Is Ryan Gosling really better looking than me?

**Richmondbread** · 06-26-2022, 12:57 AM

Ryan Gosling is an actor very close to my own age. A lot of women fawn over Ryan Gosling. I don't get the appeal. IMO, if you saw him walking down the street would you really think he's a dream boat? At least I have a Germanic build. I know people constantly remind me how unattractive I am, but I don't understand what makes me so low compared to a lot of these so called "handsome" actors? I just want to know what I can do to make myself acceptable.

**Annie999** · 06-26-2022, 01:08 AM

Originally Posted by Richmondbread

Ryan Gosling is an actor very close to my own age. A lot of women fawn over Ryan Gosling. I don't get the appeal. IMO, if you saw him walking down the street would you really think he's a dream boat? At least I have a Germanic build. I know people constantly remind me how unattractive I am, but I don't understand what makes me so low compared to a lot of these so called "handsome" actors? I just want to know what I can do to make myself acceptable.

Change your personality.

**Richmondbread** · 06-26-2022, 01:10 AM

Originally Posted by Annie999

Change your personality.

But, um, what is wrong with my physical looks? If I lost weight would I be handsome?

**Richmondbread** · 06-26-2022, 01:13 AM

Originally Posted by Annie999

Change your personality.

But, um, what is wrong with my physical looks? If I lost weight would I be handsome?

**NSXD60** · 06-26-2022, 02:41 AM

He may have charisma, but Gosling looks average.

**~~Guti~~** · 06-26-2022, 02:44 AM

I think he has one big advantage toward many people here. He does really like women! And when you like something you can get a lot of it.

**Jansob** · 06-26-2022, 04:13 AM

You have asked a variation of this question something like 763,304 times, and you always get the same answer from the majority: lose some weight and you'll look fine.

Your personality is the problem, and you need to work on it. There is nothing at all you can do with your looks, including massive surgery, that will change your personality. You could be universally considered extremely handsome, and you still would have trouble getting a mate because of the things you say and the way you relate to people.

**Richmondbread** · 06-26-2022, 04:51 AM

Originally Posted by Jansob

You have asked a variation of this question something like 763,304 times, and you always get the same answer from the majority: lose some weight and you'll look fine.

Your personality is the problem, and you need to work on it. There is nothing at all you can do with your looks, including massive surgery, that will change your personality. You could be universally considered extremely handsome, and you still would have trouble getting a mate because of the things you say and the way you relate to people.

By looking fine, does it mean attractive? I don't want to be gorgeous, just handsome.

**Anglo-Celtic** · 06-26-2022, 06:28 AM

You have a problem, man. This is no insult, because my life is so FUBAR that I pray to God to stop my heart from beating on a routine basis. You and I just have our own situations. Yours is with looks, and mine is with life. I'm not saying that you're unattractive. I'm saying that you have an emotional issue and a mental block. It's likely not your fault. I know that it's something so deep that there are three faces of Meade, and that's some MK-Ultra levels of psychic trauma, so there's no way that I can judge someone who went through that.

Maybe you should just stop making these threads. That doesn't mean that you have to leave the forum, because it's likely a good hobby for you, and it keeps you off the streets where you might get in trouble (jk). You're not old or ugly, so forget about it *if you can*. Find a nice church girl, and serenade her on a date, and flush these threads down the memory hole as they're just destroying your peace of mind to the point where you lose a piece of your mind.