Originally Posted by
Mary
1) Get her to try out the headscarf.
2) Then you show her pictures of trad women (from whatever religion she comes from) in trad clothing.
3) And then you say that you find that really attractive. And that men like that much better than pretty girls or something.
4) Then she will probably have the disposition to go for this stuff.
5) After some time you tell her that you want her to wear a headscarf. Because you think that it would be really nice.
6) If she says something like "it looks ugly", "it's not fashionable", "it looks stupid" then just show her a picture of Grace Kelly or something.
7) Once she's wearing the headscarf for you, and has done so for some time, I can't say for how long, for me it was about a year. Then you get her to try out a niqab. Any woman can agree to try it out, most women are curious so that won't be a problem.
8) If she says that "it's too much", "I can't go as far as covering my face", "I can't breathe properly" then agree and say "yes it is a bit too much". Then leave it alone, and come back to it some time later.
9) Then what you do is that you flatter her in it: "you look beautiful in this", "I like you so much better than Angelina Jolie", "I totally want to marry you now" if you're not married. "Every man on the planet will want you now". Try to coax her into wearing it outside. If she flat out refuses tell her "we'll only do it once".
10) After you've taken her out in it, then you break it to her: "I want you to wear this for me because I think you're so beautiful in it". Or "you're so much better than other women". And "you're so amazing that I want you all to myself".
11) If she wears the niqab she'll wear the abaya automatically because she won't want the whole thing to look stupid.
12) There are plenty of niqabi communities such as blogs and youtube channels. Then she'll be able to share the experience with others. Also niqabis tend to blow the positives of the experience of wearing a niqab out of proportion, which is very good and encouraging for your bitch. She will hear all about how great it is to wear a niqab, that it's the best thing since sliced bread.
13) There is a distinct difference between the hijabi and the niqabi community. Hijabi girls do not like niqabis. They probably feel that they're undermining their game.
14) Refer her to my threads and to me. Then she'll see that she's not alone.
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