Ladies, Are you more attracted to Manly men Or Effeminate men?

[Iloko]

Ladies.. Are you more attracted to men who have more of manly rugged features, Or are you more attracted to effeminate men with aesthetically feminine features.

Men.. you can answer as well, expressing which you'd rather be...

[Proctor]

I would rather be a manly man, in other words a DOM slayer.

Who would want to be partly effeminate?

[Veneda]

I am attracted to alpha males

[Melina]

Manly men. Not necessarily slayers though. An older man not so well built but that has nothing effeminate. Why be with an effeminate guy. Wouldn't it make sense to be with a woman instead if that is the case?

[Era]

Manly but not too burly. And a pretty face too.

[TheBlondeSalad]

I would say as a teenager, I did tend to prefer guys with more feminine features, perhaps because I found them less threatening.
As I have got older, my tastes have changed and I don't like them too boyish looking these days. So yea I can safely say I'm far more attracted to masculine men - men that are fairly rugged and stuff like that.

I also find very skinny men rather androgenous. I am still not attracted to heavily built/stocky/muscle men though.

[Grenzland]

Damn, I will have to be with 18-20 year old women for ever... :D

[McCauley]

Women want a rough slayer who also has a soft side, but he only shows it to her. Simple, its that way with almost all of them. From my experience, the guys in the absolute best position are the ones with a slightly pretty face (not girly), but with a very masculine attitude/outlook. No girl likes a sissy or a coward.

[zhaoyun]

Women want a rough slayer who also has a soft side, but he only shows it to her. Simple, its that way with almost all of them. From my experience, the guys in the absolute best position are the ones with a slightly pretty face (not girly), but with a very masculine attitude/outlook. No girl likes a sissy or a coward.

THIS

[alfieb]

"Slayer" is such a mouthbreather word. It's like the word "player", only for people who don't actually have any game.

[Grenzland]

"Slayer" is such a mouthbreather word. It's like the word "player", only for people who don't actually have any game.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So god damn true!


Everybody who has to talk about it to feel better lacks at exactly this point!

[McCauley]

"Slayer" is such a mouthbreather word. It's like the word "player", only for people who don't actually have any game.

Fuck you yankee, I do my best to breath through the nose. My game is perfectly adequate, but all I really have to do is stand there and look good. Works 5 times out of 10.

[alfieb]

Fuck you yankee, I do my best to breath through the nose. My game is perfectly adequate, but all I really have to do is stand there and look good. Works 5 times out of 10.

You know what works 10 times out of 10?

Impressing girls. And you don't need to talk about how great you are to do it. Let other people do that for you.

[McCauley]

Yankee incel, you were breathing though your mouth as you huffed and puffed up the stairs today.

[Longbowman]

Yankee incel, you were breathing though your mouth as you huffed and puffed up the stairs today.

Incel means someone who doesn't get laid but wants to, right? So you can really use it to apply to all non-DOMs or anti-DOMtardnessists.

[bot]

I would say as a teenager, I did tend to prefer guys with more feminine features, perhaps because I found them less threatening.
As I have got older, my tastes have changed and I don't like them too boyish looking these days. So yea I can safely say I'm far more attracted to masculine men - men that are fairly rugged and stuff like that.

I also find very skinny men rather androgenous. I am still not attracted to heavily built/stocky/muscle men though.

If I had known you were in this thread I would have guessed you'd say something like that.

You're so predictable.

[bot]

Women want a rough slayer who also has a soft side, but he only shows it to her. Simple, its that way with almost all of them. From my experience, the guys in the absolute best position are the ones with a slightly pretty face (not girly), but with a very masculine attitude/outlook. No girl likes a sissy or a coward.


THIS

So you want a slightly pretty face but with a very masculine attitude/outlook?

I didn't know that about you, bro.

bot's happy you finally found a man who understands you, dawg. Just make sure he doesn't have the Irish curse if you're a size queen, bro.

beep

[Queen B]

Jamie Dornan (http://a.abcnews.com/images/Entertainment/GTY_jamie_dornan_jef_131024_16x9_608.jpg), Jon Kortajarena (http://estaticos.cosmohispano.com/pictures/gpsUserPhotoPicture/gpsUserPhotoGalleryCosmo/94/91/04/jon-kortajarena-Jon_Kortajarena-49194.jpg),Michael Fassbender, (http://media.central.ie/media/images/m/MichaelFassbender2011Handsome_large.jpg) Sakis Rouvas (http://photos-e.ak.instagram.com/hphotos-ak-xfa1/t51.2885-15/10986143_1610417925857716_926888265_n.jpg), Orestis Karnezis (http://www.iapopsi.gr/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/karnezis.jpg), Gerard Butler (http://cdn01.cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/headlines/2014/05/gerard-butler-star-in-den-of-thieves.jpg),Jason Statham (http://www.funday.gr/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/killer-elite-jason-statham_107621-1024x768.jpg)
Whatever they are, I'm attracted to them

[Itarildë]

Give me a rugby player over a male model any day.

[Ultra]

"Slayer" is such a mouthbreather word. It's like the word "player", only for people who don't actually have any game.
:lol00002:
Comes from the guy whose girlfriend cheated on with a homeless guy. :rotfl:

[Longbowman]

:lol00002:
Comes from the guy whose girlfriend cheated on with a homeless guy. :rotfl:

He is right, though. The ends justify the means. It's about getting the girl, not looking good. Looking good is just a tool you use to get girls, like charm, or money, or coercion.

[armenianbodyhair]

He is right, though. The ends justify the means. It's about getting the girl, not looking good. Looking good is just a tool you use to get girls, like charm, or money, or coercion.
:runs:

[Empecinado]

Jamie Dornan (http://a.abcnews.com/images/Entertainment/GTY_jamie_dornan_jef_131024_16x9_608.jpg), Jon Kortajarena (http://estaticos.cosmohispano.com/pictures/gpsUserPhotoPicture/gpsUserPhotoGalleryCosmo/94/91/04/jon-kortajarena-Jon_Kortajarena-49194.jpg),Michael Fassbender, (http://media.central.ie/media/images/m/MichaelFassbender2011Handsome_large.jpg) Sakis Rouvas (http://photos-e.ak.instagram.com/hphotos-ak-xfa1/t51.2885-15/10986143_1610417925857716_926888265_n.jpg), Orestis Karnezis (http://www.iapopsi.gr/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/karnezis.jpg), Gerard Butler (http://cdn01.cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/headlines/2014/05/gerard-butler-star-in-den-of-thieves.jpg),Jason Statham (http://www.funday.gr/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/killer-elite-jason-statham_107621-1024x768.jpg)
Whatever they are, I'm attracted to them

Jon Kortajarena is gay xD and of the girly type, what we call "locaza".

[Antimage]

I believe that the vast majority of women prefer men who look masculine such as having a characteristic face structure like prominent cheekbones,jaws, chins etc.

[Dominicanese]

He is right, though. The ends justify the means. It's about getting the girl, not looking good. Looking good is just a tool you use to get girls, like charm, or money, or coercion.

im in agreement with this totally

[Dominicanese]

Manly men. Not necessarily slayers though. An older man not so well built but that has nothing effeminate. Why be with an effeminate guy. Wouldn't it make sense to be with a woman instead if that is the case?

best answer from a real woman, nice

[Dominicanese]

Im wondering if it has to do with culture or situation, like for example

Here in America (more specifically South Florida where i live) where most are hybernized or Americanized Hispanics. The women here tend to be attracted to money, looks, or game, you know materialistic things and they tend to not see the struggle men put, as i said here in florida. They also tend to try to get the so-called hottest guys to show off what they have to other women and they forget that that's not where they'r gonna find happiness (it's within oneself) instead they try to loom for it in outside circumstances or men (very unenlightening) and this only creates more people to go with the same sex because they cannot find happiness with the opposite sex and sexually no pleasure, because they become addicted to it by different men and cannot let go for whatever reason.

In Dominican Republic, the middle and high class, people like us here (one's who go to college, comes from an inocent family, takes studing very seriously and works hard, lives in Dominican conditions middle class such as powerouts once in a while, no running water or sometimes not). The women in said conditions who live good in Dominican standards (not ghetto low class one's) they don't care much for looks, what you have, or what you can do. They'r only desire is to survive and be able to achieve their life time goals with whoever who partner is and they help out their men whenever they can, they'll cook, take car of them when they'r sick, and they'll be there as much as they can for their men (who's not so attractive at all in American standards, while the women are are very attractive in Americans standards, they can give to rats a%( how they'r bf looks, but as long as he's able to be there the same way she is for him, she'll be happy) which is what should be like imo. Third world women are very nice (not ghetto one's though lol)

[Grenzland]

He is right, though. The ends justify the means. It's about getting the girl, not looking good. Looking good is just a tool you use to get girls, like charm, or money, or coercion.

Or cardio fitness and the ability to strangle women for hours!
(Called the KevinB method)

[Dandelion]

Well, if they'd succesfully seduce an effeminate gay man, effectively converting him to straight-hood that might reassure them of how hot of a bombshell they are.

[Pinatèu]

I think it depends on the location. All women here said they liked manly men, but most women from my town seem to prefer rather (if not extremely) effeminate men. A possible explanation is, since I'm under the impression that women on average value nothing more than socio-economic status, that the best jobs around here usually require more to look like this guy :
http://static1.purepeople.com/articles/7/29/59/7/@/202314-le-nouveau-prodige-de-la-musique-sliimy-637x0-2.jpg
...than this guy :
https://acidcinema.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/conan-the-barbarian.jpg

[Minesweeper]

Girls, this is your thread, don't let the men conquer it.

[Dominicanese]

I think it depends on the location. All women here said they liked manly men, but most women from my town seem to prefer rather (if not extremely) effeminate men. A possible explanation is, since I'm under the impression that women on average value nothing more than socio-economic status, that the best jobs around here usually require more to look like this guy :
http://static1.purepeople.com/articles/7/29/59/7/@/202314-le-nouveau-prodige-de-la-musique-sliimy-637x0-2.jpg
...than this guy :
https://acidcinema.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/conan-the-barbarian.jpg

you brought up a good point, and if u look slightly, the man on the bottom reminds us of the hardships of how life was like hundreds and thousands of years ago. I guess some women want to move on to modern man who don't require strenght or manliness or testosoron, they want the femine modern man, that's where we'er heading anyways, cleaner face, weaker, lighter/palier skin, and girly lol

[Unome]

People shouldn't take the 'slayer', 'DOM', 'incel' terms so seriously, have fun with it… :)

[Hithaeglir]

Something in the middle.Not too rugged or muscular but not effeminate either.

[Harley]

I like masculine looking men.

The one I'm with now is a bit effeminate looking, but has a masculine personality. I kind of like the androgynous look. I think maybe because the duality and co-existence of male/female and masculine/feminine qualities confuses and interests me at the same time.

I still have a thing for bear men. I also like clean cut/clean shaven men. It's extremely sexy to see a man who takes care of himself in an undone mode, like his hair gets mussed up or seeing his shirt open at the top with tie undone.

[Grenzland]

like his hair gets mussed up or seeing his shirt open at the top with tie undone.

Really? Good to know... :D

[Harley]

Really? Good to know... :D

Hardworking men need down time too. I like to see him in that mode.

[Tchek]

I would say as a teenager, I did tend to prefer guys with more feminine features, perhaps because I found them less threatening.
As I have got older, my tastes have changed and I don't like them too boyish looking these days. So yea I can safely say I'm far more attracted to masculine men - men that are fairly rugged and stuff like that.



I wonder if this would be more a 2015 thing than an age thing.

I feel that overall, bearded, masculine men are more fashionable for every woman nowadays regardless of age, compared to 10 or 15 years ago.

It's all about preppy bearded men now... ten years ago a beard was considered a big no-no, and the preppy look was considered cheesy.

[щрбл]

Actually, when it comes to masculinity beard changes everything. xD

You can have a round face when shaved however if you keep the beard growing for 2-3 weeks, you may start looking like a bad-ass neanderthal.
It hides most of your childish appearance and makes you look more serious. You can also gain a few years if needed!

[Dominicanese]

let's see what the future holds for us now, in ten to 15 years

- more Bi's
- More gays and lesbians
- more femine men but at the sametime muscline
- musculine features are dissapearing since we now have agriculture so no need to be a hunter and gathering or warrior
- working out with weights is not the same as being a lumber jack worker or laborer worker
- lumber jack workers and other hand labor workers are stronger than men that go to the gym big time
- muscle size has nothing to do with natural or inner strenght, good example would be hard grip strenght, solid skinny or fat guys, strong bones (these determine if your strong or not)
- evolution

[Hithaeglir]

Jamie Dornan (http://a.abcnews.com/images/Entertainment/GTY_jamie_dornan_jef_131024_16x9_608.jpg), Jon Kortajarena (http://estaticos.cosmohispano.com/pictures/gpsUserPhotoPicture/gpsUserPhotoGalleryCosmo/94/91/04/jon-kortajarena-Jon_Kortajarena-49194.jpg),Michael Fassbender, (http://media.central.ie/media/images/m/MichaelFassbender2011Handsome_large.jpg) Sakis Rouvas (http://photos-e.ak.instagram.com/hphotos-ak-xfa1/t51.2885-15/10986143_1610417925857716_926888265_n.jpg), Orestis Karnezis (http://www.iapopsi.gr/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/karnezis.jpg), Gerard Butler (http://cdn01.cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/headlines/2014/05/gerard-butler-star-in-den-of-thieves.jpg),Jason Statham (http://www.funday.gr/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/killer-elite-jason-statham_107621-1024x768.jpg)
Whatever they are, I'm attracted to them

Michael Fassbender :love:

[Dominicanese]

lumber jack or labor workers (what weve been doing for thousands of years with no weights or barbells)
http://images.fineartamerica.com/images-medium-large/oregon-lumberjack-1939-granger.jpg
http://kaufmann-mercantile.com/images/lumber-workers.jpg
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/e/eb/Andy_Colle_standing_block_chop.jpg
http://cdn.ipernity.com/110/57/59/3515759.4e170eec.640.jpg?r2
http://www.albavolunteer.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/Chisholm1.jpg
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/36/b4/c4/36b4c4a2c246cd6da28ce28a548c8b13.jpg
http://www.globalpost.com/sites/default/files/imagecache/gp3_full_article/photogallery/gallery_5579108/Senegal-8-17-10-Wrestling-4-EDIT.jpg
http://cdn.c.photoshelter.com/img-get/I000065x0g0Udxro/s/860/688/AchPio-20090407-IMG-9183.jpg

^^ none a these guys even knows what weights are, these are like this because of the old life style that is dissapearing, very disapointed but we have to evolve for the better not go back for the worst

legs, lower back, forearms/handgrip strength is and was very important for being able to do what they did back then, fighting, lifting, working etc... everything is else is not needed really, yet these things are not easy to get in a gym, but the old style still works just fine to evolve these traits

[silverbell]

A man's masculinity is the most attractive part of him. During sex, when you see him flexing his biceps and hear his deep voice.... A woman can get mind blowing and sometimes even unbearable orgasms

[Velda]

legs, lower back, forearms/handgrip strength is and was very important for being able to do what they did back then, fighting, lifting, working etc... everything is else is not needed really, yet these things are not easy to get in a gym, but the old style still works just fine to evolve these traits

Concerning your pics: These are amazing, very good looking, healthy people in their best years. If their brains are as well trained as their bodies: perfect! If not: difficult!
A stupid person will always be betrayed by some clever person or fraud. Physical strenghth won't help someone, why is to be taken in.

There are clearly lots of woman, who like to have sex with those men.
It is better to marry a man, who is as clever as possible, even if he does not look as phantastic as the guys above.

[rhiannon]

Middle of the road. Not a pussy or a whiner/complainer, but not a guy stuck on his own machismo either.

I wholeheartedly admit to liking Metrosexuals. Clean-shaven men that know how to dress well....or men in uniform:thumb001:

[Foxy]

I would say as a teenager, I did tend to prefer guys with more feminine features, perhaps because I found them less threatening.
As I have got older, my tastes have changed and I don't like them too boyish looking these days. So yea I can safely say I'm far more attracted to masculine men - men that are fairly rugged and stuff like that.

I also find very skinny men rather androgenous. I am still not attracted to heavily built/stocky/muscle men though.

Same here, however being masculine does not depend only on facial features but more about body shape and movements.

[Foxy]

lumber jack or labor workers (what weve been doing for thousands of years with no weights or barbells)
http://images.fineartamerica.com/images-medium-large/oregon-lumberjack-1939-granger.jpg


That man looks like my grand father.

[jatt]

I Am alpha male n I would rather be alpha than beta doesT mAfter ladies like it or not

[Nebuchadnezzar]

Actually, when it comes to masculinity beard changes everything. xD

You can have a round face when shaved however if you keep the beard growing for 2-3 weeks, you may start looking like a bad-ass neanderthal.
It hides most of your childish appearance and makes you look more serious. You can also gain a few years if needed!

Let's put that theory to the test.....


Pre-Shave..... A Hybrid between a mexican from 1977, and an american hipster, 23 year old ( NO I DO NOT WEAR A MOUSTACHE & SIDEBURNS IRL)
https://fbcdn-sphotos-e-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xfp1/v/t1.0-9/p720x720/11036297_10152661428972797_5607769539812280099_n.j pg?oh=e477f0f1c4b8eca0cb5bd0b89b78cd2c&oe=5585D3BD&__gda__=1434535748_b9492858839ec400cc065b96ceea279 3

Scruffy beard..... 23year old
https://fbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xpf1/v/t1.0-9/1781959_10152661425052797_5103791844406146662_n.jp g?oh=79e3b88c3583423659ab565daa7bea67&oe=5593B746&__gda__=1435217273_d771d52ef90fc7dccf1bdcf1d3ee3e4 1


Teenage 15-16 years old
https://scontent-ams.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xfa1/v/t1.0-9/400158_10151219411462797_179461228_n.jpg?oh=107a0d b916ac82964b89498ea78b2ebe&oe=5550793C


Does it help ?

[dude]

In the US culture "Manly" also means a guy who smells and has poor hygiene and grooming. I like looking masculine, but I also like practicing good hygiene. I normally keep my hair short and I normally have a trimmed goatee. I shave the rest of my face once a week, but because of my trims the growing beard on my cheeks is like my look trademark.

[Highlands]

Dolicho- or Mesocephalic skull with straight nose. Some Atlantid/ Atlanto-med or Corded influence.
Broad shoulders
Good morals
Down to earth (I strongly dislike cocky people)
Family-oriented (good with my family)

[globby_823]

Manly ones are really cute! But I feel kinda nervous by them... So I wanna marry a guy somewhere in between :)

Most women like masculine men who can be gentlemen... Family oriented guys are attractive

[War Chef]

I find when I shave and look more effeminate I'm more approachable and easier to talk to, which is great.
When I don't shave for a while it's the opposite, and also some awkwardness from them.

[Jägerstaffel]

I think it all depends on the lady. Guys tend to have an opinion on this and it tends to be "ladies love a masculine guy.... like me!" but less masculine guys are dating women too, so obviously someone likes them.

[jatt]

In My opinion sexual diamorphism in Northern eurOpe is not much. Ladies there R fine with effimiNate men It depeNds How u r raised. Some places men don't grow Beard at all n at other places It's seen as HarmoNaL imbalAnCe

[Also]

Dolicho- or Mesocephalic skull with straight nose. Some Atlantid/ Atlanto-med or Corded influence.


Women always say that when I ask them how they like their men.

[Longbowman]

I find when I shave and look more effeminate I'm more approachable and easier to talk to, which is great.
When I don't shave for a while it's the opposite, and also some awkwardness from them.

In my part of Italy it's almost an obligation to grow one.

[Foxy]

In my part of Italy it's almost an obligation to grow one.

I know that in Italy having some beard is common but I hate it, I like shaved men.
I think that men who must grow beard to look more masculine have no character and need a mean to hide their weakness.

[Also]

I know that in Italy having some beard is common but I hate it, I like shaved men.
I think that men who must grow beard to look more masculine have no character and need a mean to hide their weakness.

It's not that a man needs to grow a beard to look masculine. Most will look more masculine with beard and it's a personal choice, depending on your style. That's like saying women shave their legs and armspits to look more feminine because they have no character and hide their weakness. You can't asseess a man's character based on the fact he has a beard or not.

[Longbowman]

I know that in Italy having some beard is common but I hate it, I like shaved men.
I think that men who must grow beard to look more masculine have no character and need a mean to hide their weakness.

Your opinion is your own. Some men like blondes, some men like chubby girls. Each to their own, no need to be so denigrative.

[alb0zfinest]

Dolicho- or Mesocephalic skull with straight nose . Some Atlantid/ Atlanto-med or Corded influence.
Broad shoulders
Good morals
Down to earth (I strongly dislike cocky people)
Family-oriented (good with my family)

Long Dinarid nose, able to use as a weapon :laugh:. No atlantid or atlantomed influence.
shoulders-far too broad
Good morals? no fuck off.
meh
You would never see your family again.

Am I a good match? :laugh:

[Nebuchadnezzar]

I know that in Italy having some beard is common but I hate it, I like shaved men.
I think that men who must grow beard to look more masculine have no character and need a mean to hide their weakness.

Ohh, comone Seriously, do you really think that ?

Couldn't it be as simple as, them thinking that a beard looks good (Better) on them ?

[LightHouse89]

I want a santa claus beard. I cannot grow one though because of where I work.

[Trun]

Why so many men voted on the poll? Rather disturbing.