'Opposites attract' is a MYTH: People who disagree with us trigger negative feelings that lead to re

[Dandelion]

Everything civilised (including China) has a Greek root. That makes a lot of the world similar to you luckily.

[Wrong]

Opposites DO infact attract. Being a blond man, I am more attracted to darkhaired women and vice versa.

[The Illyrian Warrior]

Opposites DO infact attract. Being a blond man, I am more attracted to darkhaired women and vice versa.

You get alot of love in anthroforums however not enough love from women IRL, that's pretty much the price you have to pay for being a blonde guy.

[Wrong]

You get alot of love in anthroforums however not enough love from women IRL, that's pretty much the price you have to pay for being a blonde guy.

Trust me, no problems in that front

[GiCa]

I think s a different thing to explain

My theory is that you are attracted by the attactive oposite in your culture-ethnicity space both on looks and on behavior or better to say what it s not familiar to you but in your family-culture ethnicity space

I m atracted the most to fairish pale guy who have a tender-calm- peace

A different force oposite to the one of my dad and brother


Thought here I don't see much mixed couples in Italy.
Most girl prefer a guy who is not black, or East Asian

Thought maybe I you live all your life in a culture where those types are always been present maybe they would marry more those types and the first as preference

But in Italy they still feel Alien and not part if us

I think it would happen to me in Great Britain; I would get 0 to few males interested in my as my look is alien-exotic for there and perceived as not of their space

[Lek]

Opposite can attract, just like like can attract. There's no general rule. Neither is it limited to personality.

[EL_BARBARO]

Opposites attract... when they're dead drunk...

[Peterski]

Opposite can attract, just like like can attract. There's no general rule.

^ This. Sometimes they attract, and sometimes not.

The article in the OP is just pseudo-science anyway.

[MissMischief]

Yes, I do agree. While there may be some interest and infatuation with opposites because of the novelty and excitement, they generally are not long-term partner material as people tend to look for compatibility and shared interests.

[EL_BARBARO]

This is hard to understand, in fact. But where there's smoke, there's fire.

I can be a good example of that, for instance. I hate GiCa to the bone. That's vox populi. But, on the other hand, sometimes I found out such a feeling within me, pushing me towards an irresistible, quasi irrational, crazy impulsion, a sudden urge to eat her enterily even her nails.

As said, the human being is sometimes hard to understand...