Moving to Kenya

[Universe]

So you are not manly enough for Bulgarian women (according to you), but you expect that you will be manly enough for African women?

[Hithaeglir]

Yes, I have been recently diagnosed. Obviously I will be disappointed if the Kenya thing doesn't work out but I am prepared for that and I have set clear boundaries of what I can accept and what not. I treat the Kenyan girl no different than I treated Bulgarian girls before her. I don't view her as easy, I don't view her as sex doll, and if I have clear signs that she only views me as a wallet or a ticket out of Africa, I will just block her.

The fact that she is asking you to pay for a visa, tickets and accommodation has not made you realise that she sees you as a wallet out of Africa?

[Lioncourt]

So you are not manly enough for Bulgarian women (according to you), but you expect that you will be manly enough for African women?

I don't remember when I have said that I'm "not manly enough" for Bulgarian women. For some I may am, for some not. Also perception of "manliness" varies between individuals, not between countries and continents.

The fact that she is asking you to pay for a visa, tickets and accommodation has not made you realise that she sees you as a wallet out of Africa?

Okay, let's assume she only sees me as a ticket out of Africa. That would be very dumb of hers, unless she has prepared a fake id. She is not really coming through smelly bus smuggled across the Turkish border or with boat on the Mediterranean. She is coming officially with flight.

Wouldn't it be smarter if she instead chooses to live with a Bulgarian guy her age that has income (she thinks I am poorer than I really am) who can ensure stable life for her (from her pov)? It might not turn out well, we might not live together at all, might divorce, but that can happen with all couples.

I know that it smells like betabuxxxing, but reality is that in the third world it is still widely accepted that the man is financially responsible. Woman's job is to be a housewife and raise kids there quite often.

[Lioncourt]

Going through a youtube channel, apparently there exist some African women who search for white husband. Some well known TA members can also try to find their luck with an African lady.

[Benyzero]

Going through a youtube channel, apparently there exist some African women who search for white husband. Some well known TA members can also try to find their luck with an African lady.

Like Richmondbread for example?

[Lioncourt]

Like Richmondbread for example?

Yes, but as far as I know he is white supremacist so I guess he won't be interested.

[rajputprincess]

Going through a youtube channel, apparently there exist some African women who search for white husband. Some well known TA members can also try to find their luck with an African lady.

I have heard incel talking about this too. But those girls usually are from Asian and Latin American countries like turkey, indonesia, colombia etc

First time hearing about African women doing it.

[Lioncourt]

I have heard incel talking about this too. But those girls usually are from Asian and Latin American countries like turkey, indonesia, colombia etc

First time hearing about African women doing it.

The channel is from African women pov. They share stories from dating apps with white men. Some married and lived happily, some separated after meeting in person or marriage, some were just played around.

There is one vlogger called Sindy Petronella, Kenyan who met her German husband in South Africa, they have a child now.

[Lioncourt]

It is worth mentioning that even it might seems that my actions are saying otherwise, I still think that people are best marrying within their own ethnicity or at least within their metaethnicity or close to it. Just my specific case is different, as I am different from the ordinary people and not in a good way.

[Voskos]

It is worth mentioning that even it might seems that my actions are saying otherwise, I still think that people are best marrying within their own ethnicity or at least within their metaethnicity or close to it. Just my specific case is different, as I am different from the ordinary people and not in a good way.

the two might be related, ironically. You think that people should marry similar people , therefore, since you see yourself as different from ordinary (which i doubt personally) , you feel the need to marry outside of your ethnicity because if you marry a Bulgarian you somehow transgress that rule of yours (that people should marry coethnics/similar to them etc). You are a similar case to that croat nationalist woman who married a hungarian, because she sees herself as outside of the norm.