If you don't get married by 35, you're screwed!

**rhiannon** · 01-30-2020, 11:51 PM

Originally Posted by Hithaeglir

I think that would be legit for people that want to have kids, but really a childless marriage has no age

You can marry whenever you want to.

Depends on a person's fertility.

Overall, this is true. My two biological children are 21 years apart, which is unusual.

**Matty74** · 01-31-2020, 05:37 AM

I just turned 46 a week ago. I'd like to have more legitimate kids if possible lol. Maybe I'll go to bed right now and get started on that.

**Arch Hades** · 01-31-2020, 07:13 PM

**~~Heaven~~** · 01-31-2020, 07:40 PM

Not quite so.
Let's look from our male perspective.

When you are emancipated from chains put by the religious society and think freely, the only point of getting married is perhaps to have children.
In the traditional religious society, marriage is nothing but the legalisation of sex. Nowadays, you don't live anymore under the constant terror of religious society.

Not to mention all the money, time, energy spent for ceremonies. It is not reasonable to spend all you save after earning so many months (or even years for some people) of savings.
And still you might end up divorcing 5 months later.

The only reasonable pro is having children in a regularised environment. Otherwise bearing the foul breath of a same woman for decades is beyond logically acceptable limit except if you are in "crazy" love. Too much loving is also not rational, what if it doesn't work or if she crashes her face or she dies? You won't kill yourself hopefully.

**Dušan** · 01-31-2020, 08:03 PM

Originally Posted by The Blade

First of all, a real man's goal in life is not to be ''nice'' whatever this is supposed to mean. Nor do women actually care about this.
Women appreciate confidence and when deeds match words (decent ones) or worship money (the more materialistic ones). No woman's main factor of liking someone is him being nice.
I'm not saying one should treat women like shit (of course, no) but the more you lick a woman's ass, the more she will despise you.
Also, you don't need to always agree with her (women actually appreciate justified opposition), nor should you make her the centre of your world and existence.

Well said.