Originally Posted by
White Swan
I'm going to tell you all straight up everything you need to know in hopes that some nice ladies won't have to deal with this shit.
If you want to be good, all you have to do is:
1. Don't watch porn, just trust me, it ruins men sexually. Porn users can't be good, even if they would actually try. They just have it all wrong, on a wired-in level. Literally hopelessly lost in most cases. Even if they got the concept of how to properly do it, they can't enjoy it unless they make themselves do it that way and rewire their brains, which they won't do, because of the way the porn has wired their brains. The low self esteem comes across no matter what, and as we all know confidence is important. And if the porn user is actually confident with what he's doing, that's actually even worse.
2. PAY ATTENTION to her, like she's actually in there, and not a porn star. If she acts anything like a porn star does, she's faking. Develop the ability to observe how she is feeling. It's a skill but it's not THAT hard. That is how you develop your technique, and yes you have to actually have technique. As a general rule, if she seems to like something you just did, do the same EXACT thing, the same EXACT way you just did it, not harder, not deeper, not faster for crying out loud. Another terrible habit from porn. Don't underestimate how fine tuned the vagina is, the slightest change in movement will be noticed, so just like with any communication, be very specific. Avoid painting in broad strokes, it's just really bad technique, even though it looks really good apparently in porn videos. Seriously you guys have no idea what it feels like to be a meat puppet, but not just a meat puppet, a meat puppet who has to pretend to like being a meat puppet to not be considered a defective meat puppet.
3. Don't watch porn. It also makes you moan like a girl btw.
And that's just mechanically speaking.
The #1 thing to know, other than don't watch porn, is:
It is all in her head (how she sees you, how she thinks you see her, how she thinks you see other women compared to her, how much she feels that you care about her, how strong vs. fickle you seem, etc. it'll be different for every woman). That means if you want to be good, you have to actually somewhat know what it is in her head. That's the real reason why female orgasms during sex are so rare. Man gave up on trying to understand woman long ago, not realizing its the only way to get most women to actually like having sex with them rather than feeling like they are just being poked and prodded at by a sweaty stinky spoiled selfish pervert. Just being honest.
And if a woman ever says you're too small (unless you have literal micropenis), she's done you a favor. She's told you that you need to run, because she's most likely a habitual porn user herself and is thus used to seeing giant ones, uses giant dildos on a regular basis, and is probably a hypersexualized whore. To a healthy woman, a big one is painful especially because no matter how much you think, you are not great at being gentle. And even if you have micropenis, your only real problem is changing her perception of it.
Lastly, throw away any confidence you have in your technique so you can actually begin to improve, because she was probably faking. If you really think you are one of the extreme few who has actually made a woman have an orgasm with your penis, then you better have a good reason to believe that based on all of the above information. If you aren't 100% sure that what happened was an orgasm, then it 100% was not an orgasm.
I feel like this can really actually help improve society, not even joking lol. Not that a real man never used a woman as a meat puppet, but in general, having the power to actually give a woman pleasure instead of being a porn addicted disappointment who thinks he has a harem, would probably help improve manliness, and the respect women have for their partners, which is what the world needs.
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