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    Quote Originally Posted by tropicalslavic View Post
    I am not one to usually care what anyone thinks, not even my family, I'm really a "free spirit" and extremely dismissive of the "authority" others think they have over me. That being said, the way my family reacted to one of my cousins having a baby with a Southern American mixed race man told me everything I needed to know, she is merely tolerated at best now and even in the most peaceful of situations there is something in the air that almost spells out "we do not like that you have a mixed race child". Obviously no one is cruel to the kid because that's just psychopathic, to be unkind to a baby. Anyway, it's all a reflection of the mentality of the entire culture we are from, there is a big divide in mentality among Czechs (and Slovaks) between the urban and rural populations. I was raised around such sentiments and it's just something I can't shake, a discomfort that is almost built into my person. I don't think it's necessarily immoral or wrong because I'm not mistreating people based on it, just living my life a certain way that some people (mostly Western style "anti-racists" who think everything is a hate crime) don't like.

    And I feel bad that even gypsies who are not stupid, not criminal, and generally civilized people get painted with the same brush as the ones that do live according to the stereotypes, but it is what it is.
    You might be a racist or not, or what they consider a racist, but I dont consider you really racist though, because you accept friendships with non-whites, just not dating, but someone might consider you a racist, but whatever it is, you have a right to it, sometimes discrimination is ok, especially when it comes to private and very personal spaces, like dating. It also does not harm others really, live and let live, so people should let you have your preferences and boundaries and personal space too, to let you live too.

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    There comes a point of maturity in your life where you learn to see people as individuals above the identities they were born with. Stereotypes are true and most of us carry the traits all our lives, but deep down, people are not just that. If you can not see beyond that, you will lose on social and professional fronts. I myself learned this lesson bit late in my life but I am happy I did.

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    Won't lose attraction but would avoid the passport-seeking countries, or at least double-check their intention.

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    Yes, you can - it happened to me. It just evaporated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Barba View Post
    Yes, you can - it happened to me. It just evaporated.
    When? Which ethnicity?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mortimer View Post
    When? Which ethnicity?
    Some years ago. It doesn't matter which, really. Non-Euro.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Barba View Post
    Some years ago. It doesn't matter which, really. Non-Euro.
    Non-Euro is very broad and not a ethnicity, maybe for white nationalists, but adamnese islander is something very different then a alaskan native, only a dumb white nationalist would group the world in euro and non-euro, but its ok if you want to keep it discret.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mortimer View Post
    Non-Euro is very broad and not a ethnicity, maybe for white nationalists, but adamnese islander is something very different then a alaskan native, only a dumb white nationalist would group the world in euro and non-euro, but its ok if you want to keep it discret.
    Lol, of course it's not an ethnicity. Woman belonged to an an ethnic group outside of Europe, and I see no relevance naming it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Barba View Post
    Lol, of course it's not an ethnicity. Woman belonged to an an ethnic group outside of Europe, and I see no relevance naming it.
    Ok, thats up to you. We dont need to tell everything, maybe better. Have a nice day.

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