Originally Posted by
CosmoLady
Summarising:
-Many 'trad' single women are only pretending to be trad to lure higher quality men, not a deal-breaker but be aware
-Many 'trad' single women are experienced women who are reinventing themselves, not a deal-breaker but be aware
-If she knows too much about what men like or believe, then she is probably very experienced with men,
you may or may not want this
-She may only be as religious or conservative as her last boyfriend
-If she is the "right one" for you, then you would know, instinctively
-Find someone inoffensive who lets you think what you want; do not try to find someone who is exactly like you
-Make sure that your future wife is someone who consistently makes your life easier and more pleasant;
someone who is trustworthy and will support you and make you happy
-Once you make your interest known, if she does not reciprocate, then she is not interested;
the relationship will not last anyway
-Quickly stop thinking about and wasting time on women who are clearly not interested;
there is nothing you can do to make it work
-Women on dating apps tend to be of low quality (with some exceptions), get rid of the apps
-"Hot" women will often make life hellish and miserable for you
-Avoid even attractive people who are mentally ill or sociopathic, who have substance abuse issues, who sleep around a lot,
and who live in filth; she will later accuse you of rape and cause you many other problems, all of your texts will become public
-Do not worry about your age as a man; be mindful of the passage of time but be patient, do not rush
-Do not let frequent sex blind you to warning signs about the relationship
-There is no consequence-free sex in a relationship,
there is a bond created that will affect both partners (directly or indirectly) for quite some time,
empty relationships are harmful too
-Outgrow the childish, immature need for female attention and constant sex; being a playboy does not lead anywhere good
-Do not try to attract all women; try to attract the RIGHT TYPE of woman
-Men who have sex with too many women have some psychological issue and are trying to prove something to themselves or father;
a man's high body count may correlate with manliness and success but does not cause them
-Sex is not the most important thing, sex becomes old eventually
-Probably you will not find "the one" when you are in your 20s, unless in a special situation
-Be careful and be absolutely sure, a bad marriage can ruin your life
-Do not sacrifice yourself to be with someone who has considerable problems, this can ruin your life
-Women naturally want to "filter out losers and trick winners that they are the best"
-Women are naturally hypergamist, will "swing branches" to get the highest quality man that they can,
including abandoning an existing decent relationship if there is someone they can get who seems to be better
-Be careful, discern, investigate, be realistic, and use your intuition
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