A question for female users: Would you be with a guy who went to a prostitute?

**Illyrius** · 08-11-2020, 02:18 PM

I think going to them is a sign that you either don't respect women or are at the lowest caste of the social hierarchy.

My cousin who is an incel (mental reasons, he's not ugly) used to go to hookers quite often while he was working abroad.

He didn't realise that it only ruined his chances with normal women even further.
If he doesn't stop his shitty habits he'll like catch an incurable STD.

**Jana** · 08-11-2020, 02:22 PM

Originally Posted by Illyrius

I think going to them is a sign that you either don't respect women or are at the lowest caste of the social hierarchy.

Not really, most of men from my family had business with prostitutes at one point of their youth (curiosity mostly) and they are very successful with women, always been.

**Illyrius** · 08-11-2020, 03:07 PM

Originally Posted by Stearsolina

Not really, most of men from my family had business with prostitutes at one point of their youth (curiosity mostly) and they are very successful with women, always been.

Well you did state that they have been successful with them so that may be one of the reasons it hasn't affected them negatively

**Katarzyna** · 11-27-2023, 10:47 PM

Let’s revive more of those threads tonight.

**tropicalslavic** · 11-27-2023, 10:57 PM

No. I also would not be with someone who had sex outside of committed long-term relationships.

**Cybele** · 11-27-2023, 10:59 PM

Nah...

Originally Posted by Katarzyna

Let’s revive more of those threads tonight.

So what would you vote or answer?

**nittionia** · 11-27-2023, 11:04 PM

That is unattractive to me

**Katarzyna** · 11-27-2023, 11:12 PM

Originally Posted by Cybele

Nah...

So what would you vote or answer?

As a person who has a gigolo friend I can’t really be a hypocrite if I vote no

**Cybele** · 11-27-2023, 11:19 PM

Originally Posted by Katarzyna

As a person who has a gigolo friend I can’t really be a hypocrite if I vote no

Oh yes

The Albanian dude with G.
But you're currently married so... it's just a hypothetical question

**Vessna** · 11-27-2023, 11:27 PM

Men use sex worker services for many reasons, from curiosity to satisfaction of their sexual needs if they cannot meet them elsewhere. I don’t see such men as losers or pervs - to each it’s own and it’s not my place to judge. As for the question, if it happened prior dating/marriage, was safe (no STDs), and was not a regular thing, I probably would not care much. Although most men would not admit it anyway.