Alpha Widowed: is it worth it to go on?

[Your Old Comrade]

Sorry not sorry, but modern women deserve what they get.

[Hulu]

I do. In fact, he said I was too traditional, and too submissive. He wanted someone who was "more his equal", and resented my traditional views on gender roles.

I take the best care of my appearance and physique that I can afford to. My femininity is as maxxed as it can possibly be on my current salary.

Your view was submissive not traditional. I don't know which community that is traditional except for cults. If you remember I was the first to be appalled by that.

I saw 1 pic of you and you were not wearing makeup at all. Is that how you are on a daily basis? Update your look. Also you dress like a mormon wife. You seek for the Chad dress the part. You can do both on a low budget. I think you can present yourself a lot better based on what you want. It would be fine if you weren't looking for a catch but your requirements are completely based on current romance level and your offer is last century.

[InmostLight]

Sorry not sorry, but modern women deserve what they get.

Did you ignore my post detailing my commitment to feminine excellence?

[Your Old Comrade]

Did you ignore my post detailing my commitment to feminine excellence?

You went for a high-flyer with a lot of options, rather than a regular guy who would be absolutely committed to you. That's the modern thing to do: you choose looks over personality.

[InmostLight]

Your view was submissive not traditional. I don't know which community that is traditional except for cults. If you remember I was the first to be appalled by that.

I saw 1 pic of you and you were not wearing makeup at all. Is that how you are on a daily basis? Update your look. Also you dress like a mormon wife. You seek for the Chad dress the part. You can do both on a low budget. I think you can present yourself a lot better based on what you want. It would be fine if you weren't looking for a catch but your requirements are completely based on current romance level and your offer is last century.

I don't wear makeup because I don't want to be deceitful, and I dress modestly because many men say they respect modest women more. I'm trying my hardest to do the right thing.

If my offer is too obsolete, what should I be offering instead?

[InmostLight]

You went for a high-flyer with a lot of options, rather than a regular guy who would be absolutely committed to you. That's the modern thing to do: you choose looks over personality.

I chose someone who was always kind to me and treated me well. He was the first to ever ask me on a date. He treated me with more love and kindness than anyone else in my entire life combined. The looks were a coincidental bonus.

[catgeorge]

Women need to understand give a man a purpose and he would walk over glass bare footed. If a man is in love he would do anything for you - but once you show modern feminism and whoring on the Iphone he will kick you to the next galaxy.

[Your Old Comrade]

I chose someone who was always kind to me and treated me well. He was the first to ever ask me on a date. He treated me with more love and kindness than anyone else in my entire life combined. The looks were a coincidental bonus.

Oh! I'm absolutely sure. I am 41, been engaged and all before. There is no fooling me about female nature.

[InmostLight]

Women need to understand give a man a purpose and he would walk over glass bare footed. If a man is in love he would do anything for you - but once you show modern feminism and whoring on the Iphone he will kick you to the next galaxy.

I am a vehement anti-feminist, much moreso than him. I did everything I could, everything I was supposed to do. He even repeatedly assured me that the breakup was not my fault.

He sent me this text yesterday:
"You're just a really good partner and a really good friend. I don't think I could ever find a better woman to marry in terms of loyalty, personality, intellect, skills"

He just stopped believing in marriage.

[Your Old Comrade]

Let's add to that your choice of words: you are picky "because you know what you are capable of receiving", and you're sad you're no longer in college because you want a "successful young man". In other words: looks and money. Typical modern woman masquerading as a trad. Still the same hypergamy.