How much do you care about chemistry in dating?

[Victor]

True, but on the other hand when you give them a lot (attention, money, stuff, etc) they give a lot back in return. Not something like "I wont cook, I wont clean, I wont even wear something other than a ragged sweatpants when going out on a date". You give them what they want, you`ll come home to a house you could eat from the floor because it`s so sparkling clean, to the scent of a freshly cooked meal, everything is furnished comfortably and the woman herself is looking top notch, wearing a good, stylish outfit, light make up etc. You can just kick back and relax instead of worrying. That`s at least my experience with thus far two Russian women.

Lots of them seek attitude like to a wife without being a wife. Like playing family and full maintenance.

[PlattitüdenPaule]

Lots of them seek attitude like to a wife without being a wife. Like playing family and full maintenance.

I dont mind investing good money and time into a quality woman, if the return looks something like this. Also one wanted to marry and have children as fast as possible. Other one wanted to finish her apprenticeship first, to have a safety net.

[CosmoLady]

I personally don't know what to say at this point. I was talking to very cute kazakh girls . Her english was decent in text but we did video chat. And it was not really good in video. I was barely able to understand what she was saying. I sort of lost 90% attraction. We had some chemistry in text but 0 on video.
Kind of usually happened with Asian girls I talk to on discord (I usually go for girls from asia) We have chemistry on text but not on video. Because I can barely understand them.

I usually lose attraction if I don't feel chemistry.

Also my biggest problem is that many women expect you to entertain them . If you talk to them
Finding girls whose personality click with mine is already hard.
And it suck when they can't talk in English in videos
At this point. I feel like maybe I should stop trying to date women
And just accept being single.

Chemistry is many intangible things: mutual physical and sentimental attraction, communication, presence, manner...

Chemistry is very important, but you need to meet IN PERSON to assess chemistry properly.
Online is not a good way to assess chemistry.

Can you try meeting girls locally? At bars, cafes, clubs, or other public places?

Otherwise, try meeting girls online who live in your area, who you can meet in person.

Here is a perfect example of non-sexual chemistry: