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Sanguine
Choleric
Melancholic
Phlegmatic
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Choleric.
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She initiated friendliness, she just has strong some times vulgar jokes, she is very sociable. Hear this Etain I see you as sociable.
Perhaps I define these words differently.
On these tests I always get ISTJ and these along with it Choleric and somehow these are defining as an unpleasant person. But I like myself and care for people even if I don't agree or dislike them sometimes. Sure I have boundaries.
Its difficult to define social. I think these tests have a specific scenario which is greatly defined by many people which pollutes the minds of those who do not fit this social group. We have a few of these threads here. They focus on this scene so much and forget there are many social groups.
I hope you accomplish what you aspire but don't force yourself to a group or be with people siciallyyou don't like this miss the point of friends. You're suppose to feel great with your friends not like worthless shit.
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Yeah, I will probably always be Melancholic because I don't have the confidence in myself to be all-over-the-place though I'd like to be. I don't have it in me. When you approach me, I am a very friendly person and that is all that matters.
Anyone who works with me will be like 'oh, you mean that person? well, they are pretty quiet, they don't talk much, but if you approach them or ask them something they are very friendly about it'
The thing is when someone says something 'off' to me. I am hot-tempered. Sometimes I want to punch certain co-workers in the face. But as I say, if you don't say anything I can interpret as bad, to me, then I will be very nice to you if you approach me and ask for something or just want to talk. You really have to initiate the conversation, though. I don't start conversations.
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If you are hot tempered then you have it in you to initiate, you simply haven't cared enough. When you find something you want or desire to accomplish, you will initiate when no one else will. If its something that angers you then you might have an outburst. Then when people say you lost your mind you will say actually no this is progress.
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Control initiated! Big part of social etiquette.
There is a time and place for certain things and if you want to break your things at home, ok, but workplace, no. Sounds like you need strategy dealing with emotion. It's one thing to be assertive not letting people disrespect you but you don't need to be a monster . It's important to follow worplace policy and find alternative ways within reason to deal people here. Lot of this requires judgment and thinking ahead for consequences. Such as complaints to a manager or human resources because sometimes even though they are not suppose to will turn on you. So before you get angry think: who is this person, what did they say, why, is this a opinion, etc.
And the greatest of them all, dont release your anger on innocent bystanders. Remember, it's not their fault.
I think it's great you are working on your anger. But see your job is important enough to do something.
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Something in between melancholic and phlegmatic, I'm quite impulsive sometimes, and reckless, but that i regret ask ask myself "how could i do that"
All around me are familiar faces, worn out places, worn out faces
Bright and early for the daily races, going nowhere, going nowhere
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One day this, one day that.
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