I don't think you can be fat and be handsome

[Richmondbread]

I think that I WOULD BE handsome, but I let myself go and got fat and until I get to a leaner healthy weight, I will not be objectively handsome. You can have very nice features but the fat hides them and at best I could be slightly above average looking- due to my decent skin and hairline. But I can't be considered "classically handsome' when I am 70 lbs overweight. Isn't this a good assessment? Can we move on from this?

[Scarface F]

You can be beautiful as fat (beauty is objective, meaning symetrical and well proportioned facial features and has nothing to do with weight), but not attractive. If you want to be attractive you must lose weight.

Many fit people that are attractive are not beautiful btw.

[Annihilus]

You can be beautiful as fat (beauty is objective, meaning symetrical and well proportioned facial features and has nothing to do with weight), but not attractive. If you want to be attractive you must lose weight.

Many fit people that are attractive are not beautiful btw.

I don't fancy "fat" women, but once in a while I see a woman that is not my bmi type and I go hot damn!

[Annihilus]

You can be beautiful as fat (beauty is objective, meaning symetrical and well proportioned facial features and has nothing to do with weight), but not attractive. If you want to be attractive you must lose weight.

Many fit people that are attractive are not beautiful btw.

oh I and don't like your hair style, longer hair looks so much better on you (sorry for offtopic, it was stuck in my mind)

[Richmondbread]

You can be beautiful as fat (beauty is objective, meaning symetrical and well proportioned facial features and has nothing to do with weight), but not attractive. If you want to be attractive you must lose weight.

Many fit people that are attractive are not beautiful btw.

I agree that you can be "fit" and not pretty or handsome, but it does help if you have the canvas to work with.

[Scarface F]

oh I and don't like your hair style, longer hair looks so much better on you (sorry for offtopic, it was stuck in my mind)

I wouldn't cut my hair if it was good. It doesn't loog good any longer, trust me.
My hair was totally thin and destroyed, it looked terrible. Between healthy looking short hair and thin ill looking long hair I chose the former.

Will grow long hair again when my hair recovers, if ever.

[Annihilus]

I wouldn't cut my hair if it was good. It doesn't loog good any longer, trust me.
My hair was totally thin and destroyed, it looked terrible. Between healthy looking short hair and thin ill looking long hair I chose the former.

Will grow long hair again when my hair recovers, if ever.

I don't mean long long, it was not an attractive cut in my eyes. Semi-short can look good on you (like your mom) since you are pretty, but your current hairdresser is no good

[Scarface F]

I don't mean long long, it was not an attractive cut in my eyes. Semi-short can look good on you (like your mom) since you are pretty, but your current hairdresser is no good

I won't change my hair and I don't agree with you. I have best hairdresser in city btw.

[tropicalslavic]

I think a handsome face, as long as the excess fat does not accumulate within this face, is still a handsome face.

A man can't really be overall attractive, even with a handsome face, if he is obese.

Some men carry a small amount of extra weight well, but no one should really push it. Anything over 10-15 lbs overweight is noticeable and almost universally unattractive on a man. My dad died of a massive stroke plus heart attack at 50 partly due to obesity, there is a reason obesity is not a part of the beauty standard except in truly disturbed societies.

[Hyena]

I think that I WOULD BE handsome, but bla blah blah Can we move on from this?

Jesus Christ meade, people have been telling you to move on from this for years! Years! It's all in your hands - just stop initiating these 'Aren't I beautiful', 'Don't I look more handsome than', 'Why do people say this guy is good looking', 'Why can't I be attractive' threads.