Croatian man killed in Ireland "for speaking Croatian"

[CosmoLady]

I want to challange Blondi / Cosmolady to a lightsaber duel.
I am logging off now. When I come back I want a yes/no answer.

(I would never live in an urban ghetto, but I can tolerate rural poverty, I have been there.)

First priority, someone who is physically and mentally healthy, not amoral/sociopathic (this is mentally unhealthy).

Second priority, someone who is at about the same level as I am, of intelligence, class, and attractiveness.
(I do not really want a man notably higher or lower than I am)

Third priority, someone who is decently attractive and who arouses me.
(My physical standards are not very high.)

Fourth priority (usually the deciding factor), someone who shares my values, the basics.

Fifth priority, someone who is compatible with me, psychologically and astrologically.

Sixth priority, someone who satisfies me sexually and keeps up with me, in many areas of life, I am very energetic.

Seventh priority, someone who can lead the household, who is confident and assertive.

[Blondie]

I want to challange Blondi / Cosmolady to a lightsaber duel.
I am logging off now. When I come back I want a yes/no answer.

I already invited you to Budapest several times to meet. You always said no.

[Kess]

Money is not determined by luck, but it is determined by character, values and behavior.

To describe it with one word “ conscientiousness”

Still, path to money is complicated and various. At one point, you may be just in the right time and place to seize an oppurtunity and become rich.

[Incal]

So, NO ONE in Peru loves anyone? EVERYONE in Peru pays for sex? I think that YOU live in a bubble.

People in Peru love money first and foremost.

A low-quality man can only get low-quality women, and only if he pays. Sad!

Man always pay, in some way or another.

[Mingle]

You just love to play with words. It still doesn't change the fact we pay for sex by paying for marriage. I am now really starting to think you wemen live in your own bubble and are semi-retarded. All psychologists, including quite academically cited ones like Jordan Peterson say all men pay for sex.

What about those broke hoodlums that women fall for?

Or where poorer men date richer woman?

[Mingle]

Most women (and men!) consciously or subconsciously know that men with money are on average higher quality men than the ones with less money, but the thing is: women deny this because they don't want to be shamed for being "gold diggers". So the discussion is senseless.

So you're saying they gravitate towards dating men who happen to be richer rather than specifically because they're richer?

[Petalpusher]

I disagree. Random article I found: https://www.chicagobooth.edu/review/...ires-self-made

I am not talking about rich people only btw. I also think middle income people have better values than low income people.

I would say as well it's the very low and somewhat rich that have the least values but we are not talking really rich. Thoses had to work a lot for at least a significant part of their life.

This is a giant myth that pertains, mostly in peasants...and people who inherited some, so they feel better about themselves i suspect, thinking it's the same for everyone else with any money.

It applies as well for millionaires, i would say at least 75% of them are self made too.

Not many have a grasp on what billionaire truely means and what it takes to get to that level. People don't routinely inherit billions, that's an extremely rare case. There are only 40 Billionaires in a country like Switzerland and Japan for example. Most people have never met or observe the life of that level of wealth (even much lower). What they ve seen is midly rich people, the 5 to 1%, maybe 0,1% at best, who tend to show off the most. I ve seen that many times in women who think they date millionaires, when they clearly arent, but generally women have a very vague idea about money. As long as you pay for everything, even expensive things, you are a millionaire for them and they might even think they are exploiting these guys, when it's like spending fraction of a cent for someone who is actually rich. Congratulations you ve just sold your ass in exchange of thin air.

[Incal]

Most women (and men!) consciously or subconsciously know that men with money are on average higher quality men than the ones with less money, but the thing is: women deny this because they don't want to be shamed for being "gold diggers". So the discussion is senseless.

Because that's the way we are configured: men provide and women return sexual recreation and babies. Thing is, we simplified the equation when we created money. And anybody thinking a couple of centuries will erase thousands of years are just delusional.

[Universe]

To describe it with one word “ conscientiousness”

Still, path to money is complicated and various. At one point, you may be just in the right time and place to seize an oppurtunity and become rich.

My opinion: what you described happens in some individual cases. I am talking about groups of people, entire societies and averages.

[Dušan]

He is right if we are talking about Bosnia. In the poorer countries, women have not much salary, of course the money will be more important, and women expect you to pay. Its very visible in rural Hungary too, where peoples are poor.
But if youre going to Budapest, this situation is pretty different, because budapesters (guys, girls) have very high salary and peoples have average western living standards. This "guy must pay" mentality is not so common, because women also have lot of money. In Budapest, its pretty normal if everyone pays for its own consumption. I saw this behavior in München too.
The problem with Insuperable is he has no idea about the world outside of Bosnia and his poor village.

Lets be clear: no woman in Balkans would be with a man who cant afford or dont want pay her a drink or a meal.
Its a simple fact.
I dont know how it is in other part of world, but this is how it is in ex-Yugoslavia.

He doesnt need to be among the top richest, but has to afford this.