"Once a cheater always a cheater" True or False?

[Leon_C]

I don't understand cheating if you're lucky enough to have a girlfriend already why do you want more, leave some girls for the rest of us guys.

[King Claus]

Lol, not every person is the same.

[mr. logan]

It depends on what kind of relationship. And there are a lot of cheating ways. There is one relationship where that is verboten. If that kind ever appears.
I thought you were planning some cheating method for the tests and wanted to unload guilt.

[Arathor]

The way I see it, cheating is like virginity. Once you cheat, you'll always be a cheat. Nothing will ever change that. I would dump a woman on the spot if I found out that she cheated on a previous partner, because it shows that she lacks self-respect, morals, self-control, judgement, patience, and dedication - as well as having totally incompatible views on relationships. These are integral characteristics of her personality and largely cannot be changed. I don't want to waste my time on a woman who is unable to commit.

Cheaters don't always cheat again, but the majority of them do, that's a statistical fact. Someone who has already cheated on a partner is extremely more likely to cheat on a future partner than someone who has never cheated before. Once they cheat, cheaters become psychologically desensitised to cheating, and that can never be undone.

Well, the way I see it: if a partner feels the need to cheat, they aren't happy in the relationship. When they find what they're looking for, they won't have the need to look in other places, and won't be a cheater anymore.

What a load of nonsense. That's just a pathetic excuse people use to justify cheating whenever the going gets tough. You're right that it does indicate problems in the relationship, but it is not justified at all and to say that when they find what they're looking for they won't be a cheater any more is ridiculous. They claimed to have loved their previous partner(s) that they cheated on, what makes you think it won't happen to the next person?

[Arathor]

In terms of how much respect I will lose for you, there's nothing worse than finding out that you've cheated.

[Queen B]

True..

Well, the way I see it: if a partner feels the need to cheat, they aren't happy in the relationship. When they find what they're looking for, they won't have the need to look in other places, and won't be a cheater anymore.

I disagree on that matter.
If someone is not happy in a relationship then he/she should either a) try to work it out or b) break up

[riverman]

well, anyways if someone cheats you may as well break up with them, you wont be able to trust them afterwards.

[Arbërori]

I disagree overall.

I was in a relationship, where this girl cheated on me, but it was too late for her to realize her mistake. I value honesty and loyalty very much and once you betray me like that, there's no going back. I might still have feelings for you, but they will most likely turn into disgust over time.

Back to the subject, they do realize or learn from the mistakes.

[Incel King]

I think so, although some people may change. Personally I never was cheater, I'm using punk buster.

[Grenzland]

if I found out that she cheated on a previous partner, because it shows that she lacks self-respect, morals, self-control, judgement, patience, and dedication - as well as having totally incompatible views on relationships.

Do yourself a favor and don't care for her former relationships!