I wrote a little guide on how I think a man should beat his woman some time ago. What is you take on beatings:
a) When is it okay to beat your woman?
b) For what purpose?
c) In what way?
The point of beatings
The point is that your woman should do everything for you. That she should live for her man. Unfortunately, even if a woman loves you, she may not believe in this wholeheartedly and she might not know how to give you what you want. She might also hesitate and be insecure. By consistently disciplining her, you will make her sure that it is right to do everything for you.
"I want you to not speak in the company of other people".
"No. You suck!"
Then you discipline her.
Remember that you should have anything you want out of your woman. The goal of the discipline is to break her down until she understands that she must do everything for you.
The role of the man
The role of the man is that he takes care of the woman and he needs to work with these premises no matter what he does. When it comes to actually hitting the woman, he needs to do this as a form of discipline and punishment, in order to better the woman. He should not hit her just for the sake of hitting, or to "neg" and "humiliate" her. It shows that you have a personal problem with the woman, and that's something a woman would have. Since the man knows that he is naturally superior to the woman, he will not have any personal issue with her. That is like having a grudge against your dog.
How you should apply discipline
It needs to be a punishment, a correction for when the woman does something wrong or not to your satisfaction. It should strive to improve the woman. You should do it because you care about her, not because you feel a personal satisfaction from "getting back at her for being a bitch".
I personally think that a tool is very effective: a crop, a stick, even a belt will do. When you feel she has not pleased you, you tell her what she has done wrong ("You have burned the food") and that you must now punish her for it. You can tell her to go to a designated spot for this ("towards the wall") or stand in a certain position. Then you strike her as many times as you feel is needed (for example 3-4 times with the belt). Afterwards you tell her not to do it again ("Don't burn the food again"). If she refuses to comply, just make her.
These are just safety precautions:
* Don't allow her to have friends that are not kept in the same way.
* Preferably, she should not have access to her own money and her own phone.
* Watch out for health care staff. Never allow her to be alone with them. Some of them will try to pull her aside to "have a talk". Then it doesn't matter if she denies it, they can still get you in trouble. You should instruct her before each health care visit that if anyone asks to speak with her without you present, she should say no and say that she wants to leave. Then you leave.
* Have a cover story just in case. Mine is bdsm sex. If someone asks, I tell them I like getting spanked, and it's none of their business. This can be good in case the neighbors call the cops on you.
* Document that your domestic discipline is consensual and stash it in a safe place. A written statement, some videos of her stating this and being cheery about it, can all be good ideas.
This is in case you ever end up in court for whatever reason.
This is my opinion of how domestic violence should work. Other people have a different opinion. What I have written is from one woman's point of view.