Dealing With Lust

[Sekarotuinen]

Well you can, trust me I'm a man and I've been exposed to a lot more than I should have been. If you are looking at porn and living sexually even if your not having sex with a man then obviously it will be on your mind every day. You have to cut that stuff out and your body will calm down. The body doesn't keep asking for what it doesn't get.

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It's really that I just see it when I ak screwing around online, though I'm not seeking it out.

I'm most masturbating or living sexually.

[Karol Klačansky]

I don't know how faith is for Muslims , reading the lives of the saints really helps me.

Even if you tell yourself you aren't seeking it out, you probably are deep down you have to cut any kind of porn from your life, also sexual topics. Even this discussion can lead it to constantly be on your mind. If you avoid sexual topics/images/ shows it will be less on your mind.

Masturbation is hard to deal with but u have to try and avoid it too. Ur body calms down when it realizes it can't get what it once and slowly your list will become less.

I know it's hard I'll pray for you

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[Sekarotuinen]

I don't know how faith is for Muslims , reading the lives of the saints really helps me.

Even if you tell yourself you aren't seeking it out, you probably are deep down you have to cut any kind of porn from your life, also sexual topics. Even this discussion can lead it to constantly be on your mind. If you avoid sexual topics/images/ shows it will be less on your mind.

Masturbation is hard to deal with but u have to try and avoid it too. Ur body calms down when it realizes it can't get what it once and slowly your list will become less.

I know it's hard I'll pray for you

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Thank you.

[Dandelion]

I can think of one appealing aspect of persevering in quenching one's lust. At a certain point of being abstinent from pre-marital sex and masturbation, it doesn't become harder and the weight stabilises. However, that guy who you would marry, I wonder what will happen to him on your wedding night; I can imagine you locking him up for several days lol.
In that regard it's an attractive trait for you to be a woman with a healthy sexual appetite who's about to explode.

That guy you're interested in just has to genuinely convert (and not just for you). That's probably still the most frustrating aspect for you.

[Sekarotuinen]

I can think of one appealing aspect of persevering in quenching one's lust. At a certain point of being abstinent from pre-marital sex and masturbation, it doesn't become harder and the weight stabilises. However, that guy who you would marry, I wonder what will happen to him on your wedding night; I can imagine you locking him up for several days lol.
In that regard it's an attractive trait for you to be a woman with a healthy sexual appetite who's about to explode.

That guy you're interested just has to genuinely convert (and not just for you). That's probably still the most frustrating aspect for you.

>Not just for you
Yes, this infuriates me sometimes, but I know the relationship would never last or be healthy otherwise.

[SardiniaAtlantis]

Beat yourself with a whip. Then that may turn into imagining a guy doing it and then you might get a guy to do it, and it may turn you on in a BDSM sort of way, and the. You won't be able to help yourself.

Seriously though, repressing this side of human nature for too long is just not natural and a bad idea.

[Al-Meksiki]

Eh, ive been out there and delved into the world of casual sex and the sexual underground and all that fun shit.

Eh, its okay, but honestly sex is kinda overrated. Now don't get me wrong, i enjoy it, but having it isnt something I'm going to break my back over.

Maybe its the lack of emotional attatchment, but random sex isn't emotionally dissimilar to masturbating, just that your sex toy in this scenario is alive.

[Sekarotuinen]

Eh, ive been out there and delved into the world of casual sex and the sexual underground and all that fun shit.

Eh, its okay, but honestly sex is kinda overrated. Now don't get me wrong, i enjoy it, but having it isnt something I'm going to break my back over.

Maybe its the lack of emotional attatchment, but random sex isn't emotionally dissimilar to masturbating, just that your sex toy in this scenario is alive.

Well, I dont know what masturbating is like either.

[Al-Meksiki]

Well, I dont know what masturbating is like either.

It's nothing special

There's a reason the phrase "chocolate cake is better than sex" is a thing

[catgeorge]

I think I am definitely old fashioned.

..and I think I definitely preferred it that way/