Beating your woman

[Loki]

Domestic violence was standard practice throughout history, until about a generation or two ago ... I'm not sure if all ethnic groups are complicit in this, maybe you guys can let me know.

I don't know if my father ever hit my mother. If he did I never saw it.

But I saw him hitting our dog severely because it pooped in the wrong place. I was revolted and from there on could no longer have a normal father-son relationship with my father. I love animals and it is not within me to want to ever do such a thing. The animal has no defence ..

[Loki]

2Cool please stop trolling. If you don't like this topic then unsubscribe from the topic.

[Hurrem sultana]

Valid arguments? Look at her post history and what she agrees with:

a woman shouldn't be wearing summerclothes when it's summer
a woman shouldn't go outside without the permission of her man
a woman shouldn't speak to other men even under all circumstances
a woman should were a niqab
her man must control the money,her man must tell her what to do and how to do it
she just must bend over and listen to him
the woman has to compare herself to a pornstar to be a goodwife
the woman must get beatings if she doesn't obey
the woman should never speak judge the actions of her man
the man can go and kiss other woman but the woman should stay home


Just like you guys play arm-chair anthropologists all the time, I'll play arm-chair psychiatrist and say that Mary has issues, which ones I don't know, but she has some. A person with a normal upbringing wouldn't hold such beliefs.

These kind of opinions(not all at the same time) are common in big parts of world,even some European countries

[Germanicus]

Domestic violence was standard practice throughout history, until about a generation or two ago ... I'm not sure if all ethnic groups are complicit in this, maybe you guys can let me know.

I don't know if my father ever hit my mother. If he did I never saw it.

But I saw him hitting our dog severely because it pooped in the wrong place. I was revolted and from there on could no longer have a normal father-son relationship with my father. I love animals and it is not within me to want to ever do such a thing. The animal has no defence ..

As an animal lover i abhor violence on defensless dumb animals....totally!

[Mary]

Valid arguments? Look at her post history and what she agrees with:

a woman shouldn't be wearing summerclothes when it's summer
a woman shouldn't go outside without the permission of her man
a woman shouldn't speak to other men even under all circumstances
a woman should were a niqab
her man must control the money,her man must tell her what to do and how to do it
she just must bend over and listen to him
the woman has to compare herself to a pornstar to be a goodwife
the woman must get beatings if she doesn't obey
the woman should never speak judge the actions of her man
the man can go and kiss other woman but the woman should stay home


Just like you guys play arm-chair anthropologists all the time, I'll play arm-chair psychiatrist and say that Mary has issues, which ones I don't know, but she has some. A person with a normal upbringing wouldn't hold such beliefs.

If what I think is crazy then the opposite of that should be sane, right?

* He doesn't want you to cover up during the summer. He wants you to show off the goodies for all to see.
* He's fine with you coming and going as you please. If you go out, you're on your own.
* He wants you to speak to other men.
* He doesn't want you to cover your face.
* You're on your own with the finances. And with everything else too.
* You can do whatever you want. He doesn't care.
* You can never have fun sex.
* He really doesn't give a damn what you do.
* It's okay if you bitch and nag.
* He doesn't pursue other women, but it's okay if you pursue other men.

^I think this is a bad deal because it shows a lack of commitment and emotional investment and just general not giving a fuck on the part of the man. I wouldn't take this deal, it's bad for any woman. I just wouldn't touch it. A woman pays in cash and sex for a man to be in charge and take care of her, not to have his own little bachelor life. Then I might as well hire a jester or something. Most women want the same thing, doesn't matter what upbringing you have.

But okay, let's say I'm crazy. It's not against the law to be crazy. It's not against the forum rules. So what difference does it make? Some of the greatest thinkers and artists and so on could be considered to have been crazy. So you could argue that you shouldn't listen to normal people because they don't bring anything interesting to the discussion.

[Mary]

Why would I be jealous of your lifestyle? You dress like a ninja and do what your husband tells you as if he's some type of god. Not only wouldn't I want to be in your position but I wouldn't want a wife that's so spineless either.

So what are the options?

1) Having a spineless man and the woman has to be in charge.

2) Having two people "with a backbone". Sounds like two men living together.

Face it, no woman wants to play the role of the man.

[Queen B]

* He doesn't want you to cover up during the summer. He wants you to show off the goodies for all to see.

He want's you to feel free and dress the way you like, the way is more comfortable for you.
He is more concerned about you being comfortable and feeling okay, than his self and his jealousy and mistrust.

* He's fine with you coming and going as you please. If you go out, you're on your own.

* He is fine to have the same freedom as he has

* He wants you to speak to other men.

* He doesn't mind you to speak to other men, since he trusts you and knows that you are not going to do anything more than talking.

* He doesn't want you to cover your face.

Exactly.

* You're on your own with the finances. And with everything else too.

Man controlling the finances, the opposite is not to be on your own.
Is to have a common sharing, and both of them deciding of how and where the money will be spent, since they are a COUPLE/family/union.

* You can never have fun sex.

What is fun for everyone, differs -> See your poll.

* He really doesn't give a damn what you do.

He does, what makes you say that.?

* It's okay if you bitch and nag.

It's okay to speak to resolve your issues, use (both) your logic to solve any problems and not acting like animals.. The difference we have from animals, who solve their problems with the physical power, is the mind/logic.

* He doesn't pursue other women, but it's okay if you pursue other men.

None of them pursuing other people. It's not find for the man to do it and not the woman, neither for the woman to do it and not the man.

You don't take the opposites exactly, Mary.
And you portray is exactly the opposite. He doesn't care about you with what you say.He gives more ''fuck'' about his insecurities and well-being in burden of your own good, than he does for you.

[Quorra]

This is just getting ugly. Way to loony left for me.

[Mary]

He want's you to feel free and dress the way you like, the way is more comfortable for you.
He is more concerned about you being comfortable and feeling okay, than his self and his jealousy and mistrust.

You can't be free in a relationship. Because now you're taking care of somebody else's needs and he's taking care of your needs.

I feel more comfortable with a man that doesn't want to show me off on the street.

* He is fine to have the same freedom as he has

Freedom for a man is to come and go as he wants. Freedom for a woman is to stay in the home.

* He doesn't mind you to speak to other men, since he trusts you and knows that you are not going to do anything more than talking.

He shouldn't trust other men to talk to me.

Exactly.

Which means he wants other men to see your face. Why would he want that?

Man controlling the finances, the opposite is not to be on your own.
Is to have a common sharing, and both of them deciding of how and where the money will be spent, since they are a COUPLE/family/union.

If you're going to decide together you might as well be on your own.

What is fun for everyone, differs -> See your poll.

Only that you're not allowed to be a porn star for your man, right?

He does, what makes you say that.?

He's not going to do anything about it.

It's okay to speak to resolve your issues, use (both) your logic to solve any problems and not acting like animals.. The difference we have from animals, who solve their problems with the physical power, is the mind/logic.

Basically it's okay if you bitch and nag.

None of them pursuing other people. It's not find for the man to do it and not the woman, neither for the woman to do it and not the man.

It's natural for a man to pursue other women. It's natural for a woman to stay away from other men.

You don't take the opposites exactly, Mary.
And you portray is exactly the opposite. He doesn't care about you with what you say.He gives more ''fuck'' about his insecurities and well-being in burden of your own good, than he does for you.

I have to take the opposites exactly. The "rules" reflect what I have chosen, so if that is crazy, then the opposite should be normal.

[Lumi]

Mary, you have ISSUES

Judging by your posts you are either psycho, some fundamental Muslim, sadist or mentally disturbed retard

Honestly, even my posts are not that idiotic and retarted At least I am joking, whereas you are serious..And this is the problem!

DO you like being beaten by your hubbie. You must be married to Hannibal Lecter or the SAW guy.. I can't understand you!!!

If she was a Sadist, it would be her beating and sodomizing her husband.
She sounds more like a Masochist.
And don't call her either. That's an insult to Sadists and Masochists everywhere.