why women should think twince before having children

[crazyladybutterfly]

Yeah, but wouldn't fix the stretch mark issue (it's scared tissue). Skin only streaches to a certain point before it "breaks" especially in a short amount of time. Stretch marks are normal after pregnancy, but she could lessen the effect probably if she hydrated/mostorized properly her skin, which would add some extra elasticity. Even to gym rats is recommentable to have hytrated skin in order to avoid those marks.

a laser treatment can fix them while they're still red

[crazyladybutterfly]

No woman with motherly instinct will stop breasfeeding because her tits won't look as good as before, or decide not to have children for such shallow reasons. Being a mother is one of the most beautiful and amazing things that could happen to a woman, all your reasons are nothing in comparison to that.

PS: and woman can always exercise and get in shape again, no big of a problem if you have the will.

actually i do have motherhood instics (since i was 15)
i use my dog to express it though

[crazyladybutterfly]

ps. I am one of the few childfree women who love interacting with children. the issue is that i dont think i could be a good mother (and how the hell am i going to have them if sex scares me?)

[Dandelion]

ps. I am one of the few childfree women who love interacting with children. the issue is that i dont think i could be a good mother (and how the hell am i going to have them if sex scares me?)

IVF? I dunno. A sexless romantic relationship?

[Annie999]

ps. I am one of the few childfree women who love interacting with children. the issue is that i dont think i could be a good mother (and how the hell am i going to have them if sex scares me?)

You can always adopt

[щрбл]

^ Women with 3 cats usually have higher levels of perceived stress than women with 3 kids.

Agreed. Child-beating is the finest stress-releaving activity.

[Profileid]

Yes I definitely want to have kids

Do you want to have kids someday?

Ideally yes. But I feel I still have some unresolved issues from my own childhood and I don't want that to become my kids' problem as well. I still feel like a child myself a lot of the time.

I think the two most important things in raising a kid are financial and mental stability. Which is the same thing I want in a husband.

[щрбл]

Not gonna lie, this is pretty awful. However, my cousin (who is almost 36) has had two kids and her stomach doesn't look like that at all. I guess she must have pampered herself and taken great care of her body during her pregnancy or maybe genetics plays a role in this

Anyway, call me shallow but, if I get pregnant and end up looking like that afterwards, I think I will choose to get a tummy tuck or I'll feel hideous and unconfident.

Do men here think a woman's post baby body is still attractive or it's a bit of turn off?

Well yes, it's a matter of discipline and exercising. My sis had 2 children (2 different pregnancies) and her tummy looks pretty normal to me.

[Enflamme]

You can always adopt

Or go with a man, as a real woman should...

[Enflamme]

beauty issues :

Can you stop your propaganda against traditionnal mother's life (marrying a man, bringing children and raising them, etc.)