I always feel like I'm a gift of God to humanity

[MustafaTekin]

if there were more people like me, the world would look much better now.

[Aldaris]

You and plenty of other new members make this place feel like the old times, that’s for sure. :rolleyes:

[Impaler]

Amin.

[pulstar]

That sounds genuinely generous and humble

[Celestia]

I like this guy already

[Tooting Carmen]

Is that you Sardinia Atlantis? xD

[Celestia]

Is that you Sardinia Atlantis? xD

SA was in fact a gift from the Spanish Gods

[Dna8]

Indulge me, I beg you: 24.03 to as far as you like:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZANTo_czzPE

[MustafaTekin]

Indulge me, I beg you: 24.03 to as far as you like:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZANTo_czzPE

I have a big heart, my son.

[Lemgrant]

*Tengri

[Dick]

Is that you Sardinia Atlantis? xD

Your infatuation for him is adorable

[Dna8]

I have a big heart, my son.

And I perceive it.

[Bakha]

You re turanic Turk, so you already were designed as a gift for humanity

[Tooting Carmen]

Your infatuation for him is adorable

All hail the most handsome man to have ever appeared on TA (and got banned for no apparent reason):
https://i.ibb.co/YbhYgrR/E5-C84-BE1-AD28-4-DA9-89-F7-F010-B030-DD4-B.jpg

[Celestia]

All hail the most handsome man to have ever appeared on TA (and got banned for no apparent reason):


It is a crime to be that sexy, I must say.

[Dna8]

Surely one of TA's, Most Wanted.

[Alenka]

if there were more people like me, the world would look much better now.
https://www.theapricity.com/forum/image.php?u=18219&dateline=1573088863

[catgeorge]

Evrim sock.

[MustafaTekin]

Evrim sock.


False accusation. i'm an old member.

[Dna8]

All I know, Roman is Byzantine is Romance Speaking Balkans.

I know this to be true.

I can feel it, coming in the air tonight.

Oh Lord.

[MustafaTekin]

https://faithhopeandpsychology.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/purpose_joy4.jpg


6 Practices That Bring Me Joy

Presence
The practice of being in the here and now.

This practice is at the top of my list because it has single-handedly been the biggest difference-maker in my mental health. It’s quite easy for my mind to start burrowing its way into distant memories or future expectations. The practice of coming back to the moment, of being aware, has helped me develop an appreciation for the journey. I used to think happiness came after I had achieved a certain degree of wealth, or status, and would sometimes feel anxiety or worry about not having those things right now. But I have come to realize that there’s joy and contentment in every moment, if you’re willing to seek it out. Being present has improved my patience and my capacity for forgiveness. Perhaps most importantly, it has helped me learn what I can, and cannot, control.

There are lots of great ways to practice presence in your life. Yoga and meditation are great tools. Going for a walk. Perhaps simplest is to pause where you are, and pay attention to the feeling of your breath, moving in and out of your lungs. Try not to change it, or judge it. Rather, see if you can just be with it, through the inhale and the exhale and the spaces in between. The more you can stay with your breath, the more present you are practicing.

Gratitude
The practice of optimism.

I used to complain a lot. Complaining is so easy to the critically-minded. It’s very easy to find ways that something isn’t perfect. In fact, as a teenager I spent a lot of time pointing out flaws with the world, and with other people, and of course with myself. Sometimes my friends and I had full conversations where all we did was complain. Unfortunately all of this complaining eventually filled me with resentment and a sense of perpetual dissatisfaction. Read: complaining about the world made me unhappy.

I don’t remember how I was first introduced to the practice of gratitude, but it has been a major game-changer in determining how I look at the world. Closely tied with my practice of presence, taking a few moments to acknowledge what IS instead of what IS NOT has helped me find contentment. Practicing gratitude has helped me realize that my life is full of meaning, if only I can remember to look for it.

Service
The practice of caring.

Most of my mental health challenges have revolved around trying to find a sense of purpose. By finding ways to help others, I found a way to create an immediate answer to that burdensome quest. It may not answer the question about the Greater Purpose of my life (or does it?) but it does help me temporarily quench the burning question of my existence. Regularly serving others is helping me stay the course.

Something I sometimes like to try is a saying “yes” day – I follow the rule “if someone asks me for help, and I can help them, then I will.” I’ve met and made some really great friends by practicing “yes” days.

Growth
The practice of learning from everything.

Over the years I’ve come to appreciate just how powerful our thoughts really are. The judgments we make determine our limitations and our opportunities. Those who say they “can’t” never will. Those who say they’re “smart” may always be afraid to fail.

Many of us develop a sense of certainty about things. Certainty creates a sense of comfort, but unfortunately it isn’t always helpful. In fact, I’m only really confident that things are far more complex than it first they seem to be. For this reason, I’ve developed an attitude of curiosity towards most things, even those things that frustrate or anger me. Every experience, no matter how negative, is transformed by my mindset into an opportunity to learn. A teacher once encouraged me to change my “F” word: whenever I feel “frustrated” I try to reframe the situation as something that’s “fascinating”.

By developing a growth mindset the learning in my life is ceaseless. When it comes to creating a sense of purpose, learning something new is one of the most powerful ways to do it. If you’re not growing, you’re dying. Or at least you’re probably not very happy.

Self-Respect
The practice of setting high expectations.

It’s really easy to play victim of circumstance. In fact I would say that the lowest times in my life were those where I felt I had no control, where I felt like the world was happening TO me.

During my years studying in the dojo I learned that self-respect is about having realistically high expectations for yourself, and holding yourself to those expectations as often as possible.

As I’ve gotten older, I realize more and more that this isn’t so much about outcomes, as it is about actions. My expectations of myself have become defined by the actions I take, not by the results I’m able to produce. When I focus on results I usually miss the mark. But when I focus on taking action, and practice discipline of those actions, I find the results usually follow.

When we take action, we create motivation. Doing things gives us a sense of purpose. Developing expectations and holding myself to daily actions is great for my self-esteem, and ultimately, a sense of happiness.

Self-forgiveness
The practice of being kind when expectations aren’t met.

It’s the most challenging of my practices. The truth is that we’re meaner to ourselves than we would ever even think of being to others.

But we must be kind to ourselves. After all, mistakes, failures, and distractions are inevitable. It’s easy to create high expectations and then miss them all together. I used to be really hard on myself when I failed to reach a goal. So much so that at various points in my life I felt like I couldn’t do anything at all. My inability to forgive myself my mistakes and errors and failures led to feelings of worthlessness and self-loathing. Our thoughts create our realities, don’t they?

A friend of mine suggested that we’d all do a lot better if we could learn to talk to ourselves like we do with our best friends. What a powerful idea! I began treating myself with kindness, nurturing my ego through errors and failures, detaching from the products and enjoying the process. Being able to forgive myself has been a powerful source of my happiness.

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The path to understanding is lined with wonders and disappointments. It’s full of joy, and deep sadness. It is a rich experience, both challenging and rewarding. And the only way out is through. It is our job to ride the waves, doing the best we can with what we’ve got, and being kind to ourselves when we’re not our best, so that we can get back to being our best sooner.

We are what we repeatedly do, so choose wisely, my friends.

[MustafaTekin]

I think it's because i accept life as it comes.

[kalach]

Evrim sock.

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