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Germanicus
04-03-2010, 05:15 PM
Mrs Germanicus is an award winning dancer, she has asked me if i have any objections to her learning belly dancing, my answer was no i have no objections, have i unleashed something here?

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Lithium
04-03-2010, 05:39 PM
If she wants to, okay. But in my opinion, It's disgusting.

The Lawspeaker
04-03-2010, 05:43 PM
If I were married I would let her if she wanted too :) Why would I not let follow her dreams ?
And more spice in a relationship is always good.

Óttar
04-03-2010, 05:56 PM
If she were commited to me, and so by extension my supreme temporal authority (within reason and common sense!), Yea, the shadow of the goddess on earth, of course I would.

:)

Eldritch
04-03-2010, 08:01 PM
Would you let your woman go to amateur night at the local titty bar?

Pallantides
04-03-2010, 09:30 PM
Sure why not, I enjoyed watching belly dancers when I was in Turkey.

Jamt
04-03-2010, 09:51 PM
Danger, danger Germanicus. Next she will get interested in African dance and so on.

poiuytrewq0987
04-03-2010, 10:21 PM
I think belly-dancing is really weird but if she wants to learn how to do it then I can't stop her but she certainly will hear my opinion. ;)

Tabiti
04-04-2010, 05:49 AM
Found it too oriental for my taste, but many women do that instead of some sport.

John in Denver
04-04-2010, 05:57 AM
Mrs Germanicus is an award winning dancer, she has asked me if i have any objections to her learning belly dancing, my answer was no i have no objections, have i unleashed something here?

I couldn't watch any woman belly dancing if i knew she was married, it would make me feel uncomfortable. But as far as belly dancing goes its healthier than the whorehouses in America that are euphemistically called "Gentlemen's Clubs" which is quite comical when you think about it.

Bloodeagle
04-04-2010, 06:21 AM
Well, I am glad and lucky that I have a modest woman who would not perform in front of others. I say this because if she wanted to learn belly dancing, there would be no,"letting her learn". She is free to make her own decisions no matter how aggravating I might find them!:)

Tabiti
04-04-2010, 06:37 AM
"Would you let"...Wife is not a property;)

Absinthe
04-04-2010, 10:13 AM
It's an ancient, mystical fertility dance (note the difference between "true" bellydancing, and modern "oriental" dance which is more about tits & ass shaking), excellent exercise for a woman's body and I personally find it absolutely beautiful. I'd even try it myself. So sue me. ;)

poiuytrewq0987
04-04-2010, 10:34 AM
It's an ancient, mystical fertility dance (note the difference between "true" bellydancing, and modern "oriental" dance which is more about tits & ass shaking), excellent exercise for a woman's body and I personally find it absolutely beautiful. I'd even try it myself. So sue me. ;)

You said tits and ass. :eek: :embarrassed :p

Eldritch
04-04-2010, 11:48 AM
It's an ancient, mystical fertility dance (note the difference between "true" bellydancing, and modern "oriental" dance which is more about tits & ass shaking), excellent exercise for a woman's body and I personally find it absolutely beautiful. I'd even try it myself. So sue me. ;)

Yep. That's why I'm kinda leery of it. I can't help but be reminded of those "fitness" clubs for women now where they do exercises based on wrapping yourself around a stripper's pole. :rolleyes:

EDIT:

However if Mrs. Germanicus is an accomplished dancer, I'm sure she is aware of the difference Abs mentioned. So I guess I might as well scratch out my earlier comment in this thread.

Svanhild
04-04-2010, 12:18 PM
It's an ancient, mystical fertility dance (note the difference between "true" bellydancing, and modern "oriental" dance which is more about tits & ass shaking), excellent exercise for a woman's body and I personally find it absolutely beautiful. I'd even try it myself. So sue me. ;)
I'd be a bad bellydancer for the simple reason that I don't have much to shake! :D Truth be told, I consider it as too exotic and focused on sexual matters.

poiuytrewq0987
04-04-2010, 12:21 PM
I'd be a bad bellydancer for the simple reason that I don't have much to shake! :D Truth be told, I consider it as too exotic and focused on sexual matters.

You don't have to shake anything to please me. ;) :p

Sorry, I couldn't help it. :D

Anthropos
04-04-2010, 02:19 PM
I would recommend it.

Rachel
04-04-2010, 03:18 PM
Id learn belly dancing in the comfort of other women and then in the comfort of my husband( if and when i get one ;) ) And as for the mentioned stripper pole, i have also heard that pole dancing is a very good exercise.

Hopefully i find a man who likes a bit of entertainment before the main activity ;)

Treffie
04-04-2010, 06:28 PM
I don't understand why people have a problem with it - many women who do it think it's fun and great exercise. It's not as if a woman would succumb to Islam if she started taking it up. :confused:

Turkophagos
04-04-2010, 06:40 PM
I wouldn't mind her if she could dance anything like this:

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I still prefer modern dances though:

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Eldritch
04-04-2010, 07:13 PM
I still prefer modern dances though:

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How ... edifying. Robert Crumb must curse having been born several decades too early.

Kazimiera
03-31-2013, 02:32 AM
---> moved to Dating and Relationships

Arbërori
03-31-2013, 02:39 AM
Sure, it's hot. Example; Alla Kushnir:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8De3nn9j1z4

Germanicus
03-31-2013, 01:54 PM
Sure, it's hot. Example; Alla Kushnir:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8De3nn9j1z4

That was fantastic.


Thanks for posting.

Lobotomist
03-31-2013, 02:52 PM
No. Her life, her choice.

Kemalisté
03-31-2013, 02:55 PM
No. Her life, her choice.

Pretty much this.

Sarmatian
03-31-2013, 03:18 PM
Sure, it's hot. Example; Alla Kushnir:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8De3nn9j1z4

That is a perfect cure for impotence.



No. Her life, her choice.

In a few words you described the reason why males from Nordic countries fail so much with their women.

There is no such thing as her life if you are together. A woman need a man to take care of her, to make decisions for her. She will never respect you if she doesn't feel a man with a strong will.

Germanicus
03-31-2013, 03:53 PM
A woman needs a man to take care of her, to make decisions for her; She will never respect you if she doesn't feel a man with a strong will.


True enough..!!

denz
03-31-2013, 04:30 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5bF0EWvlqXc&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Watch it, Turkish programming, good show. Then decide...

Lobotomist
03-31-2013, 05:57 PM
That is a perfect cure for impotence.




In a few words you described the reason why males from Nordic countries fail so much with their women.

There is no such thing as her life if you are together. A woman need a man to take care of her, to make decisions for her. She will never respect you if she doesn't feel a man with a strong will.

True, i see your point. That is how nature goes.

I just find it hard to do that, since i was teached the contrary to what you just wrote. Blame the politically-correct, ultra-liberalsocial school and teachings in Scandinavia.

Here in Scandinavia, the woman rules over the man. :(

Grenzland
04-01-2013, 02:27 PM
In a few words you described the reason why males from Nordic countries fail so much with their women.

There is no such thing as her life if you are together. A woman need a man to take care of her, to make decisions for her. She will never respect you if she doesn't feel a man with a strong will.

It's not about buying a new house. If she wants to have a hobby like this, why not? :rolleyes:

Siberian Cold Breeze
04-01-2013, 02:40 PM
question: Would you let your woman learn Belly Dancing?

you are already halfway there ..no need belly dancing

Pallantides
04-01-2013, 02:44 PM
Here in Scandinavia, the woman rules over the man. :(

Hahaha ok...


no woman rule over me though, I'm no 'tøffel' as we call it here, but if you can't stand up or make choices for yourself then you might as well be ruled by your woman.

DebtCollector
04-01-2013, 03:56 PM
Danger, danger Germanicus. Next she will get interested in African dance and so on.
Lol pretty much this. The fact that she would want to learn some "exotic dance" says enough of her and I wouldn't be with someone like that in the first place.

Germanicus
04-01-2013, 04:00 PM
My wife would be agreeable to learn belly Dancing for me.

YellowRose
04-18-2013, 11:58 PM
I absolutely love belly dancing and think that it has many positive health benefits. It is an excellent work out and a great way to stay in shape.

Here are a couple of links that I found to read for info if anyone is interested.

http://www.atlantabellydance.com/ProspectiveStudents/ClassHealth.html

http://www.radhiyataj.com/Physical.html

YellowRose
04-18-2013, 11:59 PM
My wife would be agreeable to learn belly Dancing for me.

LOL! My husband says the same thing! He tells me "I wouldn't mind if you wanted to do belly dancing, as long as it was only for me"

;)

Mary
04-20-2013, 11:14 AM
Belly dancing sucks. There's nothing sexy or appealing about a woman doing creepy stuff with her tummy. It only makes it seem like she's working up a giant puke attack. Unless you're into that shit, don't make your woman belly dance. There are other ways to entertain a man. No, not striptease! That sucks too. Every woman on the planet strips every single night when she takes off her clothing. Dancing while doing so does not automatically make it sexy.

I think you should start with her giving you a dildo show. That is the first milestone. She'll probably think it's scandalous. Start by telling her that you think it would be hot if she would masturbate for you (all the way, until she cums). Now, most women look like convulsing pigs when masturbating, so make her watch porn on the dildo masturbation theme. This way she will get the basics of how to make it appealing for you.

After you've done this a number of times, you can move on to something more advanced. I suggest turning her into your personal maid at home. Make her call you "Sir", her job is to serve beverages, get molested and get fucked. This is far better than leaving the home to spend your money on learning to do strange shit with her tummy. Once again, she'll probably think it's scandalous, but just insist on that you think it's very hot and eventually she should give in.

Grenzland
04-20-2013, 11:18 AM
Mary, I love your posts! :D

Odin
02-24-2018, 05:57 PM
Sure, if she only dances for me.:laugh:

Tom Cat
02-24-2018, 08:32 PM
Yes, I would encourage her if she really wanted to learn professional dancing of any kind, because I'm not jealous, possessive, or desire to control my wife. She is already an accomplished singer, artist, and pistol shooter.

Why would I want to control my wife?

She also has other male admirers, as I have other female admirers. So what?

We still end-up in each others arms at night.

Bobby Martnen
02-24-2018, 10:47 PM
:punjabidance:flamenco::irishdancer:

cyberlorian
02-24-2018, 10:53 PM
No :ohwell:

MysteriousWays
02-24-2018, 10:54 PM
If she wants to, yes. I would neither encourage her to, nor discourage her from doing so.

KMack
02-24-2018, 11:15 PM
As long as it does interfere in her suck, phuck and cooking abilities.

Heather Duval
02-24-2018, 11:20 PM
Well, if I was a woman I would not ask permission from my husband to do the things I like. I'm nobody's property.

MsSPF
12-03-2018, 08:24 PM
Women ? not always.... haha I am going sometimes to a place in Paris called "le Bazar Egyptien" (restaurant/shisha bar), there are two belly dancers : 1 female and 1 male... and he dances better than the woman... :lol: I was jealous


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28uyez88CMU

Freeroostah
12-03-2018, 08:27 PM
No way

Kaspias
12-03-2018, 08:28 PM
No way.

Marinus
12-03-2018, 08:30 PM
Not only am I ok with it, I actually wheedled my last girlfriend into learning it.

I do my best to get any partner of mine into dancing, great fun and helps to keep in shape!

Dandelion
12-03-2018, 08:34 PM
Women ? not always.... haha I am going sometimes to a place in Paris called "le Bazar Egyptien" (restaurant/shisha bar), there are two belly dancers : 1 female and 1 male... and he dances better than the woman... :lol: I was jealous


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28uyez88CMU

That's you ululating.

MsSPF
12-03-2018, 08:38 PM
That's you ululating.

No it's not! I just picked a random video on youtube, it was easy to find as "he is a famous character" from that place !
His classes are super expensive by the way... I don't need him anyway... :disapproving

Hulu
12-03-2018, 08:51 PM
No it's not! I just picked a random video on youtube, it was easy to find as "he is a famous character" from that place !
His classes are super expensive by the way... I don't need him anyway... :disapproving

Prove it

Dandelion
12-03-2018, 08:52 PM
Once had a GF into dancing. And I once met the boyfriend of her dancing teacher, who also was her teacher's partner. That guy's jealous look man... He also was into flirting with the female students of his GF who appeared to be asexual herself and allowing him to flirt with other women. Needless to say, I didn't continue dating her for long. Not worth it.

She herself also was very jealous for imaginary women including her own sister who wasn't even interested in me and vice versa, but expected me to be alright with men flirting with her.

What I do know is that dancing is very intimate and it puts relationships under pressure. Many a person ended up marrying his/her dancing teacher.

rein
12-03-2018, 08:54 PM
Once had a GF into dancing. And I once met the boyfriend of her dancing teacher, who also was her teacher's partner. That guy's jealous look man... He also was into flirting with the female students of his GF who appeared to be asexual herself and allowing him to flirt with other women. Needless to say, I didn't continue dating her for long. Not worth it.

She herself also was very jealous for imaginary women including her own sister who wasn't even interested in me and vice versa, but expected me to be alright with men flirting with her.

Sounds like a complicated story.

Dandelion
12-03-2018, 08:55 PM
Sounds like a complicated story.

Wasn't a long affair and I saw red flags. Never grew attached to her. ;) Good riddance!

Ülev
12-03-2018, 08:57 PM
No way


No way.

+3

nittionia
12-03-2018, 08:57 PM
i know how to but i never showed a guy. it is good exercise.

StevenTylerAerosmith
12-03-2018, 09:16 PM
i know how to but i never showed a guy. it is good exercise.

you should make a video and post it here

nittionia
12-03-2018, 09:30 PM
you should make a video and post it here

you're absolutely right, i should.

StevenTylerAerosmith
12-03-2018, 09:32 PM
you're absolutely right, i should.

btw what is your ethnicity?

nittionia
12-03-2018, 09:44 PM
btw what is your ethnicity?

mixed ethnicities, american

Taiguaitiaoghyrmmumin
12-03-2018, 10:52 PM
Wouldn't care.

StevenTylerAerosmith
12-04-2018, 03:35 AM
mixed ethnicities, american

what are you a mix of?

Borealis
12-04-2018, 04:13 AM
"your woman"

https://media.giphy.com/media/dC9DTdqPmRnlS/giphy-downsized-large.gif

Since when do I have a woman?

nittionia
12-04-2018, 12:17 PM
what are you a mix of?

My mom has Finnish/swedish, irish, french and iberia/sardinian. My dad has french, east med, south russia, finnish/swedish, irish. Something like that.

The Lawspeaker
12-04-2018, 12:23 PM
If I were married I would let her if she wanted too :) Why would I not let follow her dreams ?
And more spice in a relationship is always good.

Still feel exactly the same. But that would be a very quick route to motherhood because of my male passions lol :coffee:;)

Thanas Django
12-04-2018, 12:32 PM
my supreme temporal authority

Some people you think are normal, and then they post shit like this.

Papastratosels26
12-04-2018, 12:39 PM
No

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Harley
12-13-2018, 03:25 AM
I think belly dancing is quite beautiful, especially tribal fusion.

Zoe Jakes is a belly dancing goddess.

thinking...
12-13-2018, 04:04 AM
What a weird forum this is. I like it.

I'm a woman. I am not a feminist. In fact, I hate feminists and agree with Milo Yiannopoulos that feminism is cancer. That said, why would any married woman seek permission to take up belly dancing? It's not like it's pole dancing or stripping. It's a traditional and, I assume, very old form of dance, right? Unless, belly dancers were kind of the hookers to the Arabs, once upon a time? Dunno. Anyway, I never saw it as sleazy or controversial.

Mortimer
12-13-2018, 04:09 AM
Im a lame ass. I couldnt probably forbid it, the woman would do what she wants. But I wouldnt like it if she did, not because it is arabic but because it is erotic.

thinking...
12-13-2018, 04:42 AM
Im a lame ass. I couldnt probably forbid it, the woman would do what she wants. But I wouldnt like it if she did, not because it is arabic but because it is erotic.

Perhaps the issue over belly dancing is the clothing worn which is somewhat scant but hula dancers don't wear much either and I can't imagine some guy asking if he should let his wife hula, lol.

Mortimer
12-13-2018, 04:46 AM
Perhaps the issue over belly dancing is the clothing worn which is somewhat scant but hula dancers don't wear much either and I can't imagine some guy asking if he should let his wife hula, lol.

Maybe but belly dancing is not only sexual clothing but also sexual moves, the dance is more sexual then hula i think.

thinking...
12-13-2018, 05:02 AM
Maybe but belly dancing is not only sexual clothing but also sexual moves, the dance is more sexual then hula i think.

Yes, I think you're right. I believe (not sure) the hand movements in hula tell a story and is not sexual.

I actually find Flamenco dancing to be pretty steamy and powerful.

Dna8
01-02-2019, 05:09 AM
It wouldn't be up to me

Ülev
02-17-2020, 06:22 PM
...

Celestia
02-17-2020, 06:59 PM
Why not if it’s for his entertainment anyway

The Lawspeaker
02-17-2020, 07:04 PM
If I were married I would let her if she wanted too :) Why would I not let follow her dreams ?
And more spice in a relationship is always good.

Being a much older and less naive man than I was in 2010. I'd say no. You never know what might happen.

1GiantLeapForMankind
02-17-2020, 07:12 PM
Type of girls i date wouldnt need my permission to go dancing, shes not my bitch, she can do what she wants. If i dont like it that much, ill find someone else. I would ecourage her to dance, some dancing is sexy asf, dancers have better rythm = better in bed.


https://youtu.be/1p1CpmKZziQ

Hulu
02-17-2020, 07:44 PM
Still feel exactly the same. But that would be a very quick route to motherhood because of my male passions lol :coffee:;)


Being a much older and less naive man than I was in 2010. I'd say no. You never know what might happen.

lol, what a difference a year makes. You had the same opinion in Dec 2018 as in 10 years ago but now you don't.

Mopi Licinius Crassus
02-17-2020, 09:31 PM
Why not if it’s for his entertainment anyway

a belly dance from you would be an experience no man could resist :1_2:

Celestia
02-17-2020, 09:33 PM
a belly dance from you would be an experience no man could resist :1_2:

Lmao.
My hips don’t lie

Ülev
02-17-2020, 09:35 PM
:naughty:


https://youtu.be/rJtDlvmbL20

Rafael Passoni
06-19-2021, 11:02 PM
Oriental dance is seen as sexy for most males in the Arab World. It spices the way they see the woman. My Egyptian friend loves to watch his girls performing that.
I don't think so. It's a beautiful dance, but I think not specialy sexy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iTNrOZCwP5I&ab_channel=HusseinGhandy