What is that you really want out of life?

[leisitox]

Im just 16, so is natural no having clues.
I want clues? or I can make the clues?

[Mans not hot]

Travel is over rated. Most of the world sucks ass. Stay home, save money and keep the illusion alive. You can travel the whole freaking universe in your mind! You'll thank me later for this priceless advice!

Sorry, but I'd stick with mine.

[ficuscarica]

arcticwolf is right...

[Tabiti]

Are you gonna be ok in 10 years with what you've done said?

For the last 25 years I realised one thing - I'm never gonna be OK with myself, no matter what I've achieved. So, I just want be able to make my little material pleasures in need to calm down just a little my grumble spirit.

[arcticwolf]

Just serve God.
Only know that I think about that question I realize that I don´t really care about the rest... where I live, whether I marry or not, etc. If I am supposed to do it, I will do it.

That's a great goal to have. You can't go wrong with that one.

[arcticwolf]

Im just 16, so is natural no having clues.
I want clues? or I can make the clues?

It'll come to you. No need to rush at your age. Here's what you WANT to learn today "patience is the greatest of virtues". At 16 it makes no sense and seems counter intuitive, but it's true. You just gonna have to trust me on this.

[arcticwolf]

Sorry, but I'd stick with mine.

I value free will and freedom, so suit yourself. Don't bitch later that I haven't warned you!

[Mans not hot]

I value free will and freedom

That's the spirit, brat.

[arcticwolf]

For the last 25 years I realised one thing - I'm never gonna be OK with myself, no matter what I've achieved. So, I just want be able to make my little material pleasures in need to calm down just a little my grumble spirit.

Here's the scoop sis, happiness is a state of mind. It's not really tied to anything external, though it seems that way. The desire to possess (material things, knowledge, power, fame what have you) is the source of unhappiness. It's not that the things/states themselves are inherently wrong/evil it's the state of mind the driving desire puts the mind in that is the culprit. Desire builds up pressure, which is there until the desire is satisfied. It's the short moment of the desire less state that is bliss and happiness. Unfortunately mind will jump on something else to desire so it never lasts long enough.

Fortunately there is a whole another way of looking at life and the desire itself, you can learn not to want what you want. or at least to be aware of the state of mind and the consequences of the that state of mind. In other words desire can be controlled and even understood, the bare mechanics of it. It really can.

Disciplined mind is your best friend, unruly wild mind is your worst enemy. It's that simple really.

[arcticwolf]

That's the spirit, brat.

Well, this is what I love most about being born Polish. We suck the love of the freedom and independence with the milk of our mothers. I never met a real Pole that has not loved freedom above all else. We are not perfect (some say ), but we sure love freedom!