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Hoxhaism
11-28-2016, 05:59 PM
http://www.vice.com/en_au/read/being-sexist-is-bad-for-your-mental-health

"A new study published in the Journal of Counseling Psychology has associated men's sexist behaviours towards women with negative mental health outcomes. Turns out that conforming to toxic masculine stereotypes all the time is actually a massive strain on the brain. "

http://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/cou-cou0000176.pdf

"Examining findings from more than 19,000 participants, the study's researchers considered the effects of 11 masculine "norms" that included emotional control, self-reliance, risk-taking, violence, winning, dominance, playboy behaviours, seeking power over women, and holding disdain for homosexuals. As the study notes, not all men exhibit these traits—they're constructs that society perpetuates as gender-dictated norms"

"It was found that only four of these typically masculine behaviours could be linked to poor mental health outcomes such as depression—emotional control, playboy behaviours, self-reliance, and exerting power over women. Men who exhibited these traits were more likely to seek psychological help than those who did not."

Dominicanese
11-28-2016, 06:11 PM
lol, why you putting up articles like this, just because a few users on here like me have admitted to being sexist. I have my reasons for being like this and i can surely tell you i don't have any of these unrealistic related health problems

i should put up one with women being sexist to men (which are the majority). Anyways i went to Canada recently and im surprised by how well women treatted men there as well as the other way around. I actually a woman there ask how was my day going and had a long conversation with her even though she has no idea who i am or where i came from or what i do. She actually was concerned for my well being, didn't think there were women like that anymore and she was young too, rather she thought i was hot or not, at this point i would know what women would want from me (sex, money, hurt me). She didn't seem to be too materialist, the ppl in europe and canada actually are not too selfish like here in the states. The women here are horrible

Hoxhaism
11-28-2016, 06:12 PM
lol, why you putting up articles like this, just because a few users on here like me have admitted to being sexist

i should put up one with women being sexist to men (which are the majority). Anyways i went to Canada recently and im surprised by how well women treatted men there as well as the other way around. I actually a woman there ask how was my day going and had a long conversation with her even though she has no idea who i am or where i came from or what i do. She actually was concerned for my well being, didn't think there were women like that anymore and she was young too, rather she thought i was hot or not, at this point i would know what women would want from me (sex, money, hurt me). She didn't seem to be too materialist, the ppl in europe and canada actually are not too selfish like here in the states. The women here are horrible

don't derail my threads please.

Dominicanese
11-28-2016, 06:13 PM
don't derail my threads please.

ill do whatever as i please whenever i want and what i want fool

YashiroNanakase
11-28-2016, 06:41 PM
Hoxhaism is even worse.

Hoxhaism
11-28-2016, 06:48 PM
Hoxhaism is even worse.

Good, i'm not communist.

BeerBaron
11-28-2016, 06:56 PM
Welcome to the UN controlled internet, where articles like this drivel will be the norm and things on the other side will be labeled "fake" and taken off.

Gosh I am so surprised they stumbled on this information, I wonder if it has anything to do with the parasitic femnazi leftist controlled world :rolleyes:

Dominicanese
11-28-2016, 07:00 PM
lets face it

we live in a feminized world

there's certain people you shouldn't give too much freedom and that is women

life was much better 50 years ago when there was equity (not equality), everyone knew they'r place and respected eachother as human beings

Bezprym
11-28-2016, 07:04 PM
Everyone who has a dick is a sexist.

Dominicanese
11-28-2016, 07:10 PM
Everyone who has a dick is a sexist.

thats right, fuck women

Bezprym
11-28-2016, 07:12 PM
thats right, fuck women

Literally.

LieDetector
11-28-2016, 07:14 PM
Lefturd bullshit

Poise n Pen
11-28-2016, 07:16 PM
So ironic since feminists and other lefturds are virtually always on various brain pills.

Queen B
11-28-2016, 07:17 PM
So, Apricians find nothing wrong with those, especially:
emotional control, self-reliance, risk-taking, violence, winning, dominance, playboy behaviours, seeking power over women, and holding disdain for homosexuals.

Linebacker
11-28-2016, 07:19 PM
What is also bad for your health is being a fat "strong independant woman" which is a wannabe title.

This is a strong(actually strong!) independant woman.Self-supports,makes hundreds of thousands in cash,also single.Those whales at Feministing can sit and learn.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=enEibD5XuhM

Poise n Pen
11-28-2016, 07:24 PM
So, Apricians find nothing wrong with those, especially:
emotional control, self-reliance, risk-taking, violence, winning, dominance, playboy behaviours, seeking power over women, and holding disdain for homosexuals.

No, those are natural drives. They are necessary for survival, your brain is there to tell you when and when not to engage in them.

Women have their own emotional drives as well, like the massive sense of entitlement every feminist shows that a man never would. I would tell you not to reproduce but it's obvious you never will anyway.

magyar_lány
11-28-2016, 07:26 PM
http://www.vice.com/en_au/read/being-sexist-is-bad-for-your-mental-health

"A new study published in the Journal of Counseling Psychology has associated men's sexist behaviours towards women with negative mental health outcomes. Turns out that conforming to toxic masculine stereotypes all the time is actually a massive strain on the brain. "

http://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/cou-cou0000176.pdf

"Examining findings from more than 19,000 participants, the study's researchers considered the effects of 11 masculine "norms" that included emotional control, self-reliance, risk-taking, violence, winning, dominance, playboy behaviours, seeking power over women, and holding disdain for homosexuals. As the study notes, not all men exhibit these traits—they're constructs that society perpetuates as gender-dictated norms"

"It was found that only four of these typically masculine behaviours could be linked to poor mental health outcomes such as depression—emotional control, playboy behaviours, self-reliance, and exerting power over women. Men who exhibited these traits were more likely to seek psychological help than those who did not."

There are sexist women, too.

Queen B
11-28-2016, 07:27 PM
No, those are natural drives. Women have their own emotional drives as well, like the massive sense of entitlement every feminist shows that a man never would. I would tell you not to reproduce but it's obvious you never will anyway.
Αt least all my kids will want to talk to me, instead of wanting nothing to do with me , like you. And my family, too.

catgeorge
11-28-2016, 07:29 PM
depends on the spectrum of sexism.

on one end of the spectrum grabbing a womans ass and being the boss on a dancefloor could be seen as sexism.. but for a man he is just being a man. This is not sexism.

I can not afford not to entice all types of ideas during my job and women do have some of the best ideas and i embrace them all.

..but when it comes to strategic planning and astuteness you leave that shit to the male.

Females are far better administrators and multi taskers though.. but for big thinking and big strategy you leave that to men. i do not care if one calls this sexism.

Dominicanese
11-28-2016, 07:29 PM
Αt least all my kids will want to talk to me, instead of wanting nothing to do with me , like you. And my family, too.

women have also taken kids away from men

not our fault that sometimes we cannot say "fuck the law" or else we'll get 50 guns shot at us by cops who will happily kill us (especially me since im hispanic)

Queen B
11-28-2016, 07:32 PM
women have also taken kids away from men

True. It happens sometimes. If it happens trice, by three different women, then there is something wrong and dangerous with the guy, don't you think?


depends on the spectrum of sexism.
on one end of the spectrum grabbing a womans ass and being the boss on a dancefloor could be seen as sexism.. but for a man he is just being a man. This is not sexism.

Grabbing a woman's ass ? With or without her consent? Because that isn't sexism, that's sexual asault.

catgeorge
11-28-2016, 07:33 PM
True. It happens sometimes. If it happens trice, by three different women, then there is something wrong and dangerous with the guy, don't you think?


Grabbing a woman's ass ? With or without her consent? Because that isn't sexism, that's sexual asault.

Don't be so dramatic - this is in a club/dancefloor situation.

Dominicanese
11-28-2016, 07:36 PM
i always found it strange that women may get raped by a man and feel totally horrid and destroyed about it

yet she could get with that same guy and shes fine with it and even lets the guy hit her

Bezprym
11-28-2016, 07:37 PM
So, Apricians find nothing wrong with those, especially:
emotional control, self-reliance, risk-taking, violence, winning, dominance, playboy behaviours, seeking power over women, and holding disdain for homosexuals.

Taking risk is necessary to achieve goals. Violence is necessary to protect. Seeking power over women and playboy behaviours is too broad to comment.

But now think about the antonyms. Should a man: lack control, be dependant, be a coward, be unable to defend himself nor anybody, be a loser, etc.?

Dominicanese
11-28-2016, 07:40 PM
True. It happens sometimes. If it happens trice, by three different women, then there is something wrong and dangerous with the guy, don't you think?


Grabbing a woman's ass ? With or without her consent? Because that isn't sexism, that's sexual asault.

yeah, unless he goes after the same type a women

cause theres women out there that are horrible, like the majority of them

Queen B
11-28-2016, 07:52 PM
Don't be so dramatic - this is in a club/dancefloor situation.
Last time someone tried to grope me without my consent got a headbutt and got escorted out.
Its one thing to get touchy-feely with the consent of a woman, and its another thing to grope without consent.

Taking risk is necessary to achieve goals. Violence is necessary to protect. Seeking power over women and playboy behaviours is too broad to comment.
But now think about the antonyms. Should a man: lack control, be dependant, be a coward, be unable to defend himself nor anybody, be a loser, etc.?
I'm pretty sure that this wasn't the the article meant with those characteristics. And I only meant about those I bolded.

Bezprym
11-28-2016, 08:04 PM
I'm pretty sure that this wasn't the the article meant with those characteristics. And I only meant about those I bolded.

What Hoxhaism posted is a presentation of specific features in a negative light. You have bolded risk-taking and violence, and I explained why this is positive. This article says basically that being "masculine" is wrong. It also presents various features as typically masculine, which is another bullshit, as violent are also women - and very good they are. Feminine maternal instinct protects children from danger, and when a child is in danger basically every mother would be prone to kill the predator to save her children. But hey, man can't do that! He'd be a violent sexist! When a dog would try to bite a child, should a man say: I can't harm that dog, it's such a cute little puppy? Or maybe violence is a necessity?

This bullshit which Hoxhaism decides to feed us all the time basically suggests, that being a man is wrong. All men are different, there is no single guy on Earth who would have all mentioned features, but this article claims that having at least one of them means a guy is evil, sexist and dangerous for the society.

Hithaeglir
11-28-2016, 08:06 PM
From my short experience in this life,the sexists i have encountered (with different levels of expression of sexist views) could be devided into three categories :

1.Really young men around the age of 18 to 23,who have a lack of understanding of women because of their limited experience in relationships,so they paint women all together because they can't distinguish their traits as individuals.

2.Men over the age of 30, underachievers,generally mediocre in their life performance , who will blame their situation on women,mostly in the workplace or see women as a threat.

3.Old spinsters who after a bunch of bad relationships and bad choices in their personal life (which most of the time is their fault,after you talk to them in depth) end being bitter about women,or better their bitterness was the actual cause of their poor choices.

Of course the first and third category also applies to some women as well.

Marzipan
11-28-2016, 08:13 PM
men's sexist behaviours towards women with negative mental health outcomes

This alone tells me it is a waste to keep reading. This study has an agenda.

Sexism is the outcome of obvious psychological and emotional devastation caused by inordinate of bad experiences between either close family to stranger of the opposite sex and the relationship between man and women within the environment in general. This applies to both sexes not one or the other.

Dominicanese
11-28-2016, 08:13 PM
argh

the only woman that will ever love a man is their mother, thats it

Queen B
11-28-2016, 08:19 PM
What Hoxhaism posted is a presentation of specific features in a negative light. You have bolded risk-taking and violence, and I explained why this is positive. This article says basically that being "masculine" is wrong.
I mean, that I think the article wants to say (and why I bolded it),
about risk-talking , in general -> f.e your life by speeding too high, or your money, by constant gambling, or your freedom by doing illegal activities for the thrill of it , or about violence -> hitting and getting into fights, hitting women, generally acting violent in reasons other than self-defence, while is problematic, it is considered ''normal'' for a man.


It also presents various features as typically masculine, which is another bullshit, as violent are also women - and very good they are. Feminine maternal instinct protects children from danger, and when a child is in danger basically every mother would be prone to kill the predator to save her children. But hey, man can't do that! He'd be a violent sexist!

See above.


This bullshit which Hoxhaism decides to feed us all the time basically suggests, that being a man is wrong. All men are different, there is no single guy on Earth who would have all mentioned features, but this article claims that having at least one of them means a guy is evil, sexist and dangerous for the society.
And no, this isn't what the article says. What article says is :

As the study notes, not all men exhibit these traits (which is what you said as well ) —they're constructs that society perpetuates as gender-dictated norms"

"It was found that only four of these typically masculine behaviours could be linked to poor mental health outcomes such as depression—emotional control, playboy behaviours, self-reliance, and exerting power over women. Men who exhibited these traits were more likely to seek psychological help than those who did not."

The article doesn't say anything about evil, but about being linked with mental health issues.
The the article also, doesn't claim but rather says that ''could be''



From my short experience in this life,the sexists i have encountered (with different levels of expression of sexist views) could be devided into three categories :

1.Really young men around the age of 18 to 23,who have a lack of understanding of women because of their limited experience in relationships,so they paint women all together because they can't distinguish their traits as individuals.

2.Men over the age of 30, underachievers,generally mediocre in their life performance , who will blame their situation on women,mostly in the workplace or see women as a threat.

3.Old spinsters who after a bunch of bad relationships and bad choices in their personal life (which most of the time is their fault,after you talk to them in depth) end being bitter about women,or better their bitterness was the actual cause of their poor choices.

Of course the first and third category also applies to some women as well.

True. I think also that no.3 is applies more to women :lol:

Poise n Pen
11-28-2016, 08:19 PM
who will blame their situation on women,mostly in the workplace or see women as a threat.


LOL

This is such complete bullshit. There is no guy anywhere on earth threatened by women in the workplace, most of whom are totally worthless in the workplace anyway.

MissProvocateur
11-28-2016, 08:21 PM
Bullshit. Suicide rates have increased in the western world over the years---And they increased along with the presence of feminism. While I think men should have the freedom to do whatever they want (be stay at home dads if they wish), I believe feminism is to blame for the increase of suicide rates. It isn't egalitarianism making men more depressed, it's the idea that being a man automatically makes you a bad person. It's the idea of regardless of what you do, it's wrong and sexist because god forbid you have a penis. It's because third wave feminism no long supports egalitarianism, but female supremacy. Giving females more privileges while demonizing males for even daring to look their way. Third wave feminism is cancer.

Bezprym
11-28-2016, 08:24 PM
I mean, that I think the article wants to say (and why I bolded it),
about risk-talking , in general -> f.e your life by speeding too high, or your money, by constant gambling, or your freedom by doing illegal activities for the thrill of it , or about violence -> hitting and getting into fights, hitting women, generally acting violent in reasons other than self-defence, while is problematic, it is considered ''normal'' for a man.

See above.

And no, this isn't what the article says. What article says is :

As the study notes, not all men exhibit these traits (which is what you said as well ) —they're constructs that society perpetuates as gender-dictated norms"

"It was found that only four of these typically masculine behaviours could be linked to poor mental health outcomes such as depression—emotional control, playboy behaviours, self-reliance, and exerting power over women. Men who exhibited these traits were more likely to seek psychological help than those who did not."

The article doesn't say anything about evil, but about being linked with mental health issues.
The the article also, doesn't claim but rather says that ''could be''


Ok, so basically this article says that guys who are gambling (maybe addicted), who are irresponsible drivers, constantly provoking fights, being involved in criminal activity and being abusive toward women are... pathological. Well, then this article is a remarkable discovery. :laugh:

Unome
11-28-2016, 08:27 PM
Traditional gender roles aka "Sexism" is actually very healthy and leads to the growth of a strong society and stronger individuals as well. Men naturally coalesce into areas of sporting, hunting, violence, war, games, and other highly competitive and high risk areas. Men thrive on competition and 'winning'. Women are more socialistic and group-orienting. A woman with traditional values: virginity, cooks and cleans, behaves feminine, and concerns herself with family-first, is highly-prized and severely more worthwhile than non-traditional and liberal women.

A traditional (conservative) woman is worth about 10,000 feminists. Traditional women are wrought from Nobility and Aristocracy (superior humans).

Stimpy
11-28-2016, 09:08 PM
Being a bitter, whiny fuck is a strain on your psyche and having poor mental health increases your risk of becoming bitter and whiny.

This is why both radical feminists and misogynist neckbeards on average have more mental health issues than the general population.

щрбл
11-28-2016, 09:45 PM
From my short experience in this life,the sexists i have encountered (with different levels of expression of sexist views) could be devided into three categories :

1.Really young men around the age of 18 to 23,who have a lack of understanding of women because of their limited experience in relationships,so they paint women all together because they can't distinguish their traits as individuals.

2.Men over the age of 30, underachievers,generally mediocre in their life performance , who will blame their situation on women,mostly in the workplace or see women as a threat.

3.Old spinsters who after a bunch of bad relationships and bad choices in their personal life (which most of the time is their fault,after you talk to them in depth) end being bitter about women,or better their bitterness was the actual cause of their poor choices.

Of course the first and third category also applies to some women as well.

http://www.gregbulla.com/FunStuff/Images/sandwich.jpg

xD

Poise n Pen
11-28-2016, 09:56 PM
Being a bitter, whiny fuck is a strain on your psyche and having poor mental health increases your risk of becoming bitter and whiny.

This is why both radical feminists and misogynist neckbeards on average have more mental health issues than the general population.

Men just respond to feminism bullshit. There is little or no real "mens rights advocates". Basically crazy femininist nutjob makes some wild accusations about men, and say that masculinity itself is a bad things. Anyone who disagrees is a "misogynist". Typical lefturd shit just like with "racism". If you don't open your borders and give nignogs free stuff you a "racist". If you don't obey lefturd womanologist and cross your legs when you sit on the bus you a "misogynist".

Stimpy
11-28-2016, 10:20 PM
Men just respond to feminism bullshit. There is little or no real "mens rights advocates". Basically crazy femininist nutjob makes some wild accusations about men, and say that masculinity itself is a bad things. Anyone who disagrees is a "misogynist". Typical lefturd shit just like with "racism". If you don't open your borders and give nignogs free stuff you a "racist". If you don't obey lefturd womanologist and cross your legs when you sit on the bus you a "misogynist".

I agree. I do however, find it embarrassing when some men sink to the same level as some radical feminists.

If someone is completely incapable of analytical thought or having a logical discussion, you treat them like a child - you don't become one yourself. That's how you get the high ground and make them seem like a retard. It pisses them off more too, which if they throw a fit makes them seem even more retarded.

The feminist movement have already kind of created a vague buzzword for this however. Mansplaining. Anything to not have to back up your views with well thought through opinions and facts - buzzwords are where it's at.

Queen B
11-29-2016, 05:28 AM
Being a bitter, whiny fuck is a strain on your psyche and having poor mental health increases your risk of becoming bitter and whiny.

This is why both radical feminists and misogynist neckbeards on average have more mental health issues than the general population.
True, actually.

Unfortunately, Misogynists are more than Feminazis, even in Apricity.

Bari
11-29-2016, 10:55 AM
don't derail my threads please.

Du met mshu me karin ne fytyrë:fgift: Duhet me mshel feministet në burg.

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 03:53 PM
the women here just need to suck cock for cash like they usually do

a good dick sucking for cash, what a hard life women have :rotfl:

gee i wish i could eat pussy for money, easiest life ever and fun

Queen B
11-29-2016, 04:04 PM
the women here just need to suck cock for cash like they usually do

a good dick sucking for cash, what a hard life women have :rotfl:

gee i wish i could eat pussy for money, easiest life ever and fun

We told you yesterday, you can suck dicks for cash if you want it so much. Noone is stopping you.

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 04:05 PM
the women here just need to suck cock for cash like they usually do

a good dick sucking for cash, what a hard life women have :rotfl:

gee i wish i could eat pussy for money, easiest life ever and fun

except that dicks are disgusting

Grenzland
11-29-2016, 04:08 PM
Vice => http://static1.luzernerzeitung.ch/storage/scl/kantone/795216_m1w640q75v37821_01233830_18471390.jpg

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 04:12 PM
except that dicks are disgusting

u like em

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 04:13 PM
We told you yesterday, you can suck dicks for cash if you want it so much. Noone is stopping you.

i said ill eat pussy

Grenzland
11-29-2016, 04:26 PM
By the way, the study seems kind of legit.

I guess some sexism is natural and goes for both genders. But overacting isn't normal, just look at this forum.

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 04:28 PM
u like em

i am virgin and unable to have sex (both physically and mentally)

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 04:30 PM
i am virgin and unable to have sex (both physically and mentally)

why?

i never thought there were still virgin women around

with so much money to be made

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 04:32 PM
By the way, the study seems kind of legit.

I guess some sexism is natural and goes for both genders. But overacting isn't normal, just look at this forum.

nah its just that people are speaking the truth

rather than hiding it or being politically correct

i never was and never will be political correct i talk the way i talk, never been part of society anyways (im a former Dominican farmer from rural society, where men and women are actual human beings)

Grenzland
11-29-2016, 04:35 PM
nah its just that people are speaking the truth

rather than hiding it or being politically correct

i never was and never will be political correct i talk the way i talk, never been part of society anyways (im a former Dominican farmer from rural society, where men and women are actual human beings)

It's more like two sides of the same coin. Ultra feminism is annoying, guys who constantly tell everyone how much they know about women and how worthless women nowadays are are annoying too.
That was funny at the age of 16...

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 04:36 PM
It's more like two sides of the same coin. Ultra feminism is annoying, guys who constantly tell everyone how much they know about women and how worthless women nowadays are are annoying too.
That was funny at the age of 16...

even now its still the same shit with everyone

age don't matter now endays brah

unless your from an older generation

are you 40+?

Grenzland
11-29-2016, 04:39 PM
even now its still the same shit with everyone

age don't matter now endays brah

unless your from an older generation

are you 40+?

No, I'm 26.

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 04:43 PM
No, I'm 26.

im surprised you don't see that

cause i see that all the time here in America, iv seen 30 and 40 year olds talking about shit like a 16 year old

unless you live in Europe or canada where people are actually civilized and realistic

its also easier to live in europe than america

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 04:45 PM
why?

i never thought there were still virgin women around

with so much money to be made

i'd rather die for starvation than lose my virginity

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 04:49 PM
i'd rather die for starvation than lose my virginity
hard to believe ur a virgin

but if you are saying the truth

then ok, but then how would u have kids?

Grenzland
11-29-2016, 04:56 PM
im surprised you don't see that

cause i see that all the time here in America, iv seen 30 and 40 year olds talking about shit like a 16 year old

unless you live in Europe or canada where people are actually civilized and realistic

its also easier to live in europe than america

Well yes, Germany is part of Europa. :D

Magnolia
11-29-2016, 05:01 PM
Any humiliation of an individual (a society) inevitably leads to a deterioration in one's mental health.

Marzipan
11-29-2016, 05:04 PM
Vice => http://static1.luzernerzeitung.ch/storage/scl/kantone/795216_m1w640q75v37821_01233830_18471390.jpg


By the way, the study seems kind of legit.

I guess some sexism is natural and goes for both genders. But overacting isn't normal, just look at this forum.
I'm as stunned as you this is still lit.
This study has no real credibility due to its very point. Studies are funded and sponsored. The study itself comes from a legitimate post but the professionals who on run the study and who made funding decisions are now questionable.

It is important to be impartial when reading any study because despite the professionalism of the ones doing the testing their own beliefs in the matter will guide how the study is written. In this case; how they define sexism and how they view such things. However, the very conclusion that is written as a base is false. They state sexism is a cause while it is actually an outcome itself that is perpetual.

Of course this has an effect on the reader as they may define sexism differently. You seem stunned as you now believe you are somehow sexist from reading it. Culture has much to do with how we see ourselves and the opposite sex. This is what is very sad that persons are willing to fund such disastrous studies.

Studies like this makes it dificult for such persons to find stability with their beliefs and reality. It brings the worst as it fuels their fears, paranoia, and ignites experiences that led them to their conclusions. This is what is happening now.

щрбл
11-29-2016, 05:04 PM
Sexist jokes are among the funniest, tbh, and laughing has great effect on one's health! :rolleyes:

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 05:07 PM
hard to believe ur a virgin

but if you are saying the truth

then ok, but then how would u have kids?

i'd rather die than have children

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 05:18 PM
i'd rather die than have children

tabien tabien << Spanish for >> alright alright

hope ur saying the truth

its your life so, i admire a woman who goes up in life without using sex as a weapon, so ill give u props for that

Amor Vincit Omnia
11-29-2016, 05:38 PM
i'd rather die than have children

what about adoption ? ;)

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 05:40 PM
what about adoption ? ;)

adopting and being a single mother? nah

If i somehow happen to have a decent high paid job i would be able to pay a babysitter while i am out .. but i don't really trust anyone.

the ideal would be to have a child young enough not to be traumatized, as these children often happen to be problematic for a mixture of both genes (afterall they descend from someone who either abused them or couldnt have the right mind to abort them or avoid getting pregnant) and environment (could be child abuse in his parents home or abuse by the orphanage stuff or more commonly neglect from the orphanage staff and abuse from their peers ) . I wouldn't be able to handle such situation and even if i somehow happen to have an infant i doubt i would give him enough attention to make him a functionning individual.

i'd rather not to have children at all , weather adopted or worse biological.
it goes against my nature and anyway the italian law doesn't allow celibates to adopt any child.

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 05:44 PM
adopting and being a single mother? nah

its gonna be hard to find a man who wont wanna have sex

thats why women are bisexual or lesbian these days

us men are out of the picture (unless we got money)

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 05:53 PM
its gonna be hard to find a man who wont wanna have sex

thats why women are bisexual or lesbian these days

us men are out of the picture (unless we got money)

i think it's more about women feeling less ashamed about their orientation and less "constraint" in following the "social norms".

before women were much more concerned about what their family and society thought about them, today not so much.

Poise n Pen
11-29-2016, 05:58 PM
I'm as stunned as you this is still lit.
This study has no real credibility due to its very point. Studies are funded and sponsored. The study itself comes from a legitimate post but the professionals who on run the study and who made funding decisions are now questionable.

It is important to be impartial when reading any study because despite the professionalism of the ones doing the testing their own beliefs in the matter will guide how the study is written. In this case; how they define sexism and how they view such things. However, the very conclusion that is written as a base is false. They state sexism is a cause while it is actually an outcome itself that is perpetual.

Of course this has an effect on the reader as they may define sexism differently. You seem stunned as you now believe you are somehow sexist from reading it. Culture has much to do with how we see ourselves and the opposite sex. This is what is very sad that persons are willing to fund such disastrous studies.

Studies like this makes it dificult for such persons to find stability with their beliefs and reality. It brings the worst as it fuels their fears, paranoia, and ignites experiences that led them to their conclusions. This is what is happening now.

All social studies 'studies' are just propaganda, no surprises.

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 06:02 PM
i think it's more about women feeling less ashamed about their orientation and less "constraint" in following the "social norms".

before women were much more concerned about what their family and society thought about them, today not so much.

sometimes too much freedom is what holds people back and puts even more limitations on a person

an example would be people achieving their goals before you and now since those ppl are ahead of u their gonna try to limit you from achieving yours and sometimes they do it without even knowing it

this is also why i have such a strong desire for things to back to the way it was, which is the only way forward for things to get better, things repeat

im ahead of almost everybody in terms of predictions and seeing how things are and are going to be, i have gotten so many positive reputations and thumbs up from my expressive form of replies, i have alqways been this way and i am this way in person, it has gotten me in trouble a lot but i always win out of it by saying smart replies or doing some horrible shit back to ppl who would try to hurt me (in person).

All im saying is that maybe we should be more realistic instead of dreaming. The more realistic a person is and less of a dreamer, the happier they would be, trust me. No point in dreaming

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 06:04 PM
All social studies 'studies' are just propaganda, no surprises.

it's not propaganda when men are really less prone to ask for help to a professional and less likely to "free themselves" of negative feelings by crying , because otherwise they're "weak" and "feminine pussies" rather than "true men". this leads them to try to escape their malignant feelings through violence ( either towards others or towards themselves, aka suicide) , substance abuse and risky behaviour .

told to any professional who works in the human psychology field and he will confirm what i am saying.

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 06:08 PM
it's not propaganda when men are really less prone to ask for help to a professional and less likely to "free themselves" of negative feelings by crying , because otherwise they're "weak" and "feminine pussies" rather than "true men". this leads them to try to escape their malignant feelings through violence ( either towards others or towards themselves, aka suicide) , substance abuse and risky behaviour .

told to any professional who works in the human psychology field and he will confirm what i am saying.

we'er all the same

no one is weaker or stronger than anybody

when a poor man has been beaten by society for a long time, how hard do u think its gonna be till he's more mentally stabled

the real word your looking for is mentally stabled, id advice everyone to use that same two words

because everyone here has been to a quite room to scream cry and yell "fuck you god" very loud or whatever other shit

Marzipan
11-29-2016, 06:11 PM
All social studies 'studies' are just propaganda, no surprises.

Not all integrity is bought. It's become worse over the past decades but once in a while something meaningful is funded. If it wasn't so, there would be truths about us as a species we would fail to understand or cope. Much of our structure that drives society or civilisation forward is about coping with our flaws that at some moment in time eluded us. Social understanding can lead to scientific discoveries and accomplishment.

As to say: what of lead poisoning! xD

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 06:15 PM
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-freedom/201007/the-health-benefits-tears

The Health Benefits of Tears

Typically, after crying, our breathing, and heart rate decrease, and we enter into a calmer biological and emotional state.
Emotional tears have special health benefits. Biochemist and “tear expert” Dr. William Frey at the Ramsey Medical Center in Minneapolis discovered that reflex tears are 98% water, whereas emotional tears also contain stress hormones which get excreted from the body through crying.
After studying the composition of tears, Dr. Frey found that emotional tears shed these hormones and other toxins which accumulate during stress. Additional studies also suggest that crying stimulates the production of endorphins, our body’s natural pain killer and “feel-good” hormones.” Interestingly, humans are the only creatures known to shed emotional tears, though it’s possible that that elephants and gorillas do too.

My heart goes out to them when I hear this. I know where that sentiment comes from: parents who were uncomfortable around tears, a society that tells us we’re weak for crying--in particular that “powerful men don’t cry.” I reject these notions. The new enlightened paradigm of what constitutes a powerful man and woman is someone who has the strength and self awareness to cry. These are the people who impress me, not those who put up some macho front of faux-bravado.

Crying is also essential to resolve grief, when waves of tears periodically come over us after we experience a loss. Tears help us process the loss so we can keep living with open hearts. Otherwise, we are a set up for depression if we suppress these potent feelings.

during my psychiatric residency at UCLA when supervisors and I watched videos of me with patients, they’d point out that I’d smile when a patient cried. “That’s inappropriate,” they’d say. I disagreed then; still do. I wasn’t smiling because my patients were depressed or grieving. I was smiling because they were courageously healing depression or other difficult emotions with tears. I was happy for their breakthrough. In my life, too, I love to cry. I cry whenever I can. Wish I could more. Thank God our bodies have this capacity.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-freedom/201007/the-health-benefits-tears

Marzipan
11-29-2016, 06:17 PM
it's not propaganda when men are really less prone to ask for help to a professional and less likely to "free themselves" of negative feelings by crying , because otherwise they're "weak" and "feminine pussies" rather than "true men". this leads them to try to escape their malignant feelings through violence ( either towards others or towards themselves, aka suicide) , substance abuse and risky behaviour .

told to any professional who works in the human psychology field and he will confirm what i am saying.
What?
He's not speaking of this study in the OP but all studies in the field.

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 06:38 PM
we'er all the same

no one is weaker or stronger than anybody

when a poor man has been beaten by society for a long time, how hard do u think its gonna be till he's more mentally stabled

the real word your looking for is mentally stabled, id advice everyone to use that same two words

because everyone here has been to a quite room to scream cry and yell "fuck you god" very loud or whatever other shit

i disagree with the notion that "we are all equal" . some people are less adaptable and can't handle mentally certain kind of stress , just like one can be smarter than the other or physically stronger. although some can overcome certain forms of experiences better than others. i would be able to handle rape and molestation, torture etc better than others but i can't find my place in society, i can't cope with the uncertainity of what will be of my life, with social exclusion for the way i look like for my physical and mental limits and so on (not that i am disable but i want more from myself while i am merely a "average or below average" person with no social skills and bad looks)

although we can say that we can't really "assess" how strong someone is and he can't even compare ourselves with a certain person , unless we know 100% of their life which is highly unlikely and some people might be fit for certain types of societies and not for others. better fit to overcome some pain than others.

talking about me , i feel like a total outcast... i dont have any hope for my situation because i know too well what my nature is .
i have a repressed violent mind , i need somehow to find a justification to express it ... it's literally killing me , slowly ... asking to come out .. but i need to put it in a cage though i feel like it will break it.

the ideal , the environment where i think i can only be fit is war . only there i would liberate myself from such disgusting urges... but at the same time , me the morality, won't allow this violence to express without justification .. i need to be convinced enough (and that would be easy) that doing such actions will be good.. so both parts of me would be at peace and not at war between each other. i also know , sadly, too well that i have a "slave mind" , i know that i would follow orders automatically even though i don't want to .. i would act like a robot .. so no problem about that.

i also have almost no empathy or fear of death, which some time ago i used to have. but i have almost died multiple times .. and i didnt feel anything, you can pretend to run over me or point a gun at me and my heart won't beat faster. also rape i might be raped and not feel anything about it , been molested some time and it was like nothing "so great" happened.

so in some points i am "stronger " than others , but in others i am extremely weak .. like a little 3 years old that lost his mother and doesn't know where to go .. that's how i feel when i look at my future. i just need to euthanize myself because i am too dangerous and too much in pain to make my life worth of anything.

i often wondered if i was somehow fabricated from a some kind of weird laboratory , because i am too much weird.. but in reality i am just a freak of nature.
born in the wrong body (i would have been better as a male) and in the wrong place of this world.

crazyladybutterfly
11-29-2016, 06:40 PM
What?
He's not speaking of this study in the OP but all studies in the field.

but he was also referring to this subject. if he read more about it and looked more in himself i wouldn't be so quick to judge badly the OP claims.

Dominicanese
11-29-2016, 07:12 PM
i disagree with the notion that "we are all equal" . some people are less adaptable and can't handle mentally certain kind of stress , just like one can be smarter than the other or physically stronger. although some can overcome certain forms of experiences better than others. i would be able to handle rape and molestation, torture etc better than others but i can't find my place in society, i can't cope with the uncertainity of what will be of my life, with social exclusion for the way i look like for my physical and mental limits and so on (not that i am disable but i want more from myself while i am merely a "average or below average" person with no social skills and bad looks)

although we can say that we can't really "assess" how strong someone is and he can't even compare ourselves with a certain person , unless we know 100% of their life which is highly unlikely and some people might be fit for certain types of societies and not for others. better fit to overcome some pain than others.

talking about me , i feel like a total outcast... i dont have any hope for my situation because i know too well what my nature is .
i have a repressed violent mind , i need somehow to find a justification to express it ... it's literally killing me , slowly ... asking to come out .. but i need to put it in a cage though i feel like it will break it.

the ideal , the environment where i think i can only be fit is war . only there i would liberate myself from such disgusting urges... but at the same time , me the morality, won't allow this violence to express without justification .. i need to be convinced enough (and that would be easy) that doing such actions will be good.. so both parts of me would be at peace and not at war between each other. i also know , sadly, too well that i have a "slave mind" , i know that i would follow orders automatically even though i don't want to .. i would act like a robot .. so no problem about that.

i also have almost no empathy or fear of death, which some time ago i used to have. but i have almost died multiple times .. and i didnt feel anything, you can pretend to run over me or point a gun at me and my heart won't beat faster. also rape i might be raped and not feel anything about it , been molested some time and it was like nothing "so great" happened.

so in some points i am "stronger " than others , but in others i am extremely weak .. like a little 3 years old that lost his mother and doesn't know where to go .. that's how i feel when i look at my future. i just need to euthanize myself because i am too dangerous and too much in pain to make my life worth of anything.

i often wondered if i was somehow fabricated from a some kind of weird laboratory , because i am too much weird.. but in reality i am just a freak of nature.
born in the wrong body (i would have been better as a male) and in the wrong place of this world.

like i said, the different experiences determine what a man or woman would become later in life whather he or she can cope

iv seen many bodies in DR, only due to local poverty there and i have not reacted to any of them cause its normal

iv seen weak men survive things strongmen usually would and strongmen die for the stupidest shit (like the sun, chicken pocks, eating bad food in the forst) and weakmen survive all that sometimes its crazy

RenaRyuguu
07-26-2019, 12:10 PM
idk what this is about