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Richmondbread
04-14-2024, 11:45 PM
When we say a person is "average looking" it could mean they wouldn't stand out in a crowd. But that doesn't mean they can't be considered attractive, right? A person who is high end average would have pleasant facial features, but nothing that stands out as amazingly stunning, yet people may still enjoy looking at them. Wouldn't that be how it works? There is low end average and high end average. A high end average person could be handsome/pretty.

Hyena
04-15-2024, 12:37 AM
YOU are LOW end. Period. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but you just won't get the message that you're a little homely and you need to go fuck off

Richmondbread
04-15-2024, 12:38 AM
YOU are LOW end. Period. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but you just won't get the message that you're a little homely and you need to go fuck off

I have decent hairline for my age and radiant skin. I don't see why you are not giving me advice on how to improve.

Hyena
04-15-2024, 12:54 AM
I have decent hairline for my age and radiant skin. I don't see why you are not giving me advice on how to improve.

Your skin is not radiant. It looks like potato flesh.

Kess
04-15-2024, 01:10 AM
Why are you obsessed with how you look?

Just let it go. It doesn't matter much especially if you are a man.

Richmondbread
04-15-2024, 01:11 AM
Why are you obsessed with how you look?

Just let it go. It doesn't matter much especially if you are a man.

If I were handsome you would not be saying that.

Kess
04-15-2024, 01:16 AM
If I were handsome you would not be saying that.

I am saying it doesn't matter much as you think.

Richmondbread
04-15-2024, 01:21 AM
I am saying it doesn't matter much as you think.

okay but if I were a handsome man would you probably be telling me something different? You would probably say "You are handsome why are you worrying about it?"

Kess
04-15-2024, 01:25 AM
okay but if I were a handsome man would you probably be telling me something different? You would probably say "You are handsome why are you worrying about it?"

I'm telling you, whether you're handsome or not, it doesn't matter much.

The question is, Why do you care? Do you want to be a model? Do you want to impress a woman who greatly cares about how you look?

Comealongwithme
04-15-2024, 01:27 AM
okay but if I were a handsome man would you probably be telling me something different? You would probably say "You are handsome why are you worrying about it?"

You are handsome why are you worrying about it?

Incal
04-15-2024, 01:38 AM
okay but if I were a handsome man would you probably be telling me something different? You would probably say "You are handsome why are you worrying about it?"

Looks won't help you at all if you are weird.

Hyena
04-15-2024, 01:43 AM
If I were handsome you would not be saying that.

And if you were a adult you would quit starting threads like this. And quit throwing a tantrum and shutting them down when things didn't go your way.

Richmondbread
04-15-2024, 02:10 AM
AI says I'm good looking

https://i.postimg.cc/FhFNWvKP/Screenshot-488.png

Comealongwithme
04-15-2024, 02:32 AM
AI says I'm good looking

https://i.postimg.cc/FhFNWvKP/Screenshot-488.png

The AI shows the YouTuber you posted has a higher beauty score xD Damn.

https://i.postimg.cc/zD7Bj82y/Screenshot-14-4-2024-223014-aifaceanalyzer-online.jpg

Richmondbread
04-15-2024, 02:33 AM
The AI shows the YouTuber you posted has a higher beauty score xD Damn
https://i.postimg.cc/zD7Bj82y/Screenshot-14-4-2024-223014-aifaceanalyzer-online.jpg

thats because he has a much thinner looking face. Also I think his picture is frauded some.

Hyena
04-15-2024, 04:21 AM
AI says I'm good looking

https://i.postimg.cc/FhFNWvKP/Screenshot-488.png

what does REAL intelligence say?

Universe
04-15-2024, 05:54 AM
When we say a person is "average looking" it could mean they wouldn't stand out in a crowd. But that doesn't mean they can't be considered attractive, right? A person who is high end average would have pleasant facial features, but nothing that stands out as amazingly stunning, yet people may still enjoy looking at them. Wouldn't that be how it works? There is low end average and high end average. A high end average person could be handsome/pretty.
You have never been there, have you...

rajputprincess
04-15-2024, 07:44 AM
Bro bro. You are 45 year old. Looking good in 40s is very hard

Even celebrities usually don't look good in late 40s.


But you are in your early 40s . Most young women don't want old guys. Go for older women and accept single mother's

And don't use dating apps. Dating apps is useless if you are not s chad. Ask someone to introduce you to their single mother friend

And get a job lol so you can support a family.

jakob
04-15-2024, 07:49 AM
AI says I'm good looking

I would not trust the rating of that, try putting in various images and see how unreliable it is. You're basically getting a random number.

Immanenz
04-15-2024, 07:52 AM
get thin and jacked and you ll feel way better and you ll look way better.

jakob
04-15-2024, 07:53 AM
Go for older women and accept single mother's


Ask someone to introduce you to their single mother friend

LOL. That's quite a sly way to say you think he has poor chances with women. You say go for older women as if they're all single mothers.

rajputprincess
04-15-2024, 08:11 AM
LOL. That's quite a sly way to say you think he has poor chances with women. You say go for older women as if they're all single mothers.

Most older women have kid's.
He is in his early 40s. Bro and don't have proper job

Maybe getting even single mother is hard. Since he can't support her. And he is obviously not attractive just average looking



He don't like race mixing or I would have suggested latin America.

Passport bros are doing good there. He probably can find younger decent looking one. But that dude have no job so I am not sure if those women would go for him. Most passport bros. I follow at least are middle class.

So I am just telling him what he can do.
Get a job and Marry a single mother in her early 40s.

My aunt had kids at late 40s

Richmondbread
04-15-2024, 08:45 PM
Most older women have kid's.
He is in his early 40s. Bro and don't have proper job

Maybe getting even single mother is hard. Since he can't support her. And he is obviously not attractive just average looking



He don't like race mixing or I would have suggested latin America.

Passport bros are doing good there. He probably can find younger decent looking one. But that dude have no job so I am not sure if those women would go for him. Most passport bros. I follow at least are middle class.

So I am just telling him what he can do.
Get a job and Marry a single mother in her early 40s.

My aunt had kids at late 40s

What makes me unattractive? I am somewhat handsome. I have been told by several women I am handsome.

Richmondbread
04-15-2024, 08:47 PM
Bro bro. You are 45 year old. Looking good in 40s is very hard

Even celebrities usually don't look good in late 40s.


But you are in your early 40s . Most young women don't want old guys. Go for older women and accept single mother's

And don't use dating apps. Dating apps is useless if you are not s chad. Ask someone to introduce you to their single mother friend

And get a job lol so you can support a family.

Most women DO want older men. I'm not that old and it isn't hard to look good. I already lost 20 lbs and I just have about 70 more lbs to lose. When I get lean in the face you can see more my natural features and how they come together- borderline handsome, not at all unattractive.

Richmondbread
04-15-2024, 09:35 PM
Bro bro. You are 45 year old. Looking good in 40s is very hard

Even celebrities usually don't look good in late 40s.


But you are in your early 40s . Most young women don't want old guys. Go for older women and accept single mother's

And don't use dating apps. Dating apps is useless if you are not s chad. Ask someone to introduce you to their single mother friend

And get a job lol so you can support a family.

IMO unattractive people look more like this:

https://m.media-amazon.com/images/M/MV5BYjY4N2E5MmMtZjhjMS00NmIwLTkwNWUtN2EyZDA3NTJhNj Q2XkEyXkFqcGdeQXVyMTM1MzYxMDIx._V1_.jpg

BakersfieldChimp
04-15-2024, 11:43 PM
Most women DO want older men. I'm not that old and it isn't hard to look good. I already lost 20 lbs and I just have about 70 more lbs to lose. When I get lean in the face you can see more my natural features and how they come together- borderline handsome, not at all unattractive.

Lose all the weight you can. The fact you can't support yourself is a much bigger deal breaker than your looks.

Saitama
04-15-2024, 11:47 PM
Someone still finds those 'unattractive' people attractive. They don't look hideous, either. They can surely tweak their appearances and look a lot better.

Man, I feel like as a total newcomer I happened to stumble upon one of your countless insane threads and tried to give you some advice, but you really don't seem mentally able to accept any advice. I don't think that there is an answer that anyone can give you, and I went more in depth than most would either care to or be capable of, in-depth behind the logical reasons why most of the bullshit overly simplistic answers people will suggest of things you can do/think/change are actually are worth incorporating into your life. You can't really change your appearance that much. Lose weight, get plastic surgery and hope it actually makes you look better rather than worse/weirder, etc...

I think anyone reading this should just stop entertaining this guy. It's literally the best thing you can do. It sounds like you're not even the nicest guy in terms of the way you might speak of others and certain things. I don't think that it's wrong to be a "nationalist" or racial preservationist or anything like that if you don't wish harm on others unless they are threatening it upon you. But you also seem to be sort of a jerk in other ways, and that also repels people in general not just women.

Everyone, just stop fucking replying to this guy's countless repetitive threads and eventually he might just get offline and try to live his life and hopefully do productive things. That's the best chance he'll ever have at finding a woman. Posting here all day every day will never help. He probably doesn't want help, he doesn't want to actually do things to change and grow as a person over time. Maybe it's the autism. I don't know. But he doesn't want to make effort, just wants people to tell him what he wants to hear and even then, that's a very fleeting mental high that does nothing at all for him because he's still going to make the same mistakes through his actions and words and thought processes brought upon by a fucked mentality. Let him figure shit out himself, he's not going to learn from anything anyone says here, positive or negative.

If nothing else, ignoring him means y'all don't have to waste your time and effort typing the SAME bullshit day in and out on a guy who probably barely leaves his house and just posts self-pitying/hating threads all damn day over shit that he cannot ever really change besides losing weight and practicing healthy habits.

Hyena
04-15-2024, 11:56 PM
Lose all the weight you can. The fact you can't support yourself is a much bigger deal breaker than your looks.

Yeah, that pesky little problem does keep popping up. Frankly, in his situation I can't imagine I would even give a 5hit about my appearance, politics, rainbows flag, putative future love life, planet fitness policies, or anything else the guy incessantly harps about. I really think I would be laser-focused on figuring out how to make a living. I mean, I would be terrified, not having any plausible plan to keep a roof overhead.

Hyena
04-16-2024, 12:05 AM
Someone still finds those 'unattractive' people attractive. They don't look hideous, either. They can surely tweak their appearances and look a lot better.

Man, I feel like as a total newcomer I happened to stumble upon one of your countless insane threads and tried to give you some advice, but you really don't seem mentally able to accept any advice. I don't think that there is an answer that anyone can give you, and I went more in depth than most would either care to or be capable of, in-depth behind the logical reasons why most of the bullshit overly simplistic answers people will suggest of things you can do/think/change are actually are worth incorporating into your life. You can't really change your appearance that much. Lose weight, get plastic surgery and hope it actually makes you look better rather than worse/weirder, etc...

I think anyone reading this should just stop entertaining this guy. It's literally the best thing you can do. It sounds like you're not even the nicest guy in terms of the way you might speak of others and certain things. I don't think that it's wrong to be a "nationalist" or racial preservationist or anything like that if you don't wish harm on others unless they are threatening it upon you. But you also seem to be sort of a jerk in other ways, and that also repels people in general not just women.

Everyone, just stop fucking replying to this guy's countless repetitive threads and eventually he might just get offline and try to live his life and hopefully do productive things. That's the best chance he'll ever have at finding a woman. Posting here all day every day will never help. He probably doesn't want help, he doesn't want to actually do things to change and grow as a person over time. Maybe it's the autism. I don't know. But he doesn't want to make effort, just wants people to tell him what he wants to hear and even then, that's a very fleeting mental high that does nothing at all for him because he's still going to make the same mistakes through his actions and words and thought processes brought upon by a fucked mentality. Let him figure shit out himself, he's not going to learn from anything anyone says here, positive or negative.

If nothing else, ignoring him means y'all don't have to waste your time and effort typing the SAME bullshit day in and out on a guy who probably barely leaves his house and just posts self-pitying/hating threads all damn day over shit that he cannot ever really change besides losing weight and practicing healthy habits.

A lot of good points there. No, he does not seem to get out much - most of his 'adult' life has been spent on the internet. Mostly making an ass of himself. As to advice, he won't take any. When he does seek advice, it's usually about something very unimportant. And all he wants to hear is that a) he's already perfect or b) he can quickly attain perfection with little to no effort.

As to why folks respond? Some are well-meaning. Some get quite pissed off (not without reason)at some of what comes out of his mouth, and delight in attacking him. Some just see him as a source of entertainment - a lolcow.

Saitama
04-16-2024, 12:18 AM
A lot of good points there. No, he does not seem to get out much - most of his 'adult' life has been spent on the internet. Mostly making an ass of himself. As to advice, he won't take any. When he does seek advice, it's usually about something very unimportant. And all he wants to hear is that a) he's already perfect or b) he can quickly attain perfection with little to no effort.

As to why folks respond? Some are well-meaning. Some get quite pissed off (not without reason)at some of what comes out of his mouth, and delight in attacking him. Some just see him as a source of entertainment - a lolcow.

Well, him accepting that, like many of us, he's far from perfect and would still be that way even if he was much better looking physically... Would be a huge major step forward in actually becoming more attractive to a woman who might've not seen him as such as he is now. But he'll never figure a lot of this simple but profound shit out. A lot of things seem like... "well, duh"... But most people don't truly meditate on basic ass principals of life and actually live in accordance with them. Or else they would actually undergo personality/character development over time, which literally helps with every facet of their life and it's an exponential type of change.

It's so simple. Take two fellows of similar levels of attractiveness. One has a personality like OP's, neurotic and always overthinking things in a negative way and thus creating crazy narratives in his head that just suck the energy out of a room through negative self-fulfilling behavior... Or a chill guy with no preconceived notions of how his day/life/interactions should be, and just kinda goes with the flow and is naturally a witty dude who can riff and banter with just about anyone without judging them too much. Which guy is going to generally get the attention or KEEP the attention of the people he meets?

But I guess OP doesn't even play the game to even have a chance of winning. Too afraid to leave his house and risk rejection or failure socially or romantically I suppose? It makes sense, he's legitimately got what amounts to a medical psychological "disability" that will hold him back if he ignores it's limitations on him and refuses to seek help from somewhere.

Yeah, I can see that he's a Forum lolcow of sorts. A friend of mine LOVES to watch Youtube vids on Lolcows. Usually they really are somehow such horrible human beings that while their lives are super sad, often in just a pathetic way, you simultaneously can't even feel bad for them at all when you see the shit they do to their family members, or how they're exposed for sexual abuse of others, etc..... No sympathy at all at that point.

I admit, the spontaneity of such a person's insanity can be entertaining. A bit of a dark and twisted enjoyment I suppose, as schadenfreude can be.. But hey, who am I to judge. lol.

rajputprincess
04-16-2024, 03:01 AM
Most women DO want older men. I'm not that old and it isn't hard to look good. I already lost 20 lbs and I just have about 70 more lbs to lose. When I get lean in the face you can see more my natural features and how they come together- borderline handsome, not at all unattractive.

Remember dude many women virtue signal.

If you are Handsome then you would get matches on tinder. Attractive men get matches there.

Finding low inhib women is hard.
Keep coping. Dating sites statistics have shown that women want guys around their age.

Women wanting older mens is male fantasy.

There is no genetic advantage of wanting older guy. It is so obvious

BakersfieldChimp
04-16-2024, 03:31 AM
Remember dude many women virtue signal.

If you are Handsome then you would get matches on tinder. Attractive men get matches there.

Finding low inhib women is hard.
Keep coping. Dating sites statistics have shown that women want guys around their age.

Women wanting older mens is male fantasy.

There is no genetic advantage of wanting older guy. It is so obvious

Most women looking for older men are looking for financial security.
If you don't have a lot to offer in that area. They ain't looking for you.

rajputprincess
04-16-2024, 04:41 AM
Most women looking for older men are looking for financial security.
If you don't have a lot to offer in that area. They ain't looking at you.

Average age gap in most developed countries is 1 to 3 year old. While in African countries it is like 8 to 10 .
Because men buy younger women in Africa

Now bro. I have seen many dating sites statistics.
Women irrespective of age go for same age guy
Same age mean 0 to 3 year age gap.while all men try to go for younger women's. I mean men of all ages prefer women in their 20s

It is obvious that women like same age dudes at least physically.

And most are not looking for older guys.

And rich don't have proper job. Rich is not very good looking either. For women to provide for him
(I have seen women literally providing for good looking dudes)
Literally do experiment on tinder. If you are attractive men then you would get many matches.

We need to stop virtue signal and give him realistic opinion.

Going for younger women won't work.

Hyena
04-16-2024, 04:48 AM
Average age gap in most developed countries is 1 to 3 year old. While in African countries it is like 8 to 10 .
Because men buy younger women in Africa

Now bro. I have seen many dating sites statistics.
Women irrespective of age go for same age guy
Same age mean 0 to 3 year age gap.while all men try to go for younger women's. I mean men of all ages prefer women in their 20s

It is obvious that women like same age dudes at least physically.

And most are not looking for older guys.

And rich don't have proper job. Rich is not very good looking either. For women to provide for him
(I have seen women literally providing for good looking dudes)
Literally do experiment on tinder. If you are attractive men then you would get many matches.

We need to stop virtue signal and give him realistic opinion.

Going for younger women won't work.

This is the part where, usually, Meade insults the other poster and then locks the thread.

rajputprincess
04-16-2024, 04:52 AM
This is the part where, usually, Meade insults the other poster and then locks the thread.

He want virtue signalling then not realistic opinion

I am low inhib dude and black pilled

I am not gonna lie and say that he can get a cute white women in her late 20s Or early 30s

I explained what he can do. If he don't want to be realistic then whatever. I don't care.

Get a proper job. If possible and go for women around his age. And accept single mother.

hazmatnik
04-16-2024, 05:04 AM
Most women DO want older men. I'm not that old and it isn't hard to look good. I already lost 20 lbs and I just have about 70 more lbs to lose. When I get lean in the face you can see more my natural features and how they come together- borderline handsome, not at all unattractive.

Richmond, i will join you and we gonna play this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2XR0hjXzpg
, we gonna slay all the way from southern Washington County, up to Loudoun County. Its not about how you look, but what you play on your gigs :coffee:

BakersfieldChimp
04-16-2024, 02:23 PM
He want virtue signalling then not realistic opinion

I am low inhib dude and black pilled

I am not gonna lie and say that he can get a cute white women in her late 20s Or early 30s

I explained what he can do. If he don't want to be realistic then whatever. I don't care.

Get a proper job. If possible and go for women around his age. AMnd accept single mother.

He has a lot of catching up to do. Most of us start our romantic lives in our mid-teens. We don't know what to do and We make all those early mistakes. We learn from them and go forward.
No one is exempt from having to figure it out in the beginning.

Even if the person postpones it until their forties.

rajputprincess
04-16-2024, 02:27 PM
He has a lot of catching up to do. Most of us start our romantic lives in our mid-teens. We don't know what to do and We make all those early mistakes. We learn from them and go forward.
No one is exempt from having to figure it out in the beginning.

Even if the person postpones it until their forties.

https://www.theapricity.com/forum/showthread.php?383590-Rare-stacy#post7956263

See this. 2k likes in 24 hour. This is result of attractive girl

Hack even granny get 657 likes in 24 hours

https://www.theapricity.com/forum/showthread.php?383590-Rare-stacy#post7956263

Now at this point. How the fuck would rich get a young cute girl
If this is what she is getting?

I am being very polite just realistic about his option

BakersfieldChimp
04-16-2024, 02:45 PM
https://www.theapricity.com/forum/showthread.php?383590-Rare-stacy#post7956263

See this. 2k likes in 24 hour. This is result of attractive girl

Hack even granny get 657 likes in 24 hours

https://www.theapricity.com/forum/showthread.php?383590-Rare-stacy#post7956263

Now at this point. How the fuck would rich get a young cute girl
If this is what she is getting?

I am being very polite just realistic about his option

This is spot on.

I don't see the point of patting someone on the head and saying they are doing good when they obviously are not.
When a person is barking up the wrong tree, they will be left with nothing.
Telling them which direction to go down gives them a chance to find something.

He acts like a 5'2" teen girl, realizing she will never be a supermodel.
Except his tantrum has lasted more than 25 years.

Hyena
04-16-2024, 05:58 PM
https://www.theapricity.com/forum/showthread.php?383590-Rare-stacy#post7956263

How the fuck would rich get a young cute girl
If this is what she is getting?

I am being very polite just realistic about his option

But remember - rich can yodel.

BakersfieldChimp
04-16-2024, 11:53 PM
But remember - rich can yodel.

That is a very true. Many women have spent their youth with exciting "devil may care" chaps who go into things such as Rocket Science and Nuclear Physics.
However, when the women are ready to settle down and start a family. They know they better find themselves a part time fast food worker.
Especially one that yodels!