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Pigling
03-31-2017, 07:19 PM
I'd like if I could make correct decisions in my life but I always fail.

Mat123
03-31-2017, 07:23 PM
You need one of these.

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ergodic
03-31-2017, 07:24 PM
Testing to see if I can post

Rethel
03-31-2017, 07:27 PM
I'd like if I could make correct decisions in my life but I always fail.

Love Yahweh with all yourself, follow his commandments, read the Bible
with understanding - the more times the better, educate yourself in other
things like history, culture, math, economics aso, and then you will know
what and how to do rightly, and you will be happy prospering.

Dick
03-31-2017, 07:32 PM
Flip a coin. That works for me.

UkrainianGirl
03-31-2017, 07:36 PM
Well, don't ask Dick how or use the coin method :p

Loki
03-31-2017, 07:40 PM
I'd like if I could make correct decisions in my life but I always fail.

The fact that you know it's "wrong" decisions, probably means you didn't intend it to happen that way. And that means that there is great hope for the future.

Loki
03-31-2017, 07:42 PM
Love Yahweh with all yourself, follow his commandments, read the Bible
with understanding - the more times the better, educate yourself in other
things like history, culture, math, economics aso, and then you will know
what and how to do rightly, and you will be happy prospering.

Pursuing untruths isn't going to help anybody.

UkrainianGirl
03-31-2017, 07:48 PM
If you say you always try to make correct decisions but fail...then...next time right before going through with your normal decision...do the opposite? When there are several choices then yeah becomes more challenging. I usually consider the possible outcomes of each before deciding. Or you can always ask someone who has faced a similar dilemma before you make a choice to see what happened with them.

Rethel
03-31-2017, 08:07 PM
Pursuing untruths

Which untruths? :scratch:

Loki
03-31-2017, 08:15 PM
Which untruths? :scratch:

"Love Yahweh with all yourself, follow his commandments, read the Bible"

^^ This is your religious opinion, but many people think Yahweh doesn't exist. This guy needs genuine help, not a religion preached to him.

Rethel
03-31-2017, 08:24 PM
This is your religious opinion,

No, this is a fact, regardless you want to belive in it or not.
And btw, Bible has many very usefull advices, and if you implement in life, you will do well.
Even heretics can do quite well by doing acording to them.


but many people think Yahweh doesn't exist.

They can also think, that earth is falt, or that they are
just another kind of apes. I don;t care. It is their problem.


This guy needs genuine help,

So I gave him the best advise I could.
You can;t give him better one.


not a religion preached to him.

So now, this what you are not agree
with, is a meaningless religion preaching? :scratch:

Loki
03-31-2017, 08:26 PM
No, this is a fact, regardless you want to belive in it or not.
And btw, Bible has many very usefull advices, and if you implement in life, you will do well.
Even heretics can do quite well by doing acording to them.



They can also think, that earth is falt, or that they are
just another kind of apes. I don;t care. It is their problem.



So I gave him the best advise I could.
You can;t give him better one.



So now, this what you are not agree
with, is a meaningless religion preaching? :scratch:

You are being evangelistic in inappropriate places. This is rude.

Veneda
03-31-2017, 08:29 PM
Listen to your soul/heart, not to your mind/ego. This is beneficial in the long run :)

Rethel
03-31-2017, 08:39 PM
You are being evangelistic in inappropriate places. This is rude.

Real help for a guy, when he ask for, is rude?

Loki
03-31-2017, 08:42 PM
Real help for a guy, when he ask for, is rude?

What you're offering isn't unconditional help.

Rethel
03-31-2017, 08:44 PM
What you're offering isn't unconditional help.

How it so?

Loki
03-31-2017, 08:47 PM
How it so?

It is not neutral. It is biased.

Rethel
03-31-2017, 08:49 PM
It is not neutral. It is biased.

And your advise is neutral? :picard1:

Loki
03-31-2017, 08:54 PM
And your advise is neutral? :picard1:

Yes. He might not be a Christian, so you could offend him possibly. So you are being selfish.

Oneeye
03-31-2017, 08:57 PM
When you have the answer to that, tell me too.

Pigling
03-31-2017, 08:58 PM
Listen to your soul/heart, not to your mind/ego. This is beneficial in the long run :)

Do you seriously mean that?

Veneda
03-31-2017, 08:59 PM
Do you seriously mean that?

Yes, I do

Rethel
03-31-2017, 09:10 PM
Yes. He might not be a Christian, so you could offend him possibly. So you are being selfish.

How can I be selfish? :picard2:

If someone is beliving, that eating a shit is good, but
he is unhappy, then advising him, that he should not
eat shit, but for example vegtables is wrong? :picard2:

Loki
03-31-2017, 09:13 PM
How can I be selfish? :picard2:

If someone is beliving, that eating a shit is good, but
he is unhappy, then advising him, that he should not
eat shit, but for example vegtables is wrong? :picard2:

Now you're just trolling and you know that.

catgeorge
03-31-2017, 09:19 PM
I keep telling my staff - never be afraid to make a decision when you need to, but evaluate everything before making one.

I find people really struggle making a decision let alone the wrong one.

Even if you do make the wrong decision and everyone has, it merely cultivates a platform of learning and personal development.

If you constantly make the same wrong decision - then that goes into other categories such as cognition issues