So, another poll. The reason I ask this is because a friend of mine (15) is now going to be a daddy with his gf (16). So, as the question says; What's the "best" age to have children (in your eyes)?
Getting children when?
So, another poll. The reason I ask this is because a friend of mine (15) is now going to be a daddy with his gf (16). So, as the question says; What's the "best" age to have children (in your eyes)?
:Visi neinn, sithan mathr fylgja neinn:
:Fylgja neinn, sithan mathr visi neinn:
:Hvarfa vith til mathr, etha fagna mathr:
Gifts does not need to be great, one does often get compliments to few
This one is machine and nerve, and got a mind concluded.
This one is but flesh and faith, and are the more deluded.
When the couple feel ready. But being mum/dad under 20 is not the best choice you can have in your life.
For me, personally, 30 - 35 like my mother or never...
“The truth is lived, not taught."Void aka DusanTabiti is just a paranoid Bulgarian who clearly has an agenda
It totally depends on the individual. Some shouldn't even reproduce.
But why 30 pluss? Like, if education takes that long, a-okay, but of not I don't see no problem. One have a tendency to say a couple ain't mature enough to have kid when they're in their twenties, but having a kid does something to ya, not talking out of experience though.
:Visi neinn, sithan mathr fylgja neinn:
:Fylgja neinn, sithan mathr visi neinn:
:Hvarfa vith til mathr, etha fagna mathr:
Gifts does not need to be great, one does often get compliments to few
This one is machine and nerve, and got a mind concluded.
This one is but flesh and faith, and are the more deluded.
Because you might not feel ready?
I finish my education next year, but it is not that, since I already have "classmates" with babies in my university and they succeed pretty well with both family and educational issues.
I prefer to find a stable job, start certain career, left my parents and learn to live with someone else, no overcome my sense of egoism, first. Not the last, I prefer my current situation, because feel still young, irresponsible and unmature to take care even for myself.
“The truth is lived, not taught."Void aka DusanTabiti is just a paranoid Bulgarian who clearly has an agenda
Honest self-reflexion is the first step towards wisdom. Congrats!
Brother, these Americans are shopkeeper souls stinking to heaven. Dead for all spiritual life, totally dead. The nightingale is right that it does not come to these wretched existences. To me it is of serious, deeper meaning that America has no nightingale at all. To me it seems to be poetic justice. A Niagara voice is necessary to preach to these crooks that there are higher Gods than those coined in the mints."
(Nikolaus Lenau, 1833)
Well when the couple feels ready is always going to be the best time because ready and prepared parents will be the best.
Personally I would hope 25-30, I will be finished my education when I am 22-24 (depending on what degree I decide to do) but then I will have a $50,000 student loan and not be in a great position for having kids so would want to wait a few more years. However I am hoping to have 4 kids () so I can't be starting too late!
Oh and I need a man
Last edited by Rainraven; 06-10-2009 at 10:34 AM.
Stay out of alcohol, cigarettes, exercise and leave healthy, there won't be a problem becoming a parent at the age of 30-32.
"When the couple feel ready" is nonsense. It should read "When the couple is ready". So, most likely, never.
Brother, these Americans are shopkeeper souls stinking to heaven. Dead for all spiritual life, totally dead. The nightingale is right that it does not come to these wretched existences. To me it is of serious, deeper meaning that America has no nightingale at all. To me it seems to be poetic justice. A Niagara voice is necessary to preach to these crooks that there are higher Gods than those coined in the mints."
(Nikolaus Lenau, 1833)
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