How to be less autistic?

[Joso]

I put a lot of effort to be more social but it is difficult. What should i do?

I know that getting out of this forum would be a main answer :p but besides it, what else??

[Gründig]

You can go to pickle park

[Joso]

All the time i feel that nothing makes sense anymore, so i don't have will to do anything and don't socialize much. Also i hadn't have a very social life for many years, so i don't know anymore basic social skills...

[Joso]

You can go to pickle park

Good idea... But i am talking about social skills and these things. For an example, in real life it is difficult for me to do a conversation

[Gründig]

Good idea... But i am talking about social skills and these things. For an example, in real life it is difficult for me to do a conversation

i was messing around.

On a more serious note, i may not be the best person to ask about this.

[Joso]

i was messing around.

On a more serious note, i may not be the best person to ask about this.

Do you also have problems when being social?

[Gründig]

Do you also have problems when being social?

I do not.

However, i just don't really have the best advice to give on this topic.

[Joso]

I do not.

However, i just don't really have the best advice to give on this topic.

Ok

[Gründig]

Ok

id imagine you just have to put yourself out there more. Force yourself into social situations until you become more comfortable with them.

[Joso]

Help me pls, God will recompensate you guys!

[Joso]

id imagine you just have to put yourself out there more. Force yourself into social situations until you become more comfortable with them.

Yes, i know i should do that but i cannot... I have panic syndrome when i have to talk with someone that i don't know, maybe i have social phoby

[Mortimer]

You dont need to be social. Being alone is not the same as being lonely. Do what makes you happy. Iam also only very limited social and I am happy. A life where I am very social, wouldnt make me happy.

[Anthony PV]

Ask for a permaban from TA and walk across the crowded streets of your town.


All the time i feel that nothing makes sense anymore, so i don't have will to do anything and don't socialize much. Also i hadn't have a very social life for many years, so i don't know anymore basic social skills...
Welcome to the club.

[Anthony PV]

Yes, i know i should do that but i cannot... I have panic syndrome when i have to talk with someone that i don't know, maybe i have social phoby
Meh, when people get older, they don't have much to say, to close friends or to complete strangers...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjYSKA38GOE

[Joso]

You dont need to be social. Being alone is not the same as being lonely. Do what makes you happy. Iam also only very limited social and I am happy. A life where I am very social, wouldnt make me happy.

I also dont feel much need to be social but when i have to, it is very difficult.

BTW, how do you make friends in real life?

[Joso]

Meh, when people get older, they don't have much to say, to close friends or to complete strangers...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjYSKA38GOE

Lol, to talk about porn seems to be a good icebreaker, thanks for the help

[War Chef]

Just bullshit about anything literally, ANYTHING

So.... Are you really homeless?

[Joso]

Just bullshit about anything literally, ANYTHING

So.... Are you really homeless?

Yes i am homeless but have access to the internet... lol of course i am not

[Mortimer]

I also dont feel much need to be social but when i have to, it is very difficult.

BTW, how do you make friends in real life?

I dont make many new friends. I made some friends. And I do socialise sometimes. I have a female friend since longer, since almost 10 years and via her I met her brother and his friends, Now I am friends with them too. They are all part of a church, or christian church. And I like socialising with them. But Im very careful, because there are lots of bad people and its better to not socialise at all before you become part of a bad company. Iam shizophrenic and I dont drink alcohol, but many drink alcohol and many also smoke weed but that would bring me into psychiatric station because iam shizophrenic.

[Joso]

I dont make many new friends. I made some friends. And I do socialise sometimes. I have a female friend since longer, since almost 10 years and via her I met her brother and his friends, Now I am friends with them too. They are all part of a church, or christian church. And I like socialising with them. But Im very careful, because there are lots of bad people and its better to not socialise at all before you become part of a bad company. Iam shizophrenic and I dont drink alcohol, but many drink alcohol and many also smoke weed but that would bring me into psychiatric station because iam shizophrenic.

Interesting... Wich synthoms of Schizophreny do you have? Do you often see alucinatons or?

[Mortimer]

Interesting... Wich synthoms of Schizophreny do you have? Do you often see alucinatons or?

I talked often about it, and was asked many Times. Check my Thread "Ask Mortimer" search for my comments there. I dont feel like repeating everything. And I have partial hallucinations not full blown like Fata Morgana. It happened and can that I hear voices, or see distorted image like people making grimaces, but not that I see something which isnt there at all. Like people who are not there. So a little bit maybe but not fully.

[Joso]

I talked often about it, and was asked many Times. Check my Thread "Ask Mortimer" search for my comments there. I dont feel like repeating everything. And I have partial hallucinations not full blown like Fata Morgana. It happened and can that I hear voices, or see distorted image like people making grimaces, but not that I see something which isnt there at all. Like people who are not there. So a little bit maybe but not fully.

That must be scary! Or maybe not so much?

[Mortimer]

That must be scary! Or maybe not so much?

Its not a good feeling. Thats for sure. I rather be totally aware and full blown in reality. Also it comes with anxiety, fear and sleeplessness

[Joso]

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