why women should think twince before having children

**crazyladybutterfly** · 03-06-2017, 04:27 PM

Originally Posted by Litvin

^ Women with 3 cats usually have higher levels of perceived stress than women with 3 kids.

how ? loneliness can be overcome in different ways that do not imply interacting with your children

**Hithaeglir** · 03-06-2017, 04:45 PM

These things can occur but it's not the norm dude,most women come back to their prepartum shape,especially if they have motivation to exercise and lose the extra weight. Another factor is age,the youngest the woman is,the more easy it's for her skin to adjust to the changes. You present as if it's some catastrophy.

**Oneeye** · 03-06-2017, 04:47 PM

Superficial AF

**Oneeye** · 03-06-2017, 04:58 PM

Taintbowmimi is transgender

**Lightshade25** · 03-06-2017, 05:07 PM

Not bad.

**~~Heather Duval~~** · 03-06-2017, 05:16 PM

i was pregnant when i was 10 years old that was terrible, i want my body back

Originally Posted by Oneeye

Taintbowmimi is transgender

**crazyladybutterfly** · 03-06-2017, 05:30 PM

Originally Posted by Hithaeglir

These things can occur but it's not the norm dude,most women come back to their prepartum shape,especially if they have motivation to exercise and lose the extra weight. Another factor is age,the youngest the woman is,the more easy it's for her skin to adjust to the changes. You present as if it's some catastrophy.

maybe young adult woman.. i remember watching a tv show about plastic surgery and "embarassing features" where this 19 years old has her belly devastated , she was about 15 at the time. the doctor said that this often happens when a mother is too young

**crazyladybutterfly** · 03-06-2017, 05:32 PM

Originally Posted by Oneeye

Superficial AF

i didnt talk about only appearence. and how caring about my own makes me superficial? i do not judge people based on it , i suffered too much for lookism to mock or discriminate others

**Lightshade25** · 03-06-2017, 05:40 PM

Holy shit

After pregnancy

**Hithaeglir** · 03-06-2017, 05:48 PM

Originally Posted by crazyladybutterfly

maybe young adult woman.. i remember watching a tv show about plastic surgery and "embarassing features" where this 19 years old has her belly devastated , she was about 15 at the time. the doctor said that this often happens when a mother is too young

Maybe there are some cases, i just have never heard anything similar irl. All of the women i know who have given birth,don't report anything extreme,just the extra weight and the occasional stretch marks that go away after a while

The ONLY case i have encountered with massive issues of psychological nature was my neighbour when i was still a student. I visited her a week after she gave birth,while her mother was in the apartment,we greeted and she seemed very happy. At some point her mother went to make something for me in the kitchen and her facial expression totally changed as if she has seen a ghost and started whispering to me if i wanted the baby,because she changed her mind and she couldn't go through all of this.Definitely post partum depression. Thankfully her mother came fast in the living room and i didn't have to answer to her. Then she wore the happy face again.