Will you get married in your life?

[jfgh676]

If you meet a women or man that you want to spend a long time with. Would you get married or no? If yes,would you take precautions like a prenup?

Personally i have no intention to get married in my life,i think it brings its lot of hassles and depression

[HelloGuys]

Yes; I'd like to get married sometime in my life

And having a prenup is always a good idea Imo

[Alexandro]

I might. The idea of marriage is something my girlfriend has shown interest in, and so eventually this may be something we do. Personally, if you ask me, I don't really care about it. I think of marriage as a chore that my girlfriend and I would have to go through if we decide that we really want the legal benefits and whatnot that it would grant us. But, women seem to love this idea of getting married in a church (we are both Atheists, but we're also Spanish so....), and saying your vows to eternal commitment so we can have eternal buttsecks in the heavens or whatever bullcrap xD

Actually, thinking about it....I think the biggest reason for women caring about weddings is that they are socialized to do so. All of their family and friends pressure them to have a big wedding, that it is the single most important event of their lives and all that, so perhaps the pressure becomes a bit much. Meanwhile, guys get more of a pass on caring about it.

[Mortimer]

Highly likely never. I do want it, but no one wants to marry me.

[Kivan]

Yes, I hope so.

[jfgh676]

Yes; I'd like to get married sometime in my life

And having a prenup is always a good idea Imo

Some women will refuse to sign it,or contest it on the base that she made it under pressure.

https://imgur.com/a/EuLcaR3
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[Rafael Passoni]

I plan marriage a Sicilian/ Andalusian woman and have children, but when I'll do it I don't know. Maybe after I'll retired.

[Chaos One]

Already married.

[jfgh676]

I plan marriage a Sicilian/ Andalusian woman and have children, but when I'll do it I don't know. Maybe after I'll retired.

Cool,but why would you limit yourself to only sicilian/andalusian? Physical preference or maybe cultural

[rero]

no marriage and no children ever in my life. It bores me.

[Rafael Passoni]

Cool,but why would you limit yourself to only sicilian/andalusian? Physical preference or maybe cultural

Because I think cultural diferrences are one of the most important things to take into account when we are prone to marry, it can wear out marriages. I saw it with my eyes in my own family. My aunt married a Japanese guy, and she was unable to accept the strong hierarchy between family members. That very big cultural difference turned into a big problem to them. Shortly after that, they were divorced. Then he married a Japanese woman and they have a happy family and had children today.

[Livia]

I would like to get married, as marriage would mean his trust in me and my trust in him.

[Asten]

yeah, it is obligatory if you want your genes to perpetuates.

[Perunovsin]

There was a time that I wanted to, but now, I would like to get rich, and have multiple families, then die alone somewhere in the woods

[Linebacker]

Im a bit of a fuckboi, my relationships with women are mainly for pleasure, I can't stand to live with them otherwise.

I'll consider marriage when Im 30.

[TheGoldenSon]

Im a bit of a fuckboi, my relationships with women are mainly for pleasure, I can't stand to live with them otherwise.

I'll consider marriage when Im 30.

How old are you?

[Linebacker]

How old are you?

I'll be 26 this may.

[TheMaestro]

Yes, but I will carefully choose my future to be wife. I need someone extremely positive in my life.

[Asten]

I'll be 26 this may.

you look 36 :rolleyes::rolleyes:

[Asten]

No offense .

[Linebacker]

you look 36 :rolleyes::rolleyes:

Cromagnid genetics.

[Vrazijadivizija]

Yes

[calxpal]

I sure hope so :D:love0016:

[KirillMazur]

I have been married for a long time. Life has become better, more order and meaning. No tyranny and overexploitation still:).
But if I'll lose my family, then most likely I will not try to create a new one - you can't be so lucky for the second time.

[RenaRyuguu]

hopefully to the right person

[Celestia]

I would but nobody wants to marry a frog

[CordedWhelp]

I dig the married life. I find my wife to be very attractive (actually more so now than ever! She’s been getting athletic AF, but not too muscly and still very feminine ), and we still get along great and joke around a lot together. Thank God!

[Erronkari]

I am since 2003.

[Rædwald]

No, as there are no advantages afforded to men through marriage.

[Mortimer]

I would like to but I wont because I cannot find a woman.

[happycow]

Was already married. Didn't work out. Don't have the desire to marry again.

[Tsuin]

Probably not, though anything is possible

[Ylla]

Nothing really changes after marriage. Our relationship was great before and it still is (although a bit more stressful with kids in the mix)

[WhatsGoingOnBigGuy]

Yeah, I would get married right now if i had the financial stability to start a family.

[JamesBond007]

Yeah, I would get married right now if i had the financial stability to start a family.

You have to be crazy or ignorant to get married in Anglo-Sphere Clown World especially America :


https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/5111yM3BIuL._SY346_.jpg


The world economy and it’s entire, historic economic production has been fueled by one thing and one thing only – sex. Specifically, men’s desire to have sex with young and beautiful females. It’s not specifically female youth and beauty per se, as much as it is the fertility these things signal. But make no mistake about, female youth and beauty has powered the world economy since the beginning of time. And men are the economic engines that run on it.

Consequently, in their pursuit of women, men have not only produced nearly every penny of GDP, but have created nearly every technological innovation in the history of the world. They’ve built civilizations from the ground up. Cured diseases through amazing medical advances. Laid incredible multi-trillion dollar transportation and communications infrastructures. And it isn’t even these great, Herculean achievements of man, as much as it is the daily grind billions of men today and in the past went through to attract a wife and support a family. From waking up in the morning, to going to school, to suffering a commute, to working overtime, to hitting the gym, to majoring in STEM, to going to war, even to the granular level of choosing which shirt to buy or what car to finance, nearly all of a man’s post-pubescent life is directly or indirectly dedicated towards the pursuit of women. And if there were no women, $90 trillion in global GDP and $360 trillion in wealth would simply disappear overnight. And the army of 50 billion men who’ve existed on this planet would never have produced the $3 quadrillion in total historic GDP that built society. Without female youth and beauty, humanity would simply not exist.

But there is an opposite side to this total, historical, global GDP coin. Because while society screams bloody murder over wealth and income gaps between the sexes, nobody asks how all this economic production, let alone these financial disparities, came about. And while men no doubt out-earn women and own the lion’s share of global wealth, it is only because for every penny of GDP a man’s labor was put into it. That for every technological innovation, a man paid a price in terms of time, effort, toil, and mental energy. And the $90 trillion in global GDP we see today is not just cryptically “the total economic production of the world,” but can also be viewed as the total price men pay for their pursuit of women.

And this essay asks just one simple question – “Is it worth it?”

To date no serious economic analysis has been conducted on what is nothing short of the most important economic question facing men. And since men will likely account for the majority of economic production and technical innovation in the future, this also makes it the most important economic question facing the world. However, while the economic ramifications of men's pursuit of women are truly global, this essay has no grandiose ideas of convincing the world, let alone the economics profession, about the importance of whether it's in men's best interests to continue this pursuit. It only cares about the individual man reading this essay and whether the pursuit of women is personally worth it to him. In that regard this essay aims to inform the reader about the real mathematical chances of success he faces in the pursuit of women, as well as the modern day risks, so that he may make an informed economic decision as to how he best invests his life. It also aims to align the reader's expectations with reality so his life is not ruined by delusion or hope, both of which have ruined millions of lives in the past. But in short, this essay is nothing less than the most important cost-benefit analysis any man will read, which makes it mandatory reading for any man who wishes to take his life seriously.

And I most certainly hope you do because you only get one of them.


https://www.amazon.com/Book-Numbers-Analyzing-Pursuit-Women-ebook/dp/B08PTFKLP6/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1638177547&sr=8-1

[Chocolatepug37]

I would get married if I met the right person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I don’t think I would do a prenup.

[Mortimer]

Realistically highly probably never

[Perunovsin]

I hope so, wanna put a child in this world, and raise him up to be stromg, make a difference, and have many kids, so I cN be reborn again

[E1b1b]

Yeah, but I have to move out of the west.

[Perunovsin]

Yeah, but I have to move out of the west.

Why, killed too many hookers?

[E1b1b]

Why, killed too many hookers?

Nah, cuz of this:


https://youtu.be/RGzvCdBZACQ

[Celestia]

I take marriage very seriously so I would only be open to it if I met someone I genuinely could see myself growing old with.

[sanhadji]

I don't know women are really mean today

[Dušan]

Really annoys that question that people started to asking me recently.

Mind your own bussiness, and your own lives.

[Danjojo]

I've been married....very short time when I was in the military and a little while after.

When you are dying one day you will ask yourself, "did I fight hard enough and love hard enough when I had the chance?" Definitely worth it.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

I've never wanted to be married or have children. This has been an issue in the past because you're wasting a woman's time if she's looking for a future husband to have children. The last relationship I was in I let go of because she was in her 30s, and I didn't want to waste her time. It dawned on me her clock was ticking and it would be wrong of me to waste her time.

[Celestia]

I've never wanted to be married or have children. This has been an issue in the past because you're wasting a woman's time if she's looking for a future husband to have children. The last relationship I was in I let go of because she was in her 30s, and I didn't want to waste her time. It dawned on me her clock was ticking and it would be wrong of me to waste her time.

Good on you for being honest with her.
I’m sure that was hard but it was the right thing to do.

I don’t know if I ever see myself getting married.
I’ve always wanted to be a mother but being a wife wasn’t as appealing to me.
Unorthodox but it is what it is.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

Good on you for being honest with her.
I’m sure that was hard but it was the right thing to do.

I don’t know if I ever see myself getting married.
I’ve always wanted to be a mother but being a wife wasn’t as appealing to me.
Unorthodox but it is what it is.

I never said that to her, but it was what I was thinking because of comments she had made about wanting marriage and children one day. It was only difficult in the sense that it would mean no more sex because, tbh, she was getting to be annoying.

[hazmatnik]

I was married but not sure if i will do it again (i'm still legally married, but its just a joke now, we didn't divorce but we are separated). My father had five marriages, i'm lagging.

[Rædwald]

Unlikely, I don't really have anything to offer, nor do I care to fill such an obligation. If the right person were to accept me as I was perhaps, that is generally not how these things go.

[Kriptc06]

I've never wanted to be married or have children. This has been an issue in the past because you're wasting a woman's time if she's looking for a future husband to have children. The last relationship I was in I let go of because she was in her 30s, and I didn't want to waste her time. It dawned on me her clock was ticking and it would be wrong of me to waste her time.

I ended two relationships for this reason as well, she wanted kids/marriage and I did not, so it was best if we were both mature about it and break up

[Blondie]

I dont know, but i dont want to marry now. We have never talked about it with my bf.

[Ellethwyn]

I've been married since I was 18, and I'm 99.9% sure we will remain married until death do us part. Marriage is a ton of work. There were a couple times I thought we might not make it, because getting married at such a young age meant a lot of growing pains, plus we have very different personalities, but thankfully we have the same goals and moral standards. I'm thankful we pulled through and have grown together through the years. We have a smooth running relationship these days. It's wonderful... even if he makes me want to pull my hair out sometimes.

[Dušan]

I dont know, but i dont want to marry now.

I do want, but not now. Maybe for 3-4 years.

But asking that question by relatives, neighbours, cousins etc is rude, in my opinion.
On the level of question what is your sallary etc.

[Brás Garcia de Mascarenhas]

Check ✓

[Dušan]

I was married but not sure if i will do it again (i'm still legally married, but its just a joke now, we didn't divorce but we are separated). My father had five marriages, i'm lagging.




Some of my friends and relatives divorced only after 1 or 2 years of marriage. :(
Very sad and like a failure, and if I get marry I want modest traditional woman, to who I can trust.
Marriage is serious thing.

We live in crazy times.

[Mortimer]

Check ✓

I did not know you were married. When did you got married?

[Brás Garcia de Mascarenhas]

I did not know you were married. When did you got married?

In July of last year. We were supposed to get married in 2020 but had to postpone because of the pandemic (and we ended up getting married during the pandemic anyway, so it didn't do much good to postpone). I have lived with my wife for almost nine years now Mortimer so not much has changed other than the symbolism and the fact that the wedding day was totally worth it, one of the happiest days of our lives :) (to go a little against the grain of this thread since it seems that the current opinion around here is that getting married is the same as descending into the fires of hell) :lol:

[Celestia]

In July of last year. We were supposed to get married in 2020 but had to postpone because of the pandemic (and we ended up getting married during the pandemic anyway, so it didn't do much good to postpone). I have lived with my wife for almost nine years now Mortimer so not much has changed other than the symbolism and the fact that the wedding day was totally worth it, one of the happiest days of our lives :) (to go a little against the grain of this thread since it seems that the current opinion around here is that getting married is the same as descending into the fires of hell) :lol:

Congratulations to you guys ^_^

[Laredo]

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[Mejgusu]

My father was already married and had his first child at my age, I think I am a totally loser comparing to him. I am telling my feelings to strangers while I am watching stranger things on Netflix, I should go out talk to girls and having a date at McDonalds.

On the other hand last time I talked to a girl she used her pepper spray against me.

[Hithaeglir]

I have been happily married for the past four years and hopefully for many more. Unfortunately I know a lot of people who are divorcing in alarming rates though :/

[Mejgusu]

I have been happily married for the past four years and hopefully for many more. Unfortunately I know a lot of people who are divorcing in alarming rates though :/

Before people come with traditional values, I want to contribute something serious to this thread since this divorce topic was mentioned several times. In my opinion the way of communication and relationship dynamics changed a lot. Not only among couples, as well among friends, we became too egoistic, boring and lazy because we define luck differently nowadays, like Jamesbond would say neoliberalism changed our views towards felicity. If I don’t have friends nor a romantic relationship, I have instagram, tinder, netflix, pornhub etc. I can earn a lot of money and can buy expensive things which make me happy instead of wasting time for maintaining a relationship, which is more difficult. We are spoiled.

[happycow]

My father was already married and had his first child at my age, I think I am a totally loser comparing to him. I am telling my feelings to strangers while I am watching stranger things on Netflix, I should go out talk to girls and having a date at McDonalds.

On the other hand last time I talked to a girl she used her pepper spray against me.

peppers spray??? but why??

[Eliades]

Probably not, considering how the American courts are, and at this point in my life I've acquired too much, so I'd have a lot to loose. Definitely want babies though.

[hazmatnik]

Some of my friends and relatives divorced only after 1 or 2 years of marriage. :(
Very sad and like a failure, and if I get marry I want modest traditional woman, to who I can trust.
Marriage is serious thing.

We live in crazy times.

For me it is a failure, we lasted four years.
What my father was doing is just pointless :picard1:

[Marshall Theodore]

hell no

marriage and children bores me

[Victor]

Yeh I plan to marry before I'm 40. I feel quite confident atm for the family so if I'm not gonna die in total war in near future, I will probably be a family guy.

[Atlantic Reptilian]

I've never wanted to be married or have children. This has been an issue in the past because you're wasting a woman's time if she's looking for a future husband to have children. The last relationship I was in I let go of because she was in her 30s, and I didn't want to waste her time. It dawned on me her clock was ticking and it would be wrong of me to waste her time.

How long have you felt like this? Forever?

[Atlantic Reptilian]

I personally wouldn't want to get married or have children of my own, but I wouldn't mind taking care of any nephews or children of friends if they needed that support. I feel like that would be my responsibility in such a situation.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

How long have you felt like this? Forever?

Since the day I realized I didn't want to share my toys.

[Atlantic Reptilian]

Since the day I realized I didn't want to share my toys.

xD

[Hektor12]

Hopefully.

[Incal]

Not in this country.

[BakersfieldChimp]

I married my college sweetheart after I finished my undergrad...still at it


l found a woman willing to put up with me. A person doesn't let that slip through their fingers.

[Seya]

For sure I will... I cannot imagine living my life alone.

[Mopi Licinius Crassus]

For sure I will... I cannot imagine living my life alone.

I'll marry you next year, promise :p

[Mortimer]

I think I will never maybe I can gain strength through abstinence and prayer, like a Priest or Monk.

[Alenka]

Rather not.

Don't get me wrong, the idea of a life-long loving relationship sounds good to me.
I would even call it ideal in my view.

But personally I don't necessarily see marriage as the way of attaining that.
On the contrary, it sometimes makes people complacent, from what I've noticed.

Many married couples seem to take their relationship somewhat for granted.
Perhaps that's why the divorce rate is so high.

The institution of marriage is easy to get into, and hard to get out of.
It would be much more valuable if it was the opposite.

I don't fear waking up alone.
What I fear is waking up next to a person who wishes they were elsewhere.

So if I'm to spend the rest of my life together with someone, I want it to be just because we felt like being together, day by day.
Not because of an age-old promise. Not because it's too much of a hassle to leave. Not because "it's cheaper to keep her."

Knowing, that of the million other places where he could easily whenever go and be, he's staying next to me.
In my mind it would be much more satisfying to be together that way.

I don't want us to be bound by a contract, I want us to be bound by nothing but love.

[Atlantic Reptilian]

Rather not.

Don't get me wrong, the idea of a life-long loving relationship sounds good to me.
I would even call it ideal in my view.

But personally I don't necessarily see marriage as the way of attaining that.
On the contrary, it sometimes makes people complacent, from what I've noticed.

Many married couples seem to take their relationship somewhat for granted.
Perhaps that's why the divorce rate is so high.

The institution of marriage is easy to get into, and hard to get out of.
It would be much more valuable if it was the opposite.

I don't fear waking up alone.
What I fear is waking up next to a person who wishes they were elsewhere.

So if I'm to spend the rest of my life with someone, I want it to be just because we feel like being together, day by day.
Not because of an age-old promise. Not because it's too much of a hassle to leave. Not because "it's cheaper to keep her."

Knowing, that of the million other places where he could easily whenever go and be, he's staying next to me.
In my mind it would be much more satisfying to be together that way.

I don't want us to be bound by a contract, I want us to be bound by nothing but love.

Unfortunately, many people confuse love for lust, hence they realize that when all the chemistry is gone (which will happen sooner or later) they will become disappointed in each other.

And some unfortunately let their significant other use them as they wish, which doesn't last in the long run - and this happens for both men and women - and results in divorce.
But this can also happen in friendships, so I would say it has to do with people not being emotionally mature.

But I don't really know what can be done about it since you cannot make someone mature.

[rothaer]

(...)
The institution of marriage is easy to get into, and hard to get out of.
It would be much more valuable if it was the opposite.
(...)

I'm not sure that what is hard to get out of is really the institution of marriage. In fact, it's easy as well.

Where it's "hard to get out" is all the intricacies of a partnership built to last, with children, house, professional orientation etc. But this is not dependent on a formal marriage. You have essentially the same intricacies if you are not married but do have the same projects. You get intricacies with whatever bigger undertaking, making an education, buying a house, a car, furniture etc. That's unavoidable if you want to reach bigger goals.


Knowing, that of the million other places where he could easily whenever go and be, he's staying next to me.
In my mind it would be much more satisfying to be together that way.

I also would consider that most satisfying. And because of that one should never stop someone that wants to leave.


I don't want us to be bound by a contract, I want us to be bound by nothing but love.

OMG, yeah. But this is not how it works. Habit, laziness and investment (of life time, emotions and money) are other important factors that will keep you together - if you stay together. Precautionary: nothing of this does mean that you must feel uncomfortable.

[rothaer]

"Will you get married in your life?":

I'm married for the second time.

What's my attitude towards the institution of marriage? In earlier times I considered it important and a must to be married. But after I later came to the conclusion that the formal marriage was an invention by the church to be able to carry out marriage prohibitions in order to destroy European clan structures and to exercise statial power towards the people - and it still somewhat is - I see it more critical. So I'm not upset when I experience that a formal marriage gets somewhat out of fashion. On the other hand it's still a good way for two people to start a long term project for being a couple and a family and demonstrating the willingness for that.

If people do not marry out of reservations about a permanent commitment, I do not think that is good. There should be such a readiness.

[Jana]

of course. I have failed marriage(s) behind, always willing to try once again xD

[Aldaris]

Rather not.

Don't get me wrong, the idea of a life-long loving relationship sounds good to me.
I would even call it ideal in my view.

But personally I don't necessarily see marriage as the way of attaining that.
On the contrary, it sometimes makes people complacent, from what I've noticed.

Many married couples seem to take their relationship somewhat for granted.
Perhaps that's why the divorce rate is so high.

The institution of marriage is easy to get into, and hard to get out of.
It would be much more valuable if it was the opposite.

I don't fear waking up alone.
What I fear is waking up next to a person who wishes they were elsewhere.

So if I'm to spend the rest of my life together with someone, I want it to be just because we felt like being together, day by day.
Not because of an age-old promise. Not because it's too much of a hassle to leave. Not because "it's cheaper to keep her."

Knowing, that of the million other places where he could easily whenever go and be, he's staying next to me.
In my mind it would be much more satisfying to be together that way.

I don't want us to be bound by a contract, I want us to be bound by nothing but love.

You won't betray me, I won't betray you. Enough for me. The million other places mean nothing to me at all. You can take my word for that.

[Mejgusu]

You won't betray me, I won't betray you. Enough for me. The million other places mean nothing to me at all. You can take my word for that.

I never saw this side of this forum. Besides of analyzing side profiles of strangers and dicks annoyance about a picture of Messi with a goat, some people know to be romantic. If we could hear each other I would scream kiss your boy Alenka.

Sorry I am a little bit sentimental, I watched bridge to terabithia today and during the winter I feel lonely.

[Seya]

I'll marry you next year, promise :p

Gee thanks...

[Celestia]

You won't betray me, I won't betray you. Enough for me. The million other places mean nothing to me at all. You can take my word for that.

That was really sweet lol