Would you ever date a physically disabled person?

**Myanthropologies** · 05-20-2017, 06:09 PM

Would you ever date someone who uses a walker, wheelchair, etc? Why not if no?

**~~Al-Meksiki~~** · 05-20-2017, 06:12 PM

Yeah, why not, provided I like them enough

**frankhammer** · 05-20-2017, 06:12 PM

No. I prefer those who can do what I do and vice versa. Somewhere down the line, it will become a chore and cause friction in the relationship.

**crazyladybutterfly** · 05-20-2017, 06:20 PM

as long as he can cleam himself

**Myanthropologies** · 05-20-2017, 06:29 PM

Originally Posted by frankhammer

No. I prefer those who can do what I do and vice versa. Somewhere down the line, it will become a chore and cause friction in the relationship.

That's what you think because you haven't given it a chance. People with disabilities don't depend on their partners and are capable of doing a lot.

**~~LoLeL~~** · 05-20-2017, 06:32 PM

99% No

**frankhammer** · 05-20-2017, 06:34 PM

Originally Posted by Myanthropologies

That's what you think because you haven't given it a chance. People with disabilities don't depend on their partners and are capable of doing a lot.

No. I've actually seen this in RL long term relationships. You think of everything from a 20yo's perspective and I understand that. Some of us have been adults longer than you have been alive.

**Myanthropologies** · 05-20-2017, 06:37 PM

Originally Posted by frankhammer

No. I've actually seen this in RL long term relationships. You think of everything from a 20yo's perspective and I understand that. Some of us have been adults longer than you have been alive.

Yeah, but stuff is more handicap friendly nowadays in my generation and people in wheelchairs are able to do a lot of the same things able bodied people can

**frankhammer** · 05-20-2017, 06:41 PM

Originally Posted by Myanthropologies

Yeah, but stuff is more handicap friendly nowadays in my generation and people in wheelchairs are able to do a lot of the same things able bodied people can

In an urban situation, to an extent. But unfortunately, you're looking at this through rose tinted glasses. Over a decade or more, it's hard work and few such youthful beliefs survive this reality. You've a lot of life to live and to learn about yet MA.

**ÁGUIA** · 05-20-2017, 06:48 PM

Never thought about it, but I don't think I would rule out the hypothesis. Not even playing the political correct guy, if the deep connection is there I wouldn't care. If the relationship in the long run would last? I don't know, but isn't what happens with every other relation, is not like we know how much it will last, it is not like we have all the answers. I would say just take the god damn risk, take a shot, so many nice people over there that are overlooked just because of mind bias.

People who have hard stories of life are often much more interesting.