why women should think twince before having children

[Dandelion]

ps. I am one of the few childfree women who love interacting with children. the issue is that i dont think i could be a good mother (and how the hell am i going to have them if sex scares me?)

As a stereotypical Italian mother you even like adult children (jihadists).

[Annie999]

Or go with a man, as a real woman should...

That's not how you measure a 'real woman'. There's much more than men in a woman's life, she can achieve that status while being single and virgin forever.

[Peterski]

Be modern, Western, immature and degenerated - buy yourself a fake baby:

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/real-li...e-women-786454

[ÁGUIA]

Nothing is more precious than the miracle of life. It should not be difficult to a woman to opt between those futilities, vanity nonsenses, superficialities you mention and give birth to a new life.

I agree that not everybody is fit to be a parent but certainly not because of the reasons presented by the OP.

[Harley]

When I was pregnant, I gained the minimum amount of weight recommended, which is 30lbs. Through exclusive breastfeeding and watching what I ate, I dropped 15 lbs within the first three weeks post-pregnancy. I don't have saggy breasts and they went up a cup size as well. I think how your body reacts to pregnancy is purely what genes you inherited. I've had family that have had these crazy dark stretch marks from pregnancy. My skin doesn't have the stretched out look to it.

We live in a society that is more self involved and self important, and lauds these two traits as being premiere virtues.

I hear that people are now choosing to sterilize themselves in their early 20s to avoid having children. I think this is a bit extreme to behave like this, but whatever. I guess the world is overpopulated enough as is.

[Harley]

Literally anything is more beautiful and amazing than spawning misshapen, needly, disgusting half-clones of yourself out of your bodily fluids that will eventually grow to hate you, and make your life hellish until they grow into adults waiting for you to die so they can parasite what little money you have left after supporting them for their entire life.

I disagree.

Aside from hating little people and body fluids, I'm not sure why you believe all children are this way to their parents. If this is the account of the circle of life you've witnessed, they're doing it wrong. It starts from the roots anyway, so for a parent to allow this behavior to exist will most likely yield this result.

My daughter is going to be a tween soon. I'm not looking forward to her teenage years, and feel anxious over the idea I will have to argue with her while also helping her keep her mind solid so she can make responsible decisions when I'm not around.

In this day, I love my parents. They were shitty at times and did shitty things to me, but they were there for me bottom line, showing me what it means to have family. I'm not a dream child and I know that, but I've taken my upbringing for what it was and implemented what I think is a better parenting plan for my kid. Throughout all the pain, I think about being able to support my daughter and witness her into adulthood. I cannot think of anything more beautiful or amazing than doing what I can to make sure she gets to where she needs to be. Even moreso once she's able to stand on her own two feet and be able to defend herself against the world.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

Literally anything is more beautiful and amazing than spawning misshapen, needly, disgusting half-clones of yourself out of your bodily fluids that will eventually grow to hate you, and make your life hellish until they grow into adults waiting for you to die so they can parasite what little money you have left after supporting them for their entire life.

[crazyladybutterfly]

You can always adopt

thought about it but you arent going to adopt as a single (at least in italy)

[crazyladybutterfly]

As a stereotypical Italian mother you even like adult children (jihadists).

i dont like them but i find them somewhat funny. and yes i see them as children playing with waterguns even when they have double of my age

[crazyladybutterfly]

When I was pregnant, I gained the minimum amount of weight recommended, which is 30lbs. Through exclusive breastfeeding and watching what I ate, I dropped 15 lbs within the first three weeks post-pregnancy. I don't have saggy breasts and they went up a cup size as well. I think how your body reacts to pregnancy is purely what genes you inherited. I've had family that have had these crazy dark stretch marks from pregnancy. My skin doesn't have the stretched out look to it.

We live in a society that is more self involved and self important, and lauds these two traits as being premiere virtues.

I hear that people are now choosing to sterilize themselves in their early 20s to avoid having children. I think this is a bit extreme to behave like this, but whatever. I guess the world is overpopulated enough as is.

yes , in america.
I have seen a 21 years old talking about his sterilization on a childfree group. in italy it's hard enough to find someone willing to sterilize you when you're childless and 35 , let alone in your 20s