For men dating women, is virginity important to you?

[la bombe]

I don't mean your random extended serial polygamy which is common in these eras, "buddy". I specifically mentioned establishing a family, and creating an optimal family environment for the next generation yet did not reply to any of it. I truly do not care about these vapid "luv" relationships that come and go, they are nothing more than glorified, extended one night stands.

Your own personal enjoyment or you "being happy with it" means jack shit in regards to family creation and raising the next gen.



It is pleasurable but it is not really important for anything that actually matters such as family creation.

Yeah, having a loving relationship with your partner that involves a healthy and active sex life has nothing to do with family creation... IDK what miserable family unit you're referring to but it's quite normal and optimal for parents to enjoy having sex with one another

[Demon Revival]

Yeah, having a loving relationship with your partner that involves a healthy and active sex life has nothing to do with family creation... IDK what miserable family unit you're referring to but it's quite normal and optimal for parents to enjoy having sex with one another

One miserable family unit where:
-The marriage actually lasts forever as opposed to lasting 2 years and being bankrupt as a result of it
-There is an extended family unit which binds everything even closer together, as opposed to individualism where everything is hollow
-The children do not get abandonment issues and are raised by 2 parents as opposed to single moms
-Is fully traditional and has worked fine for the centuries and millennia before this retarded "sexual revolution" that has turned everything into an utter failure, came into fruition.
-Children grow to be proper males and females and not some AIDS Skrillex or Elliot Rodger.

By the way, being virgin does not mean you are rendered unable to enjoy sex. You really think that if a man marries a virgin, they are not going to learn together and have fun with it? Would not the sex be even better knowing it has been exclusive between these two? There is a far higher emotional connection that goes beyond the body. This is basically a strawman.

If you already slept with 10 dudes, would not it just be better to sum all that sex time, and dedicate it just to a single person? Still, I hold my view that this isn't important at all when it comes to raising a proper family. Because you'll certainly stop having sex once your stamina and flexibility drops down. Depending on how old you have children, you will not be able to have sex like before. Yet the growth of the children would not be at top by then.

So, what the fuck will you do when the "oh so important and indispensable" sex will not be as good, or will not be at all? I can figure it out, you'll be one unit more in those divorced stats of non-virgin women, therefore dooming children to an existence of shit, thereby proving my point ad literam.

[Stannis]

Bump

[Kazimiera]

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Don't worry about what Demon Revival says. He's about 19 and an expert in female sexuality and relationships. He's read a few articles, seen a few stats and now has a PhD. You just can't argue with that. It's like taking driving lessons from someone who has never seen a car.

[Böri]

There is a funny thing. I checked who voted what. In fact the question is rather asked to men but it seems some women voted in the poll

[Herr Abubu]

Only men who are terrible in bed and/or sadists would care that much about a woman being a virgin. Sex with inexperienced partners is generally awkward, unpleasant and for female virgins, involves a lot of pain and discomfort.

Only women with dirty sexual lives make these kind of idiotic generalizations about what motivates the preferences of men they never have and never will meet.

[Peterski]

I wonder what is Arduti's opinion, because if I understand correctly, she wants to be a virgin until marriage. Or did she already post in this thread?

Edit:

Okay, she already posted:

https://www.theapricity.com/forum/sh...=1#post4638054

[crazyladybutterfly]

honestly a lot of adult virgin women have issues like low self esteem , depression, anxiety , trauma and low social skills
when it comes to 18/19 years olds it is fairly normal but older women , even in their early 20s , often have issues unless they re either aromantic asexuals or very religious
but the religious ones start seeking out marriage in their late teens normally i guess.

i dont even know if i am a virgin , as i might have been raped at around the age of 5 , but i have all the issues i mentioned above.

[Peterski]

honestly a lot of adult virgin women have issues like low self esteem , depression, anxiety , trauma and low social skills
when it comes to 18/19 years olds it is fairly normal but older women , even in their early 20s , often have issues unless they re either aromantic asexuals or very religious
but the religious ones start seeking out marriage in their late teens normally i guess.

i dont even know if i am a virgin , as i might have been raped at around the age of 5 , but i have all the issues i mentioned above.

So the whole "asexual" thing was just a hoax after all?

If someone is asexual, they will choose to be a virgin.

[la bombe]

Don't worry about what Demon Revival says. He's about 19 and an expert in female sexuality and relationships. He's read a few articles, seen a few stats and now has a PhD. You just can't argue with that. It's like taking driving lessons from someone who has never seen a car.

Ah yes, the classic “teenage virgin who thinks they’re an expert on relationships” �� life always hits them extra hard