Single Mother (Reality Check)

[Victor]

He feels threatened when there are men secure in themselves enough to not be upset by the mere existence of women they personally wouldn't date.

Male equivalent of those women who post 24/7 obsessively online about how men are worthless if they're not 6 feet tall making 6 figures or whatever the hell, as if anyone asked them.

I see such people, both men and women, badly need some group of same thinking people, they need some influencers, gurus, "cool based chad guys" and in fact in most of cases such people are introverts or even sociopaths, because their "gang" exists on internet and they're almost zero in communicating people irl. In most of cases such people live in societies where people, even relatives, neighbors are quite alien to each other. It's some kind of escapism into some made up reality, where like the Don Quijot they're fighting against the windmills.

[Scarface F]

[Insuperable]

Simp



I been there done that, I don't recommend for any man to raise some other dude's kids. I mean there might be exceptions, but they are rare.



Simp




LET the simps do it, they will learn their lesson at the end of the road.

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[SilverKnight]

...really weird amount of projection there. I wouldn't remarry even if I was widowed anyway. Lol

Men who are obsessed with virgins are weirdos, but to each his own. I was obsessed with virgin men when I was an insecure teenager but I ended up growing out of it when my confidence and mental health improved. Really not a hill I'm willing to die on with an internet stranger.

You call my thinking "projection" and I call yours COPING.

It's natural for men to want a virgin, it's the law of nature since the dawn of men. I much rather have a brand new car, or home (as an example) than an old used up car/ home.... something I can claim to be mine first and no one else's before me.

[Katarzyna]

You call my thinking "projection" and I call yours COPING.

It's natural for men to want a virgin, it's the law of nature since the dawn of men. I much rather have a brand new car, or home (as an example) than an old used up car/ home.... something I can claim to be mine first and no one else's before me.

Good luck finding a woman who literally wants to be your property.

[Scarface F]

Good luck finding a woman who literally wants to be your property.

He wrote here he remains married only because of kid and how unhappy he was.

[Dušan]

You call my thinking "projection" and I call yours COPING.

It's natural for men to want a virgin, it's the law of nature since the dawn of men. I much rather have a brand new car, or home (as an example) than an old used up car/ home.... something I can claim to be mine first and no one else's before me.

She doesn't have to be a virgin, but she doesn't have to be a single mother either.

[Katarzyna]

He wrote here he remains married only because of kid and how unhappy he was.

At least he’s not a hypocrite then. Cause if he ever considers divorce he would be “low level” himself. And expecting a virgin as a divorced man with a kid wouldn’t be really an attractive trait on the dating market.

[Dušan]

There are lot of divorced men with kids, so single mother should date with them. They have similar life stage and could functioning together.

Leave other people to choose what they want.

[Scarface F]

I dated a single father, didn't mind he has little daughter. I was more bothered he was a deadbeat, absent father. Such men are to be avoided.