Are you a solitary person or afraid of being single?

[Laredo]

I'm a solitary person but I got to the point of being tired of It. I kinda want to be in a relationship now.

[Voskos]

Used to be very sociable, but now I'm very solitary. Since I stopped talking to women especially my salary has tripled and I have more time to help friends in need.

[Vessna]

I honestly don't know. I have always been in a relationship since my teen years. I did have brief episodes of being single and enjoyed every single minute of it. Somehow I always end up involved in a relationship without even wanting or looking for one.

[Laredo]

I honestly don't know. I have always been in a relationship since my teen years. I did have brief episodes of being single and enjoyed every single minute of it. Somehow I always end up involved in a relationship without even wanting or looking for one.

That's interesting, In my case I'm very picky with who I talk to.

Yeah Introvert Issues here

[~Elizabeth~]

I am content being solitary. I am now over wanting to be married and having children. I'm 53 and past menopause.

[Vessna]

That's interesting, In my case I'm very picky with who I talk to.

Yeah Introvert Issues here

I didn't go out or socialized much, never had time for that actually. I spent all my 20s studying. I also never engaged in anything casual.

[tropicalslavic]

I was codependent in my youth but now I love my own company. Young me was so stupid. Always needed a boyfriend. Tried to be an extrovert too when I was young, didn't really work as social interactions in large groups or with people I'm not super close with are and always will be a massive chore.

[Beowulf]

I'm a very solitary person but i'm ver afraid of ending up single and alone.

[Vessna]

I was codependent in my youth but now I love my own company. Young me was so stupid. Always needed a boyfriend.

It’s quite normal wanting to be in a relationship. Were you excessively reliant on your partners or needed them constantly to take care of you? Why do you think you were codependent?

[Immanenz]

well, i struggled having reliable "companionship" (aka guys with the same interests) but the period i had those reliable "friends", partying, getting women laid randomly was my best time of my life.

now, this time is over- but i m surely not afraid being alone, i prefer it to a degree more in fact, so i can organize my space the way i want to.