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Woman hits a man? People ask what the man did to deserve it
He hits her back? NOW all of a sudden, it’s “people shouldn’t hit people”…….which is a moot point because this is discussing what happens when one hits the other, not some ideal world where people DON’T hit people. No one says it while she’s assaulting him, but always say it the moment he swings back.
Woman cheats on a man? People say that the man was lacking somehow
Man has a bad experience with a woman? People tell him to choose better women
Man not attracted to a fat woman? Man is bodyshaming and needs to address his fatphobia
This ironically attempts to rob the man of his own agency
Man wants a traditional woman? Man wants a patriarchal slave and needs to address his misogyny
Woman gets into a relationship with an age gap? Man must've manipulated her into being in that relationship. Florence Pugh is an excellent example of this
Women want equal rights? They get it
Women want to be seen as equal to men? They get it
Women have to register for the draft? This is not the equality women asked for
Women can't find a man? Men need to step up! Men must not be shit! Men are trash!
Women have sky-high expectations for a man? Men need to step up
HER inability to get her standards met are MEN’S fault, not hers for having standards that weed out almost every man in existence
Women don't want to deal with other women? Patriarchy is the cause of her internalized misogyny
Man doesn't want to date a single mother? Man is not a "real man" for not stepping up
Marriage and birthrates dropping? Implement a BACHELOR tax to make MEN pay
Ignoring the fact that it takes 2 to tango
Woman wants to lose weight? Patriarchy and societal beauty standards are forcing her
Robbing her of her own body agency
Woman wants to wear makeup? Patriarchy and societal beauty standards are why she feels the need to wear makeup
Robbing her of her own body agency
Woman wants to be a stay at home mom? She's a patriarchal slave. Go on tiktok and twitter. It is RAMPANT
Robbing her of the ability to make her own decisions in life
Woman runs stuff by her husband so he knows what's going on? He must be controlling her!
Man doesn't want to date an onlyfans creator? He's insecure and sexist for not wanting a woman who makes sexual content for other men to consume
Women are freaking coddled in society. This has infantilizing implications. Take Florence Pugh. She's the sister in Black Widow. She's in a relationship with a 21 year age gap and she's 25. People accused her husband of manipulating her, like this MID-20s woman can't decide for herself who she wants to be in a relationship with, like women being with an older man is some new thing
If a woman is experiencing hardship from being fat, for some reason SOCIETY is at fault. Fat women can want fit chiseled men, but if a man wants the female equivalent of a fit, chiseled man, he's bodyshaming and fatphobic and misogynistic and somehow racist. Talking about "Thin privilege" is a direct way of relieving herself of accountability for being the cause of her hardship from being fat, and body positivity is a way to delude herself into happiness for being fat. Not saying you can't be happy and fat. Just saying if you need body positivity, you are insecure. Chances are, that insecurity that comes from being fat will alleviate when you lose weight
The lack of accountability women take assumes that everything she does, if it's not directly beneficial to her, if it has a negative consequences, is not her fault........that something ELSE must be the cause of her taking that action that didn't work out. Stay at home motherhood has been attacked by feminism for AGES and they chalk it up to patriarchy. Maybe she just WANTS to support her husband and raise their kids and not work 40-60 hours a week for 20 years.
The normalization of cheat is an epidemic. Go to Cosmo or these other trash sites. There's an article by a woman saying that EVERY woman should have an affair at least once. EVERY woman should lie and shove a spearhead in the heart of the men they're involved with. Stories about women having affairs, glamorized in these sites in their own articles. Constant advice to text as many men as possible. Advice to leave a man on the backburner so you have someone else to go to if your relationship goes belly-up. Of course, NO ONE encourages a man to have women on the backburner for if his current relationship doesn't work out. Why? It's SHITTY
If a woman is actually in a communicative marriage, and wants her husband to know what she's doing, she'd bombarded with stuff like "but your husband doesn't control you" or "you ask permission from your husband? Couldn't be me" and this is almost always said by either her single female friends or weasel men trying to be her side-piece. A woman will be gassed up on social media and her friends to leave a perfect relationship because she begins to believe she is too good for this man, and then turn around and blame social media for her choice to leave, as if she didn't pull the trigger of her own volition. Then people will go to tell her that she can find more love, more fish in the sea, all that stuff
If a man CAN be blamed, the man WILL be blamed. I remember seeing a post about abusive mothers and someone said something along the lines of “maybe she’s fed up about the father leaving and that’s why she’s abusive” literally attempting to absolve her of accountability of literally abusing her own child. Her string of bad decisions are mitigated as much as possible until it all comes back and bites her in her mid-30s and beyond
Women’s extreme lack of accountability is extreme infantilization. If a woman wants to take accountability of her actions, it seems like they have to FORCE themselves to take accountability.
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