. Reality doesn't necessarily win, because reality in fact never moves an inch, even the tug of war is in this sense imaginary

Let's apply it to this forum. A lot of what I see is what I call failed narcissists. I won't name any names, but these people will continuously harp on about how ugly or stupid they are, or something like that. They talk endlessly about themselves and always project themselves into any conversation in some way or another. Sometimes it's subtle, sometimes it's not. Yes, it's self-loathing and a lack of confidence, but it's exactly narcissism, just a failure at it. They have defined themselves in a false way such that their worth lies in superficial beauty, in intelligence or something other like that. If they lack these qualities, they are somehow worth less, when all it might mean is that there are other qualities they possess and should identify with more. The obvious implication is that people who are beautiful must be worth more than them, but if they had been beautiful themselves, which they might even be, but they are sick, they would have been worth more than people who weren't.

Modesty is not a balance between narcissism and self-hatred, these two are the same thing and to balance them means to acknowledge them, it is the lack of such a dialectic of identity and of self-worth.