How do you leave someone you Love....

**Heart of Oak** · 04-20-2012, 09:11 AM

Originally Posted by Sigur Rós

There's something called, speaking to them.

talking is fine we talk all the time however emotionly it solves nothing.......

**Kazimiera** · 04-20-2012, 11:05 AM

When you want to end a relationship with someone, there is a reason why you want to do so. If that reason didn't exist then you would want to stay together with that person.

I think it is important to keep this reason in mind and go ahead with your decision. There will still be an emotional attachment of some sort, oftentimes because the relationship has became a habit. Chances are things will get ugly, but you just have to persevere.

In the beginning there are promises that things will change but it won't.

A relationship is like a porcelain cup. Once there is a chip missing or crack in it you might try to glue it back together but it will never be the same again. Best is just to get out and stay out even if it is hard in the beginning.

I know it's cliche, but things do get better with time. The more distance you gain from it, the more you can start viewing it objectively. Chances are you might be happy that you have done so.

Sometimes the other person may have done something you cannot live with, or you might just have grown apart over the years. These things do happen and by letting it go you will probably be doing them a favour too.

Remember that it probably isn't just you feeling that way.