is marriage bad for women? single childless women in their 30s seem to look very young

[Wadaad]

lol im in my 20s and virgins i dont see myself losing my virginity in the future.

i thought that i would only if i find someone willing to marry me in few months as i dont want to be pumped and dumped ...
but how many non religious people are willing to do that? im an atheist , christians and muslims cant marry me lol

im disinterested in sex , scared of it and i have problems down there ... even a kindly done pelvic exam done last year made me scream in pain and the thin fingered female doctor used lubrificant even. i d probably need a shiton of creams down there from lubrificans to analgesics to creams to make your muscles relax , i heard they exist, it would be pricey and i need a lot of time for preparing myself psychologically ... and i would do all of this without having fidelity guaranteed?

Are you afraid of all sexual activity or just vaginal sex scares you?

[MissMischief]

Just google the title of the thread and you will stumble across many articles about studies that have proved that marriage is way more beneficial for men than for women. Basically, men benefit from marriage through an increase to their health, wealth, and happiness. Married women, however, are no better off than unmarried women

(I will just post some of them).

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/2...n-study-shows/

http://www.businessinsider.com/socie...py-2017-1?IR=T

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/lif...lth-not-woman/

http://www.yesmagazine.org/issues/ge...women-20160512

http://www.npr.org/2016/03/01/468688...an-ever-before

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4981792/

[crazyladybutterfly]

Are you afraid of all sexual activity or just vaginal sex scares you?

im scared of everything . i couldnt do nursing because i cant touch someone s private parts

[Wadaad]

Just google the title of the thread and you will stumble across many articles about studies that have proved that marriage is way more beneficial for men than for women

(I will just post some of them).

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/2...n-study-shows/

http://www.businessinsider.com/socie...py-2017-1?IR=T

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/lif...lth-not-woman/

http://www.yesmagazine.org/issues/ge...women-20160512

http://www.npr.org/2016/03/01/468688...an-ever-before

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4981792/

Anti family propaganda

[Loki]

Just google the title of the thread and you will stumble across many articles about studies that have proved that marriage is way more beneficial for men than for women

(I will just post some of them).

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/2...n-study-shows/

http://www.businessinsider.com/socie...py-2017-1?IR=T

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/lif...lth-not-woman/

http://www.yesmagazine.org/issues/ge...women-20160512

http://www.npr.org/2016/03/01/468688...an-ever-before

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4981792/

Biased, feminist claptrap.

[щрбл]

Let's be honest, these chicks are ugly AF. No man in his right mind would ever want to procreate with them. These charming ladies shall remain single for a very long time...

I suggest taking a cat or something.

[crazyladybutterfly]

Just google the title of the thread and you will stumble across many articles about studies that have proved that marriage is way more beneficial for men than for women

(I will just post some of them).

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/2...n-study-shows/

http://www.businessinsider.com/socie...py-2017-1?IR=T

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/lif...lth-not-woman/

http://www.yesmagazine.org/issues/ge...women-20160512

http://www.npr.org/2016/03/01/468688...an-ever-before

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4981792/

THIS woman

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/...n_6508870.html

Gallan told the newspaper that her “secret to a long life has been staying away from men. They’re just more trouble than they’re worth.” She noted that she also “made sure that I got plenty of exercise, eat a nice warm bowl of porridge every morning and have never gotten married.”

[crazyladybutterfly]

Let's be honest, these chicks are ugly AF. No man in his right mind would ever want to procreate with them. These charming ladies shall remain single for a very long time...

I suggest taking a cat or something.

lol HOW are they ugly?

[amoora]

I couldn't imagine being single into my 30s!

[MissMischief]

Don't get me wrong, I think I'll get married at some point in my life (mainly, because of certain legal and economic benefits and to make my mum happy ). I think being a wife kind of sucks though, mostly because there is a much greater pressure on women to meet responsibilities at home as well as work.

Take men; they get married, but continue on with their careers as if they are still single. In fact, they’re often able to better concentrate on their careers once married, as a wife can take care of their domestic responsibilities. Moreover, when married, men are viewed as more responsible and stable by their employers, and are more likely to be offered a promotion. Women who get married, on the other hand, are likely to be viewed with suspicion by management, as it is assumed they will soon start having babies, go on maternity leave, and prioritize children over work.

Plus, since men, in general, are likely to earn more money than women, the careers of husbands are held in higher regard than those of their wives. This translates to a broader prioritization of a husband’s time and labour. (“He needs his rest because he works so hard for the family.” “He needs to go out and blow off steam after a hard day at the office.” “Oh, he doesn’t have time for such frivolous matters, he’s busy with more important things.”). Even if a woman has the “privilege” of staying home while her husband works, she still has to work… It’s just that her time and labour has no value. She is expected to do everything she possibly can for her husband, because she doesn’t contribute to the family like he does.

Also, in spite of the supposed gains in marriage equality, studies show that even when both partners are employed, women still do the bulk of the housework and childcare. Thus, men are freed up to maintain a healthy social life. After work, for example, it’s totally normal for husbands to still go out for drinks with the boys. (They’ve earned it, after all). The social life of women, however, takes a sharp turn after marriage…

Finally, (maybe it's just me ) there’s something about just being in a relationship, but not married, that can make sex more appealing. Perhaps it’s because you’re not committed to a lifelong sex schedule and, for all you know, your relationship is just temporary. I mean, you can leave any time.

So really, is it any wonder the average married woman is less happy than the average married man?