Would you ever give an ex a second chance?

[Sikeliot]

Be it ex boyfriend/girlfriend or ex husband/wife.

I love these vague, off-topic life questions if you guys have not noticed.

[Marmie Dearest]

It very much depends on the circumstances and how I felt about the person to begin with, and why the relationship ended.

Like I briefly (maybe six months) dated a family friend who my sisters fixed me up with, and I really liked him, but then he cheated on me. When his relationship didn't work out with that woman (and they were together for nearly two years and had a child together!) he seriously started contacting me, telling me how sorry he was, how he owns a house now and just wants a real family, because he never married the woman he had a child with and now she's with another man and I was nice at first but I'm just like..."you've got to be joking! NO WAY!"

That was a pretty crazy, extreme example though.

I was in a relationship for six years where we broke up and got back together during the six years, but that was different, he never cheated on me, and we were never broken up for very long. We've been broken up for several years now, though, and he is married to someone else just recently, so we won't be getting back together lol.

So with me it really depends. It depends on how long I'm with the person, and why we broke up in the first place - just the over all relationship and life circumstances.

I can't give a hard, fast answer for every single situation.

[rhiannon]

Maybe if I weren't married, lol.

[mymy]

I wouldn't give chance to my ex... My inner voice say big NO! Not that my relation(s) finished bad, actually totally opposite...
Is it weird if i say that i don't feel any sexual attraction anymore? But that's why because my relations were on spiritual level more than a physical.

Who knows in future, if i meet man of my dreams and we break up somehow, of course i would give him chance... So i guess it depends.

[Loki]

Depending on the reason, and also the conduct afterwards. But it's probably better to be forward-looking ... so many interesting people in the world we haven't yet met. :)

[Nairi]

Ex is ex, page is turned over. Basta...

[Susi]

I don't want to but I know I would.

[billErobreren]

Eh... Probably not :ohwell:

Ex is ex, page is turned over. Basta...
Couldn't have said it better myself.:)

[Drawing-slim]

No.

[SwordoftheVistula]

It's always turned out bad in my observations

[Lithium]

We were together 3 years and for this time I got sure that she does not deserve a second chance, she is a turned page of my life. But it also depends on the situation and circumstances, maybe in the future I would think otherwise for somebody else...

[mymy]

We were together 3 years and for this time I got sure that she does not deserve a second chance, she is a turned page of my life. But it also depends on the situation and circumstances, maybe in the future I would think otherwise for somebody else...

In my case, it not about if he deserve second chance or not, it's about my feelings and my decision. Deserve or not, i don't feel anything when think about him... Just i don't care. So, why would i give him second chance when i feel nothing to him anymore. I started thinking that i can't feel in love, i'm waiting for it to happen, but my relations are always based on friendships. Plus my relations wasn't really full of "physical contacts" (it was more exception, than rule). I guess that is a reason why i don't want it again... people search for lovers, not only for friends. :rolleyes2:

[Hurrem sultana]

Yes if there are still feelings i would

so it depends

[Flintlocke]

I don't bother about ex'es. I'm too busy trying to convince bosnian to be my current. :p

[Hurrem sultana]

I don't bother about ex'es. I'm too busy trying to convince bosnian to be my current. :p

:D

[Queen B]

Depending on the reason of the break up.
There are thinks that can change, and some others that don't.

F.e. If we broke up because he cheated or lying then NO.
If we broke up because of distance, then I d give a second chance.

[HungAryan]

Sure, why not?

[Germanicus]

An old golfing friend of mine said to me after my marriage ended, "look at it this way, when one door closes, another opens"
He was right!

[someone]

An old golfing friend of mine said to me after my marriage ended, "look at it this way, when one door closes, another opens"
He was right!

shut up

[Germanicus]

shut up

Ok...i'll shut up mate.
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[someone]

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[Odin]

Nope.

[Annie999]

I did once and then regretted it!

Of course it depends on the reason for the break up, but I think in most cases it's not worthy. It's like reading the same book twice, you already know how it ends!

[Sacrificed Ram]

Yes! Mainly after she did multiple orgies with big cocked black males.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

It's not good to be fickle. Once a decision is made you should stick to it unless new information comes to light that makes you rethink the situation.

[dperucca]

Your first inclination is usually your best. What we leave behind is usually left behind for a reason.

[Kriptc06]

fuck no, rot in hell

[Black Panther]

I'd fuck my ex again, but that's about it.

[Rædwald]

Never.

[The Blade]

No, past is past for this type of things.

[rhiannon]

Only if I wasn't married to my husband lol.

[MysteriousWays]

As a rule, no, but depends on specific circumstances.

[Bogdan]

It all depends on the reason that caused the breakup in the first place. I am one to try to work things out unless the woman was completely horrible, so if I'm not with somebody who I had been with in the past then chances are there is a good reason for me to stay away from that woman. :laugh:

[paradox]

No I wouldn't. An ex is an ex for a reason.

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[Papastratosels26]

No

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[RenaRyuguu]

No idk why he broke up with me I'm in LA rn

[RenaRyuguu]

I'm really sad

[RenaRyuguu]

sure why not I don't remember what I voted here but yeah sure why not

[Kriptc06]

worst idea ever, dont do that.. I speak out of experience. Move on

[El_Jibaro]

I did. It has been working out great.

Although we originally broke up due to some particular circumstances at that time, not anything serious.

[Celestia]

My bf and I went through a year long separation and it was the best for our relationship. We are doing very well now. Sometimes 2nd chances are okay.

[Roy]

Yes.

[Mr.G]

Never happened with me, when a relationship ended, it was over. I was always fascinated by people that got back together.